I would love to ask people who say that, this question.
If tomorrow, all the black, mixed, minority people of the world, suddenly stopped using the word ******. And in that instance black people said we do not want to be called that in love or hate.....
How long do they think it would take white people to never say it again?
They started the word long before we used it. They used it while we were slaves, after we were slaves, from day 1 to right now. I'm damn sure they ain't gonna stop cause we do. And they damn sure didn't need us saying it to give them permission