Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[Poitier]

Some black men are definitely guilty of selling out, let's not lie to ourselves, Brehs.

Who said they weren't? This was literally said on the first page.

I do think both genders go differently about vocalizing their selling out when pertaining to their dating preferences.

 

[Queen]

Right. Leave it to a silly Black woman to try to portray simps as regular Black men.

If we using those clowns as the standard for Black men, then we need to add the ignorant weave brigade as the standard for Black women. However, we as Black men know that the purple, orange and pink colored weave brigade don't represent the whole of Black women.

Stop backtracking and trying to add qualifiers that did not exist in your original post.

This is what I was responding to:

I will say this for Black men when they date White women; they don't even bother saying any dumb shyt like that. They don't demean or attempt to demean Black women. They just don't date them, which is much more honest than what a typical Black women that dates White men does.

You were proven wrong. Therefore the narrative you were trying to paint is BS. Furthermore your response indicates that you lack integrity, among other things. That is your personal problem. Your deficiencies have nothing to do with me.

 

[Kitsch]

Please someone with a twitter account reply to her and put her on check.

No point in engaging with people like that.

 

[TMNT4000]

No point in engaging with people like that.

Its fun destroying their arguments when they say bullshyt.

And you know when facts hit these c00ns it eats them up inside.

 

[Samori Toure]

Stop backtracking and trying to add qualifiers that did not exist in your original post.

This is what I was responding to:


You were proven wrong. Therefore the narrative you were trying to paint is BS. Furthermore your response indicates that you lack integrity, among other things. That is your personal problem. Your deficiencies have nothing to do with me.

Bullshyt. Your narrative is Bullshyt. Black women are the ones always talking shyt about IR dating, except when it comes to Black women. Diannah Carrol married a White man. Leslie Uggams married a White man. Tina Turner dates White men. Condaleeza Rice dates White men. Mariah Carey was married to a White man.

What did you here from Black women? Silence. What did you hear from Black men? Silence.

Let Clarence Thomas show up with his White wife and that is all the fukk that Black women can talk about. Forget his self hating decisions, which is what Black men focus on; Black women are too stuck on the fact that he is married to a White woman.

Hell Michael Jordan married a Cuban and she is probably has as much African heritage of most African American women, but African American women don't give a damn they are pissed. Vanessa Williams married a White man a couple of weeks and not a word from Black women.

 

[godkiller]

Where are the mods? This thread has got way off topic.

Most black feminist do not care about black men and truly believe that they are fighting gender wars before race. Black feminism has no goals.

Black feminism does have a goal: the destruction of the black man and race.

 

[godkiller]

Some do and others don't. Just like some bw want to ww and others don't.

No. @marcuz already explained it to you. some black men want the power, money, etc. but they do not want to be white. you'll notice that rich black men don't die their hair blonde, bleach their skin or get blue eye contacts. they instead get their fade cuts, rock their unique style and do what they do. if bm wanted to be white, we wouldn't exist as we do. White mimicry is something only women do per general, because only black women (and others, including Asian) literally want to be white women. men seek power, glory, courage, strength, etc--our own, not others'.

 

[Red Shield]

Starting to see that this type of epidemic isn't just western specific. I can go to many areas of SA and see interracial couples and the huge majority of them are WM/BW. In a country that's 90% black, they still choose white. And it's not just light skinned women either.

From hipster to businesswoman, especially the younger demo, they're exclusively dating white. Do what you do but some I've interacted with and ask why they go that route, the answers are so ass backwards and reek of self hate. But like I said, date who you wanna date.

They had better be makin plans to leave SA then.. because when SA explodes..

 

[godkiller]

A good chunk of powerful men will be coupled with powerful women. That's all white nen want is as easily contrived as as saying that's all black men want. But you a bm has a hood grasp on what wm think right?

Men around the world are similar and are driven by similar drives and motivations. What is mysterious and unknowable to you as a woman is clarion to us as men. Studies show men--white, Asian, Arab, and black--generally judge women by the same factors and rank women similarly (except as relates their racial bias). This means that if one man thinks a woman is beautiful, another man is very likely to think so too. And if one man has a certain urge, another man has urge in the same situation.Powerful men do end up with powerful women -- but beauty before power. All throughout history powerful men have ended up with the women the rest of us men generally find attractive.

