Black Male privilege is as real as White Privilege

[marcuz]

im not talking about crime im talking about patriarchy. you cant want men to be leaders but not require them to be.
so do you feel the same way about those men who live with women on section 8, and eat meals bought with foodstamps?

nobody is asking black women to follow ill equipped men, i'm just telling you to stop pretending like there aren't leaders out there.

and those dudes are bottom feeders, worse than the single mothers themselves. BW coddle those dudes with food, money and p*ssy; then turn around and bytch about the low quality of black men.

 

[PartyHeart]

yeah, except i fully acknowledge y'all are fukked up because of what single mother did.

- black women are dependent on weaves cus momma and grand momma fukked ya scalp up with perms, dookie braids and hot combs

- black women think its okay to be a single mother cus their mother was a matriarch

- black women dont want a nuclear family, or even know how to spot the right men because momma didn't have a nuclear family and didn't know how to pick the right men.


i already know the problem is upbringing, its you trynna pretend nikkas just hop out the womb criminals.

Right, because everything comes back to being the fault of Black women. Black women have all this influence and Black men have zero which is why they have no accountability and cannot be blamed for anything, yet somehow you are stupid enough to believe in Black male leadership at the same time.

Your viewpoint is literally logically impossible. Its just something you say and then shift around as necessary to absolve Black men of everything, put it all on Black women, and then shift again when its time to give all power and leadership to Black men.

 

[marcuz]

Right, because everything comes back to being the fault of Black women. Black women have all this influence and Black men have zero which is why they have no accountability and cannot be blamed for anything, yet somehow you are stupid enough to believe in Black male leadership at the same time.

Your viewpoint is literally logically impossible. Its just something you say and then shift around as necessary to absolve Black men of everything, put it all on Black women, and then shift again when its time to give all power and leadership to Black men.

black men are constantly held accountable, think i'm wrong? ask any random person why the black community is fukked up, they'll say its because of deadbeat dads and all the nikkas in jail. it's black women who cant be blamed for anything, including what goes in or comes out of them; even though y'all are the self proclaimed rock and foundation of the black community.

 

[kayslay]

nobody is asking black women to follow ill equipped men, i'm just telling you to stop pretending like there aren't leaders out there.

and those dudes are bottom feeders, worse than the single mothers themselves. BW coddle those dudes with food, money and p*ssy; then turn around and bytch about the low quality of black men.

i know there are leaders, they along with their Black wives raise quality black men&women. nut to the millions of black men& women who arent so lucky, what to do with them?
what do you consider an eqipped man?
fukkboys ournumber men 4-1. that is a reality we have to quit glossing over. you cant keep telling black women to choose better without simultaneously telling black men to be better. because that will lead to...... well you already know.

 

[kayslay]

black men are constantly held accountable, think i'm wrong? ask any random person why the black community is fukked up, they'll say its because of deadbeat dads and all the nikkas in jail. it's black women who cant be blamed for anything, including what goes in or comes out of them; even though y'all are the self proclaimed rock and foundation of the black community.

it takes two people to raise a child.
that's obvious.

 

[The Real]

i wont cosign a privilege that has never existed in this country. there's no other group targeted and hated as much as black men, and y'all want us to pretend we're getting benefits from it; fukk nah.

Targeted how, though? There are different ways of targeting people. Black men are targeted in ways that Black women are not, but Black women are also targeted in ways that Black men are not.

*You don't see Black men being raped by police on the regular.

* Black women are more likely than any group in America to work for poverty-level wages, thereby making them the most likely of all Americans to be among the working poor, even though they are often more educated than Black men.

* And while they are starting more businesses, they get less funding and make less money than Black men.

*Black females experience intimate partner violence at a rate 35% higher than that of white females, and about 22 times the rate of women of other races (and most crime is intraracial- just as most White women victims of domestic violence are beaten by White men, most Black women are beaten by Black men.)

*Black females make up about 35% of the nearly 3,500 female homicide victims.

And there are ways both are targeted. It isn't just Black men being locked up. Black women are 3 times more likely than White women to be imprisoned.

 

[PartyHeart]

Black men ARE killing each other and it's a huge problem, and they're not getting education at the same rates as black women, so how is it that 'black male privilege' exists when black men are doing worse than black women? Why are black feminists teaming up with white women and white supremacists against black men?

Because these are things you pretend to be out of the control of Black men, not a result of Black men's negative choices. And that would be fine, or at least not disgustingly hypocritical, if you didn't act like BW having OOW babies (which ironically can still not happen without the involvement of BM) is simply a result of her own negative choices. Following that logic, there is literally nothing stopping Black men from killing each other. There is even less stopping them for getting higher education.

If you think not, please tell me specifically what is stopping them from doing both of those things that simply cannot be applied to the same crap y'all spend night and day criticizing Black women for?

The black marriage rate used to be one of the highest in the nation until feminism started being implemented in the black community. They tested feminism in the black community first and implemented welfare policies that encouraged not having a man in the household. The purpose was to divide the black household, hence weakening the black family structure and also making blacks dependent on the government instead of self-sufficient.

The problems of the black community aren't solely the fault of black women or men. It's a systematic plan of destruction, and yes, feminism is one of the cornerstones, and unfortunately we're buying in. Why do you think feminism emphasizes 'independent' women? Independent means you're on your own, hence the plethora of single mothers in the community. Here's some of the sayings that are floated around by women who buy into feminism:
"I don't need no man."
"No man can tell me what to do."
"I got my own. I'm an independent woman."
"I ain't cooking or cleaning for no man and being a domestic slave."

