Black dads outperform other fathers groups so where does the absentee father myth come from?

Did you have a good father?

  • Yes?

    Votes: 121 74.2%
  • No?

    Votes: 42 25.8%

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mag357

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Yo.... I have no clue where the fukk some of u niggsz are from...
Maybe some black utopia, where all black women are queens and all black men are kings that are in their kids lives...
I only knew 1 kid that knew his father and had him around...
His father was around but his mother was a crack head and wasn't around.

If u knew ur father or if he was around in ur life that shyt was wayyyyyy unique...

I did know 1 other kid that had both his parents... he was muslim
 

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Do you have another stat?. And if you use the 72 percent marriage one then you didn’t watch the video and our discussion was a waste of time.
actually that same stat has been cited by Black scholars as FACT.Including Professor Sandy Darrity

here




https://socialequity.duke.edu/sites.../files/site-images/FINAL COMPLETE REPORT_.pdf

As you can read for yourself, Dr Darity and his colleagues cite the ACTUAL stats. They don't refute the numbers, but they refute the correlation between that and the wealth disparity between races and ethnicities.

Unscientifically, many of those who commented here are confirming the same stat.

Are we all a waste of your time because we disagree?
 

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Black fathers statistically spend more time with their kids

Black fathers statistically speaking, eat, do activities and work with their kids more than any other group of men.

Says the Monyinhan report falsely led to the perceptions of black fathers in this country.
I'm not saying it's wrong because I obviously didn't watch and I want this to be truth, but is that considering absentee fathers really or is that stat just saying that when black dads are around they're the best dads
 
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I'ma try to break it down like this...

When they say the father is "absent" what it could mean is that the father can be PRESENT in his child's life like helping with school work, supporting the child with clothes, money, food and spending time etc from a distance.

However he's consider ABSENT because he doesn't live in the child's household with the mother.

I think the word absent needs to be explained a little better concerning these matters to get more of an understanding as it can be confusing for some :francis:.
 
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Just being there doesn't automatically mean a man is a good father. Plenty of white dudes stay married to the mom and are in the house every single day, yet are shytty parents.

As for the myth about black fathers....that shyt is easy: PROPAGANDA.

Every non-white race of men in the U.S. has some strong negative stereotypes associated with them. Black men are good for fukkin and knocking you up, but not reliable long term. Asian men make money but are both weak and controlling. Latino men are stereotyped as chauvinistic (aka "macho" culture), wandering eye, shady etc.

White men don't have an overarching stereotype that really sticks and it's by design. They want full access to black/brown/yellow p*ssy.....but at the same time, they want to block men of color from having free access to white p*ssy.

Asian women and Latinas flock to white dudes and white men praise them. Black women have historically been reticent to engage white men and so they are viewed as "less than" or "not appealing." As black women become more open to swirling, white men will magically start "appreciating" sistas.

They hesitate with BW because white women will not let them have open season without getting black dikk. This is why white men insult women that don't think their shyt smells like flowers (calling them "mudsharks").

The point is to make themselves appear as the most viable reproductive candidates so they can spread their genes. How come they don't mind being cucked watching their wife fukk some Mr. Marcus-looking breh? Because Becky has already popped out 3 white babies and had her tubes tied. She's done her part, so the rest is for the birds. It's all about p*ssy control.
 

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Out perform other fathers in everything except what counts? TANGIBLES: Leaving resources for their kids to build with?

I know a guy, a bum, hasn't had a job in 20 years. Has 3 daughters, like 16, 11, and 4. He's pretty good at that stuff listed such as spending time, but time doesn't pay Bill's or put food on the table and clothes on the back. Which are necessities in this world.

Brehs be honest...
:mjlol:

To be fair there are great black fathers out there that should be acknowledge and celebrated more to balance out the negative stats.

However, we don’t need to lie about those that don’t
And pretend there isn’t an endemic problem of fatherlessness. We can walk and chew at the same time :yeshrug:
 

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Not a myth.

The fact that many Black men abandon their families. or are not in the same household ,doesn't mean that there aren't great Black fathers out there.
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Miss me with the revisionist cheerleading this Friday, fellas
That’s how you feel huh!?! :mjpls:
 
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