Black Male privilege is as real as White Privilege

[kayslay]

- purposely having kids they cant afford by deadbeats
- throwing wealth away on hair that could go towards their (or their childrens) education
- supporting legislation that'll disproportionately target black men
- the bedwench and feminist movement
- pretending to want a nuclear family while really wanting total control
- accepting white daddy handouts in favor of working with supportive black men

i mean, i can keep going, but you get the point

so you want BW to stop dating BM that arent on their level?

 

[Sk3ptical]

Black male privilege at work...
Black men have the ability to define black women's beauty by European standards in terms of skin tone, hair, and body size. In comparison, black women rarely define me by European standards of beauty in terms of skin tone, hair, or body size
Black men do not have to worry about the daily hassles of having my hair conforming to any standard image of beauty the way black women does

Black men come from a tradition of humor that is based largely on insulting and disrespecting women; especially mothers
Black men have the privilege of not knowing what words and concepts like patriarchy, phallocentric, complicity, colluding, and obfuscation mean.
Black men can hear and use language such as bytches and hoes that demean women, with virtually no opposition from men
Black men have the privilege to define black women as having "an attitude" without referencing the range of attitudes that
black women have.
Black men have the privilege of believing that the failure of the black family is due to the black matriarchy.


http://www.deanza.edu/faculty/lewisjulie/The Black Male Privilege Checklist.pdf

 

[aboss4real24]

black women have no worries

 

[The_Truth]

Complain about how powerless black guys are while also claiming black guys have the ability to oppress you brehs.

Complain about black men defining your beauty standards while saying that the white man who owns and controls the media is your savior brehettes.

That's why these Black Male Privilege arguments are so fukkin stupid.

Name me ONE instance in human history where the so-caller "privileged" group was outpaced in education and employment by the so-caller oppressed group.

 

[kayslay]

- purposely having kids they cant afford by deadbeats -you think majority of BM are deadbeats?
- throwing wealth away on hair that could go towards their (or their childrens) education -you think all BW wear weave
- supporting legislation that'll disproportionately target black men -what legislation?
- the bedwench and feminist movement- define feminist. what do you consider a BW?
- pretending to want a nuclear family while really wanting total control -both parents should have total control, no?in most Patriarchal homes women control the household. be sure of what you ask for.
- accepting white daddy handouts in favor of working with supportive black men- white daddy?so first they choose deadbeats, but now the choose handouts over supportive fathers/partners? what do you consider a supportive man?

i mean, i can keep going, but you get the point

 

[marcuz]

if BM arent fit to lead then what are BW supposed to do?
NOt have kids? date out?
what role do you think BM should play in shifting the paradigm?

the first step would be stop pretending on-point black men dont exist or they're all gay or with white women.

and yes, i would advise BW not to start single parent homes. be a child less cat lady if you can't find a committed partner. just stop using these random nikkas as sperm donors when you know they wont stick around -- you're poking more holes on an already sinking ship.

black men that see the bullshyt for what it is have to link up and support eachother. its cliche at this point, but it comes down to group economics and ownership. our role is getting on, creating economic opportunity, creating media to counteract cacs propaganda, and all the actual building that goes into making sure black culture isn't being controlled by outsiders.

 

[KOohbt]

the first step would be stop pretending on-point black men dont exist or they're all gay or with white women.

and yes, i would advice BW not to start single parent homes. be a child less cat lady if you can't find a committed partner. just stop using these random nikkas as sperm donors when you know they wont stick around -- you're poking more holes on an already sinking ship.

black men that see the bullshyt for what it is have to link up and support eachother. its cliche at this point, but it comes down to group economics and ownership. our role is getting on, creating economic opportunity, creating media to counteract cacs propaganda, and all the actual building that goes into making sure black culture isn't being controlled by outsiders.

Even though this thread was pointless and silly, this is on point and hopefully someone who didn't know knows now.

 

[PartyHeart]

Why do y'all act like posting statistics about how Black women are clearly at more of a disadvantage would do anything for your continuous minimizing of the issues Black women face? We all know how it will end. You will just twist the statistics to say every bad thing that happens to Black women is a result of their choices. Then you will turn around and say that every good thing that Black women accomplish is handed to them by white supremacy as an attack against Black men (because in the end, you believe Black women simply don't matter in the grand scheme of things).

Why pretend like you want real discourse?

