Black Mothers and Effeminate Black Sons

[marcuz]

Truth. I love how it never occurs to just seek commitment first or commitment minded men.

Apparently to women a more sensible solution is for them to keep fukking with the same dudes and have random third party males collectively shame them and force them to become responsible fathers.

because they're ass backwards.

you tell them they should seek commited relationships with men who actually enjoy their company, and these black women tilt their heads like confused puppies.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

It is reality. Not every man that doesn't take care of his kids is some broke wack ass nikka. Example: Plenty of men get remarried have another set of kids and take care of those kids by the new wife but barely do anything for his other kids. They're tons of examples. Y'all guys stay using the stereotypical examples like other scenarios couldn't exist. And you are making this about race. Let's just say men in general.

I stand by what I wrote because that's what I see a majority of the time.

 

[MewTwo]

Me and half of my friends were raised by our moms and we didn't grow up to be gay

Do you wear skinny jeans?
Do you treat women like shyt?
Are you one of those relationship hoppers who forget about a girl as soon as you're done fukking her?

 

[observe]

Do you wear skinny jeans?
Do you treat women like shyt?
Are you one of those relationship hoppers who forget about a girl as soon as you're done fukking her?

Lol.. The skinny jean fad has been played out in Cali for a few years

 

[rogue_riezo]

I can't fukk with that video, I was raised by a single mother and had no interest in gangbanging or sucking dikk.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

These are lame excuses. Women shouldn't pick ain't shyt men but men should take care of their kids. Period point blank. There is no way around it. The real question is why are these men not taking care of their kids?

Those women run them off with their fukked up attitude:screamina:

 

[KinksandCoils]

Those women run them off with their fukked up attitude:screamina:

Please tell me u are trolling cause that's the woat excuse.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Please tell me u are trolling cause that's the woat excuse.

If a woman has a bad attitude, it's only going to be amplified when she's pregnant and hormonal. Don't nobody wanna be around someone tryna get buck wild with you over every little thing.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

American blacks do not have a culture.

I'm Black American and I do have a culture. To go even further, my culture is the reason why so many African and Caribbean immigrants were granted the opportunity to be in America today.

 

[skeetsinternal]

i didnt intend this thread to be race track road kill

 

[kp404]

I got this video on facebook and wanted to share here for discussion. A discussion about single black mothers raising their sons to be bytch nikkas. The video explains alot and while watching this video i was asking myself how can we save our blacks sons from the grasps of " these evil black bytches". Lets go.



@Black @Chris.B @kp404 @marcuz @Matt504 @Killer Instinct @Emperor_ReinScarf @Dlee954 @zayk35

I have problem with ANY parent or PARENTS raising their boys to be bytchmade...its a problem in all communities and there are alot of bytch/feminine dudes that grew up in my area that had both parents, or just a mother, or just a father...Parenting is parenting, regardless of gender. Yes, all boys need a father in the household, I 100 percent advocate that, but let's not act like bytch feminine dudes only come from single parent households...all parents need to love, care, discipline, and raise their children everywhere.

 

[kp404]

Single mothers either raise thugs or emasculated males.

Ridiculous generalization.

@skeetsinternal black Americans have a very distinctive and rich culture that has been leeched by other ethnicities, classes, and races over time...to say we don't have a culture is backwards...in fact reading through this thread, there are alot of illogical generalizations being thrown around; I thought this was a thread to have a real discussion, but nevermind...I'll let this turn into another anti-black women and black bashing thread and exit.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Why can't the women wait until they're married to have sex?

Because that would require these women to exercise a form of self control and accountability. Women aren't leaders naturally and so you can't expect them to make that conscious decision when their blood is flowing from being sexually excited.
The problem is, the men who would want to settle down in their late teens to their mid 20s are not the men the majority of young women want. That's the harsh reality.
We established those men are unsuitable, so why do they continue to lust after them? The answer is simple.
The same way we as men are attracted to the female built like a stallion that wears animal print and leggings, advertising her build to everyone. We know she's bad news. We still lust after her.
The brash ladies man is what excites women, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's biological.
It becomes an issue when women bare those children, though.
The things that attracted her to him are what made him an unsuitable long term mate in the first place.
Black women aren't the only women who fukk these guys. EVERY group of women does.
Black women are simply the only ones who can't seem to stop having their kids en masse.
Bonnie is screwing the same type of men in high school and college. She has David's kid, though, and David has an internship lined up.
The problem women have with the "wait until you're married," approach is that they want to be able to rear these guys kids who they know are unsuitable candidates for being a father and have him do something he has and will never do, and bend to her will. Stay around.
If it could be helped, why would she prefer to date and have boring ass Chad's children when she could have Tyreke's?
If she could lock him down, she could kill two birds with one stone.
"Tupac in a business suit."
These type of men won't settle down and stay with them, and definitely aren't interested in marriage during their majority of their child rearing years, though.
A lot of black women will never admit that, so the argument instead becomes a case of, "Why can't this guy who I knew from the get-go wasn't going to be a good father just stay with me?!"
Chad simply doesn't make her feel the same way and the women before them have perpetuated this pattern for so long it's all they know.
If those men magically started telling women, "Hey, let's wait for marriage before sex," then they would cease to be attractive to them.

 

[Mr. Negative]

its not an epidemic of worthless men, it's an epidemic of shytty choices by women. these dudes are really a minority w/multiple kids by multiple women. 3-4 BM can create over 100+ b*stard kids with the help of those willing single mothers.

it's amazing how the community will take women COMPLETELY out of the equation.

You would swear bum deadbeat nikkas in the hood were reproducing asexually or raping everything that moves, the way cats be talking about it.

don't people understand that 3/4 of the problem is that women have fallen back to being victims with zero accountability!?

Pin a chick in a corner, the very MOST you'll get is " well there needs to be more tupacs in business suits that I can let fukk me."

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

I thought this topic was going to be about aborting Black sons.