Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.

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I grew up in NY. I've been around rich folk with kids.


They have everything in the world but are a total mess because mom and dad aren't there giving them what actually matters in life.
Being married or not doesn't mean mom and dad will or won't be there
There are happily married couples who are absent in their kids lives or abusive. and there are also happily divorced couples co-parenting their kids just fine.
a marriage certificate doesn't make you a good parent, or ensure your child has a good upbringing.
 

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Being married or not doesn't mean mom and dad will or won't be there
There are happily married couples who are absent in their kids lives or abusive. and there are also happily divorced couples co-parenting their kids just fine.
a marriage certificate doesn't make you a good parent, or ensure your child has a good upbringing.

Right but big Sean isn't in a relationship with his BM. they don't live together.

So essentially its a single parent household type of deal.


Thats never a W.
 

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As a Nygga who didn't marry his Highschool sweetheart but had two kids wit her off n on...

..maan, I ain't see her as my future "Wife" Based off certain shyt she did we were BOTH sneaky and did some foul shyt (I'm not marrying that)..shyt, she ended up putting me on child support cause she was mad at me one day, so i was right!

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Side Note...Them chairs ain't SHYT!
 

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Weird to me that it didn’t take not one second thought about having sex and nutting in her. Bringing a whole life into this world…ain’t no “18 years” that’s FOREVER!!!

But think long and hard about actually settling down and giving her his last name…


Idk. I just think having children with someone links you to them forever, cuz baby inviting both parents to graduations, birthdays, etc, you can annul or get out of a marriage…

Good discussion, but one we don’t have enough before “baby making” age
 

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Nah he should have chose a girl cut from his cloth and made a real family.


Fukk that noise.


Breh goofy anyway; I just feel bad for his weirdo Chinese kid who gonna grow up being some hollyweirdo.

well yeah that would've been ideal

I still would've taken Ariana Grande over the other broad tho

but yeah he should've gotten a real solid family at the end of the day, no arguement there

but would you rather have gotten Ariana pregnant or Jhene ?
 

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If we're keeping it buck, most black men are not marriage minded hence why the out-of-wedlock and single parent household rates are so high. We're usually more comfortable creating baby mamas than wives.
The numbers defy your reasoning
 

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Men lie. Women Lie. Numbers don't.

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Now post the percentage of black male fathers and black female mothers
 

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There is really no need for millionaires to get married just because they had kids. Them children still going to want for nothing growing up.

Bunch of starving kids with two parents in the home that would happily trade places with a kid who gets to live in two mansions growing up.
I grew up in NY. I've been around rich folk with kids.


They have everything in the world but are a total mess because mom and dad aren't there giving them what actually matters in life.

Y’all must have been around unique groups of people because the folks I know who grew up in two-parent married households are on average more well adjusted adults than those I know who didn’t. And that’s adjusting for similar race, family income, etc. It truly is the most powerful emotional stabilizing force you can give a child. Even the ones I know who grew up struggling in two-parent married households have the mentality “damn my parents really stayed together despite the struggles, I gotta do well to repay them” mentality.
 

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Weird to me that it didn’t take not one second thought about having sex and nutting in her. Bringing a whole life into this world…ain’t no “18 years” that’s FOREVER!!!

But think long and hard about actually settling down and giving her his last name…


Idk. I just think having children with someone links you to them forever, cuz baby inviting both parents to graduations, birthdays, etc, you can annul or get out of a marriage…

Good discussion, but one we don’t have enough before “baby making” age

Facts. I’m young but I have the mentality that if I get married (I won’t have kids out of wedlock), marriage is a good test run for 1-2 years to really see how compatible you are living with another woman while married before having children. I’d much rather get divorced after 2-3 years with no child than have a child out of wedlock and forced to co-parent.
 
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