 

[godkiller]

I will rep you for that. That is why Black feminism/womanism is NOT needed. It has no end goal and it is completely a waste. Every black issue a black woman deals with is tied to her blackness. Non black people do not look at black women as women. Instead they look at black women as black first and then loud, obnoxious, finger snapping, stupid people. Non blacks do not associate femininity with black women.So I ask black feminist/womanist who exactly are you fighting? Black men aren't oppressing you. Black men weren't raping you on the fields. Black men weren't banning you from getting an education. Black men weren't banning you from making something of yourself. Yes there are trifling black men out there.I get it....I've met some already and will meet some more. At the same time black men as a whole are not oppressing black women. The fact that both black men and women are seen as black first is one the biggest reasons to stand together, cooperate, and fight the oppressive system. As a black woman in America you can not go off on your own saying, "I am going to make my own group and exclude black men" because you are going up against a patriarchal racist oppressive system. You will NOT win on your own. You can not say my issues are separate from black men because we are all black first. You will not be able to separate yourself and build your own infrastructure separate of white supremacy. No matter how much you talk about black feminism/womanism you are still under white supremacy. You can work in corporate America, become a principal, become a doctor, a nurse, a teacher, a librarian and etc but white supremacy will still be functioning and you will be working for a non black owned company.

I wish I could rep you +1000 times. I wish the feminists would answer you, a woman, like they do the rest of us. You have cut to the center of the feminist delusion and attacked it from all sides! I've bolded some of the more poignant parts.

Most black feminist do not like black men, and have some weird hatred/attitude towards black men. I have seen it before. Most are open lesbians, closeted lesbians, want non black men, or want an emasculated black man that will agree with everything they say and believe in something called black male privilege.

This is 100% the truth. Thanks for saying it.

I understand that as black people we have our own issues that we have to resolve but going off on your own to form a group that will achieve NOTHING socially, politically, or economically makes absolutely no sense. Exactly what has black feminist achieved in the past 4 decades? For the most part nothing.

Exact+ly.

 

[Yup]

just went through all 43 pages @Yup is a dumb bytch... and @Roddy Right you should have screenshot before she got rid of the shyt she said, finally @Gifted one

Call the mods and ask them what I edited...you simpleton.

 

[Yup]

No. @marcuz already explained it to you. some black men want the power, money, etc. but they do not want to be white. you'll notice that rich black men don't die their hair blonde, bleach their skin or get blue eye contacts. they instead get their fade cuts, rock their unique style and do what they do. if bm wanted to be white, we wouldn't exist as we do. White mimicry is something only women do per general, because only black women (and others, including Asian) literally want to be white women. men seek power, glory, courage, strength, etc--our own, not others'.

I disagree.

 

[godkiller]

I disagree.

You have no rationalization for disagreeing though, which is your normal schtick. You literally just post rhetoric and nonsensical babble. Several posters, including myself, have explained this male point of view already.

 

[agnosticlady]

I wish I could rep you +1000 times. I wish the feminists would answer you, a woman, like they do the rest of us. You have cut to the center of the feminist delusion and attacked it from all sides! I've bolded some of the more poignant parts.




This is 100% the truth. Thanks for saying it.




Exact+ly.

When black men did have leadership positions in the black community more was achieved, we were also progressing economically, and our communities were protected. Yes I know that black men were being lynched at high numbers, but there was a sense of protection and organization. Men require structure and order. Women can be leaders in certain aspects but complete matriarchy will bring about disorder. This is why you have so many young black boys popping their ass on youtube. Putting women as the forefront leaders in a war against a patriarchal systems is a terrible idea. As much as white women scream about feminism they know when to fall back and let white men take charge. They know that white men are the ones building their infrastructure, diving into the seas to get their pearls, bringing in the oil for their cars, and etc. That is why I say a smart woman knows when to be submissive and let her man take charge. As a black woman I see nothing wrong with having an opinion, but many black women need to learn how to fall back and let black men lead. Part of it has to do with the fact that institutionalized racism has put black women above black men because women are not a threat to a mans patriarchy. That is why when one village raids another they first kill off the men.emasculate them then they rape the women or brainwash them.

 

[Arris]

@7Revo I know you had the with all the sound logic in here with the "usual suspects"