Being single with no kids is pretty much living life in a cheat code.

[TRUEST]

So your'e basically saying that people who live in other countries on $1 a day should not have families. Sounds pretty elitist.

Most of us would never be here based on this logic, because MOST people did not have much when our grand parents were around.

Most people around the globe still don't have much

Sinlge people waiting till they're 40 to have families doesn't work for everyonen either.

In the old days 2 people came together early on in life and worked as a team to build financially, but now everyone wants to sew oats first and get rich or financially stable alone, which takes much longer.

I get where you’re coming from. But to have a family you actually need the 100% cooperation of a partner. Many think they have it until they’re having to deal with divorces and baby mama drama. My point being, your need to have a family should not overshadow common sense. Especially in the USA where things aren’t in the Man’s favor.

 

[DJK]

Why do you guys act like you can start a family in your 40s?

stop that you gonna be lonely shyt

I’m 25. I can easily live another 15,16, or even 17 years living up single and doing what I want to do before I finally settle down with someone and have a kid. And just imagine all the knowledge I can drop on my kids by then.

Let's just say I have some knowledge on this topic.
Don't let people gas your head up about how a man has all the time in the world to have a family.
Men can have a biological clock that goes off too.
Consider if you really want to be in your 50s with young children.

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

27

No kids

Single

Good job

Own a car

My own apartment

I just wake up and do what I want

Just ordered some tees online

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

I got a friend he;s like 25, he's got a daughter and lives with his girl and he says his life has become routine, he put weight on and he has no time to do anything. That's my nikka so I'm gonna help him get back on however I can but in the back of my mind I was thinking damn..

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

I was agreeing with you until you said you were 35


I’m 27 so I definitely enjoy the perks of being a young single breh. But by 35, I’d hope to have found my queen and started a family. I ain’t tryna be that oldhead in the club on the prowl for sugar babies and lonely divorcees. No offense.

Why do you wish to find a queen by 35 ? Because society told you you should have ?

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Cheat code is invalid when you're uglygang

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I was agreeing with you until you said you were 35


I’m 27 so I definitely enjoy the perks of being a young single breh. But by 35, I’d hope to have found my queen and started a family. I ain’t tryna be that oldhead in the club on the prowl for sugar babies and lonely divorcees. No offense.

No worries...

Spoiler

Offense taken...

 

[ShackZilla89]

I agree, Im living that life currently.

 

[DapMeUp!]

The single life definitely had it's perks and you can't beat the freedom.

But getting home from work and my son getting hype like "Dada! Dada!" and hanging out with him ain't nothing like it fam. Plus having the right girl in your corner is huge.

I don't think there is a right or wrong way to live life though*.

With the exception of deadbeat parents

With all due respect...that sounds awful

Last thing I want when I get home from work is some kid hassling me Maybe it's different when it's your own kid.

 

[Zebruh]

If you got a decent flow of income, it really feels unbeatable.

I do want to have kids tho eventually. So imma enjoy this feeling while im still in it.

 

[1thouwow]

Nothing beats having the right women by your side & building a family together

Until you wanna lil side piece sometimes

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Tell me about it. A lot of my clients are single mothers and the issues of why they are broke is because of their kids.


Man young people should not be having kids period unless they are at a winning position

I can't argue this. I tell young guys that have no kids to wait until they have a good financial base before doing so. Especially if they are feeling pressure from parents to have some.

 

[AAKing23]

I don’t get the shaming, if dude is happy where he is how you gonna tell him he’s doing it wrong?

nikkas came in here quick to shoot down the thread with their "I love having a family" shyt

Yeah and that does not change the fact that you do not have the same freedoms or lack of worries as a single person with no kids.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Yeah, but once you get to the age where your friends have kids, you start to feel left out. I like the freedom, but I’m not trying to hangout with people in their 20s, and people with kids tend to socialize more with other parents. And my boys will talk about their kids like I really need to know the kid likes strawberries now. But you talk about whatever is going on in your life, so I get it.

But being at someone’s house with small children is



Nonstop noise, and that 2-3 year old stage where they are daredevils, and keep climbing everything, and the parent is constantly having to grab them before they kill themselves. Plus they really mess up the interior of cars. Crumbs all in the seat, leather ripped, random grapes on the floor.

 

[Konnan]

bro this the realest shyt ever

i peep how people I grew up with and my sister have dealt with life since kids came along and Im glad Im shooting blanks

shyt I dont give no fukks