 

[marcuz]

you think majority of BM are deadbeats? - no, just the ones yall purposely choose to get pregnant by. (see: 3 TN residents with over 100 kids)
you think all BW wear weave - did i say all? it's over half a billion dollar industry though. y'all putting a bunch of asians through college.
-what legislation? - the most recent would be the street harassment campaign.
- define feminist. what do you consider a BW? - black feminist cant even define feminism. one chick on here posted a list of about 30 different types of feminist
- -both parents should have total control, no?in most Patriarchal homes women control the household. be sure of what you ask for. - no, women do not control the household in most patriarchal homes. if that were the case, other patriarchies would look like the black community, where most homes are ran by the women.
- white daddy?so first they choose deadbeats, but now the choose handouts over supportive fathers/partners? what do you consider a supportive man? - theres no contradiction. y'all get pregnant by deadbeats, go down to the court house, then ask white daddy for food, shelter, child support, or welfare.

and if you don't know what a supportive man is, dont have kids. cus there's a good chance you'll end up a single mother too.

 

[kayslay]

the first step would be stop pretending on-point black men dont exist or they're all gay or with white women.

and yes, i would advice BW not to start single parent homes. be a child less cat lady if you can't find a committed partner. just stop using these random nikkas as sperm donors when you know they wont stick around -- you're poking more holes on an already sinking ship.

black men that see the bullshyt for what it is have to link up and support eachother. its cliche at this point, but it comes down to group economics and ownership. our role is getting on, creating economic opportunity, creating media to counteract cacs propaganda, and all the actual building that goes into making sure black culture isn't being controlled by outsiders.

you think all single mothers planned it that way? serious question.
i agree with you. i just see too many men on the site and in real life go against the best interest of themselves and our community at large.
you cant tell BW to settle then when they do, chastise them for sleeping with and being in relationships with men that cant lead or provide.
then tell the men that are fit to lead to wait until they are 40 to settle down. NOT build with black women but lay the field until you damn near a senior citizen.

 

[kevm3]

you think all single mothers planned it that way? serious question.
i agree with you. i just see too many men on the site and in real life go against the best interest of themselves and our community at large.
you cant tell BW to settle then when they do, chastise them for sleeping with and being in relationships with men that cant lead or provide.
then tell the men that are fit to lead to wait until they are 40 to settle down. NOT build with black women but lay the field until you damn near a senior citizen.

More like most single mothers didn't do any planning, hence why they ended up pregnant by some loser. There's also a big difference between dealing with someone who is making less than you but still has a decent life trajectory and getting impregnated by someone destined for prison or who has kids sprinkled around town.

 

[marcuz]

you think all single mothers planned it that way? serious question.
i agree with you. i just see too many men on the site and in real life go against the best interest of themselves and our community at large.

can we quit with all defense? no situation is ALL, we know that already. but i do think most black females become single parents on purpose.

y'all like to run this false narrative of a BM gaming you up, pretending like he's a family man. only for him to slip out for a pack of cigs, never to be seen again. it's bullshyt and y'all know it.

you cant tell BW to settle then when they do, chastise them for sleeping with and being in relationships with men that cant lead or provide.
then tell the men that are fit to lead to wait until they are 40 to settle down. NOT build with black women but lay the field until you damn near a senior citizen.

putting someone elses words in my mouth?

 

[PartyHeart]

you think all single mothers planned it that way? serious question.

They do. They think Black women end up single mothers either because they wanted it that way, or because the guy had "deadbeat" written on their forehead and the woman slept with him anyway. But ask why Black men won't stop killing each other and why they won't get an education at the same rates as Black women and its the system and something is preventing them from making that choice.

 

[kayslay]

bedW,(i refuse to type that word)- what is that to you? you feel the same about BM?

feminist- i want to know what you consider a feminist because anytime a woman, BW specifically, talk about their plight they get called a feminist.
but no one seems to know what feminist means.
street harassment- are BW at large participating or is it a small fringe group? you think black women are to blame for it all?
weave- that's BW world wide not just Americans. most of that money goes to the BW sale/ do hair.
white daddy/ supportive men- i know what "I" consider a supportive man , but we may differ so i asked. the fact that you cant define it lets me know....

 

[marcuz]

They do. They think Black women end up single mothers either because they wanted it that way, or because the guy had "deadbeat" written on their forehead and the woman slept with him anyway. But ask why Black men won't stop killing each other and why they won't get an education at the same rates as Black women and its the system and something is preventing them from making that choice.

you should ask their single mothers that, i think you'll find your answer