Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

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Who said they weren't? This was literally said on the first page.

I do think both genders go differently about vocalizing their selling out when pertaining to their dating preferences.

To be fair I have seen on this very board men who date out themselves would make up reasons to claim women who date out are somehow worse. It doesn't work that way. Want to be a leader, start with ourselves. Respect needs to be earned.
 

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You have no rationalization for disagreeing though, which is your normal schtick. You literally just post rhetoric and nonsensical babble. Several posters, including myself, have explained this male point of view already.
You claim to know what black men all want but I disagree. I seen my far share of self hating black men who would trade spots with a white man if they could. Its not cause they don't bleach their skin and straightening their hair that they are comfortably in the skin that they are in.
 

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You claim to know what black men all want but I disagree. I seen my far share of self hating black men who would trade spots with a white man if they could. Its not cause they don't bleach their skin and straightening their hair that they are comfortably in the skin that they are in.

Nah honestly most black men do not WANT to be white men. They may feel at a disadvantage because they do not have the economic, social, and political advantages that white men have but want to have light eyes and straight hair? I disagree..... You have to understand that men and women have different social requirements. Men are expected to be leaders, protectors, and providers. Men do not have a high beauty requirement. Don't get me wrong there are women that fawn over attractive men and marry them but a smart moderately attractive to very attractive woman marries a man that can provide, protect, and build. On the other hand a woman's physical beauty is way more important than a mans physical attractiveness. That is why most wealthy men have attractive wives. I could be wrong but a man will marry an attractive sweet woman who is a pre school teacher before he marries an unattractive woman that is a doctor and rude. Of course you can't be some high school drop out who can't multiply or divide but if you are an attractive woman (You don't have to be Beyonce, but in shape and an easy on the eyes face) with a good personality, and something going for herself you can get a man of means.
 

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You claim to know what black men all want but I disagree. I seen my far share of self hating black men who would trade spots with a white man if they could. Its not cause they don't bleach their skin and straightening their hair that they are comfortably in the skin that they are in.

Trading spots--literally exchanging positions--is not the same the way as wanting to be white. Like I said, some black men want money, power, etc and to that end, they would like to be on top of society. In this sense then they might want to "exchange positions" but this does not imply they want to be whites, only that they want money, social proof, power, etc of the ruling white class.
 

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She has a point. Being in an IR doesn't make you a self hater. But labeling yourself as "Pro-Black" just makes it look ridiculous. This current crop of social media activists are fukking garbage man. All it takes is posting some Malcolm X quotes and taking pics with your fist in the air and you're "pro-black". Wow!
 

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She has a point. Being in an IR doesn't make you a self hater. But labeling yourself as "Pro-Black" just makes it look ridiculous. This current crop of social media activists are fukking garbage man. All it takes is posting some Malcolm X quotes and taking pics with your fist in the air and you're "pro-black". Wow!

If someone is not pro-black, they aren't conscious, and if a man isn't conscious, he might end up dating his oppressor. So there's that.
 

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Why is this quote relevant to OP? Moreover, the bolded part misrepresents the quote when not put into context. I'll explain.

When you bold out some parts of the quote without the rest, you lose context. Malcolm X first mentions that violence against women is wrong and then spends the rest of the quote trying to give a convincing reason why this is so. In the ensuing rhetorical attempt to convince men to be nicer to women (influenced by his Muslim conversion), Malcolm X rushes and misrepresents white men's treatment of white women. He says that "the white man will do whatever is possible to ensure his women get respect and protection". But is this really so? Let's look at the evidence:

For most all of white history, white women were little more than kitchen whores. They neither had freedom of movement or thought. They could hold no lands and nor vote. They were sold off to the richest suitors in order to enhance the family name. European men constantly berated and abused them throughout history. In truth they were little more than slaves. So if white men truly opt to do "whatever is possible to ensure his women get respect and protection", why did he spend 4000 years ensuring that women didn't receive any respect or protection whatsoever?

It is because, back then, the European man was an island unto himself with only other Europeans around him. However in modern times he has other "inferior" races like blacks which pose a threat to his rule, and so separate measures must be made, not to "respect and protect white women", but to respect and protect European men.

Many white men seek and sought to "respect and protect white women" only to secure white women for themselves and themselves alone, or else to make themselves look better in comparison to other men, again in a bid to secure everything for themselves. White men do not actually care about white women; white men care about themselves, white people and white power. European women are a means to an end, but an important means nevertheless, and that is why European men fought for hundreds of years never to allow the European women to breed out. This is coached in "protection" speech, but really it is just racialism and self interest. The other 4000 years the European man didn't care about European man because there was no obvious threat to his power or race.

In Malcolm X's zeal to convince men to be kinder to women, he mistakenly opened pandora's box and helped further this vicious myth that white men "protect white women". No, they protect their means of control and power. Europeans historically think of their nothing as nothing more than breeding material.
 
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If Black men/women built functioning communities, how many of the kind of women in the OP would even come?

If black women and men built functioning communities we would probably have fewer comments like the one she posted.

The reason I used the quote you replied to is because as black women we have our own separate unique issues that white feminists cannot relate to. We are BLACK...and WOMEN...that's two oppressed groups. Unlike other races of women, black women are not protected at a much higher rate, we come from poorer back grounds, we have make less money, we are the most unwed, more times often than not, WE are the head of the household, our issues are just...different. We are socialized to place the black mans needs before our own but it's not reciprocated. As Malcolm X pointed out, white men are willing to go to war for their women...but are black men willing to do the same for theirs?
 

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You should not have dropped of grade school. Be unable to read what you posted and call someone dumb...idiot.
You're annoying b. First off stop avoiding @KidStranglehold post, you seem to be able to respond to everyone but his post for some reason, two you have post in this thread where you type dumbshyt and you still are typing dumbshyt. you cant admit you're wrong... you bring nothing to this site.

Edit: since you're a dumb bytch i will break my post from before down for you, i was talking about the Black Feminist on twitter.
 
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