Another core concept introduced via feminism is competition between the genders instead of cooperation. It's a classic case of divide and conquer. Instead of black men and women recognizing that they are DIFFERENT parts that mutually work together for something greater, both are trying to compete over the same position and it does not work. A brake and an engine in a car are two different parts, but you won't drive in a car without one or the other. Now, we're in a society that tries to force men and women to be androgynous and to compete against each other, which causes division. This division breaks up the family structure and thus, we have a society that is largely dependent on hand-outs for sustenance, which makes that populace easy to control.

All of this was really stupid. There is no effect without a cause. Feminism did not start in the Black community until Black men adopted the white man's patriarchy. You tried to make Black women your subordinates in a movement and in a time where we were all supposed to be fighting to not be subordinates to whites. You think you must subdue and dehumanize your woman in order to be a real man, and white men have you like idiots attacking her day and night while he looks on laughing.

 

[marcuz]

i know there are leaders, they along with their Black wives raise quality black men&women. nut to the millions of black men& women who arent so lucky, what to do with them?
what do you consider an eqipped man?
fukkboys ournumber men 4-1. that is a reality we have to quit glossing over. you cant keep telling black women to choose better without simultaneously telling black men to be better. because that will lead to...... well you already know.

easy, someone with some resources. land, a career, a business. something going for himself outside of dikk and swagger.


and stop giving "fukkboys" the p*ssy and they'll be forced to change. how hard is that?

 

[kevm3]

Because these are things you pretend to be out of the control of Black men when they are as much of a choice as having OOW babies (which ironically can STILL not happen without the involvement of BM). There is literally nothing is stopping Black men from killing each other. There is even less stopping them for getting higher education.

If you think so, please tell me specifically what is stopping them from doing both of those things that simply cannot be applied to the same crap y'all spend night and day criticizing Black women for?



All of this was really stupid. There is no effect without a cause. Feminism did not start in the Black community until Black men adopted the white man's patriarchy. You tried to make Black women your subordinates in a movement and in a time where we were all supposed to be fighting to not be subordinates to whites. You think you must subdue and dehumanize your woman and he has you like idiots attacking her day and night while he uplifts his woman and rules with her.

lol how did black men 'adopt' the white man's patriarchy? Jim Crow was still in effect in the 1960s, so please show me where black males got this surge of power to choose to adopt anything.

This ISN'T any real excuse for black men killing each other, engaging in that gang-banging nonsense or selling drugs in our community. I can hold black males responsible. Now hold black females responsible.

Black men SHOULD take care of their kids, but if women reward men who have low probability of taking care of their kids, there is nothing you can do about it.

 

[marcuz]

Targeted how, though? There are different ways of targeting people. Black men are targeted in ways that Black women are not, but Black women are also targeted in ways that Black men are not.

*You don't see Black men being raped by police on the regular. and black women aren't raped by police on the regular either.

* Black women are more likely than any group in America to work for poverty-level wages, thereby making them the most likely of all Americans to be among the working poor, even though they are often more educated than Black men.already discussed and debunked this

* And while they are starting more businesses, they get less funding and make less money than Black men. citation needed, as its been proven BW get loans just as easily as white men

*Black females experience intimate partner violence at a rate 35% higher than that of white females, and about 22 times the rate of women of other races (and most crime is intraracial- just as most White women victims of domestic violence are beaten by White men, most Black women are beaten by Black men.) and quiet as it kept, some women gravitate towards those type of dysfunctional, abusive relationships.


*Black females make up about 35% of the nearly 3,500 female homicide victims. now what % of homicide victims are black males

And there are ways both are targeted. It isn't just Black men being locked up. Black women are 3 times more likely than White women to be imprisoned.

 

[marcuz]

it takes two people to raise a child.
that's obvious.

it only takes 1 gender to decide if she wants two people to raise a child or not.

 

[marcuz]

All of this was really stupid. There is no effect without a cause. Feminism did not start in the Black community until Black men adopted the white man's patriarchy. .

 

[kayslay]

easy, someone with some resources. land, a career, a business. something going for himself outside of dikk and swagger.


and stop giving "fukkboys" the p*ssy and they'll be forced to change. how hard is that?

how man of these equipped men are looking to build a family? and most important a black family?
how many black men have those credentials?
when black women follow your logic we are gold digging hoes who don't deserve a successful black man, because where were we when he was broke lonely and on the come up?
we have and continue to raise the bar, but alot of BM cant meet these requirements due to racism amongst other things.
fukkboys get p*ssy from equally damaged fukkgirls.

 

[mariahcooper]

Black women have the privilege of turning to state and govt aid to help raise their children.

Black men don't


Black women have to privilege of having as many children as she pleases and does not have to actually work to provide for them

Black men don't

Black women have access to free daycare, section 8 housing, single mom subsidies, school grants, Medicare, medicade etc

Note: this doesn't only apply to bw, but women in general. But let's keep it a stack, black wen benefit from that system

all women can do that not just black women so its not really a privileged. and Halle Berry is currently paying child support to her white baby daddy just to put that out there

 

[kayslay]

it only takes 1 gender to decide if she wants two people to raise a child or not.

im confused.
no one, no woman or man should be able to keep you from your child if you want to be in their life. Fathers rights is a thing.
it takes one man to wear a condom, to sleep with quality women to prevent it all.
you cant call for patriachy and not demand that men lead. its really that simple.