Being single with no kids is pretty much living life in a cheat code.

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

This shyt been on my mind since early January because I just turnt 32 n I dodged hella bullets from age of 14 til now I done smashed sum bad bytches ain't shyt bytches ugly bytches fat bytches bytches with kids n no kids I thank God I'm not paying child support or dealing with baby mama drama I'm like only one with no kids in my circle and I noticed how as we grow get older I be getting sum passive aggressive type hate from ppl who got kids idk what is but it's like envy type thing they seeing how I move and try to do what I do flexing on the gram but livin a reg modest life with kids and probably living with another woman with her other kids it's like they know they fukd up but trying to use the "kids is a blessing" lick naw my boi u just have to be extra responsible because you have another life to feed and guide and can't afford to fuk up

i'm 26 going on 27 soon
I ain't getting married or having kids anytime soon if ever
As I have gotten older, I have not gotten any stronger urges to have kids or get married

 

[Offthegrid]

i'm 26 going on 27 soon
I ain't getting married or having kids anytime soon if ever
As I have gotten older, I have not gotten any stronger urges to have kids or get married

If u do decide just make sure the woman is solid mentally the dating game when u get over 30 is trash

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

IMO the duel income no kids marriage is the real cheat code.

 

[VladTheImpaler]

I don’t get the shaming, if dude is happy where he is how you gonna tell him he’s doing it wrong?

I think the " issue" is the OP saying his way of living is a "cheat code" inherently to some others meant that if they are the opposite, then he is saying their life is a struggle.

It is all in how communication is given and received.

I think if you are happy....do your thing on either side.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

A lot of yall are going to be lonley and frustrated at 40.

Women your age will be fat and have grown sons that want to fight you.


Younger women will be immature, come with drama, just want your money, and may not have time for your dikk pills.

Good luck brehs

 

[Balla]

I think the " issue" is the OP saying his way of living is a "cheat code" inherently to some others meant that if they are the opposite, then he is saying their life is a struggle.

It is all in how communication is given and received.

I think if you are happy....do your thing on either side.

You’re right about how others could take it the wrong way, but isn’t OP 100% right with his statement?

Let’s just take bits of what he said:

He said he has a lot of money.
He said that he only has to take care of himself.
He said he looks young.
He said he’s stress free.

I wouldn’t say he meant to say others are struggling, but comparing a person who has to take care of himself to someone who has mouths to feed, is always gonna be less stressed.

Happiness is relative.

I can see that many posters took this the wrong way.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

If u do decide just make sure the woman is solid mentally the dating game when u get over 30 is trash

Yeah I've heard

 

[VladTheImpaler]

You’re right about how others could take it the wrong way, but isn’t OP 100% right with his statement?

Let’s just take bits of what he said:

He said he has a lot of money.
He said that he only has to take care of himself.
He said he looks young.
He said he’s stress free.

I wouldn’t say he meant to say others are struggling, but comparing a person who has to take care of himself to someone who has mouths to feed, is always gonna be less stressed.

Happiness is relative.

I can see that many posters took this the wrong way.

Having money for many, is not a means to their happiness.
Having a loving family and wife that you take care of, it a sense of joy to others.
Stress stimuli is different for us all....

Like you said...and I have said.... Happiness is relative...

I just believe that inherently some may looked at the statement as boastful and self aggrandizing....people deduce things many different ways .... hence some of the responses

either way... everyone enjoy!

 

[Offthegrid]

Yeah I've heard

Just keep u a roster as a plan b to smash when u get the urge to feel sum mouf n walls. Keep a solid female friend that can develop into a relationship that's how I've been moving since 2015 I've been single staying out mfs way n drama

 

[Mannish]

A lot of yall are going to be lonley and frustrated at 40.

Women your age will be fat and have grown sons that want to fight you.


Younger women will be immature, come with drama, just want your money, and may not have time for your dikk pills.

Good luck brehs

42-year-old single head w/no kids and hella disposable income checking in with a data point...in the last 6 months i've smashed a 44-year-old lawyer, a 35-year-old massage therapist, a 31-year-old yoga chick, and a 27-year-old stripper; none of them had kids, all were in great shape, and all but the yoga chick got their backs blown out after one reasonably-priced date. Once you've amassed enough material possessions for yourself (condo, nice car, nice gear), you really don't have to spend any dough on the chick whatsoever...

Don't ever get it twisted; I and my fellow 40+ single childless brehs are all feasting right now.

 

[Silkk]

IMO the duel income no kids marriage is the real cheat code.

Thats cool, But that triple income single life is

 

[Balla]

42-year-old single head w/no kids and hella disposable income checking in with a data point...in the last 6 months i've smashed a 44-year-old lawyer, a 35-year-old massage therapist, a 31-year-old yoga chick, and a 27-year-old stripper; none of them had kids, all were in great shape, and all but the yoga chick got their backs blown out after one reasonably-priced date. Once you've amassed enough material possessions for yourself (condo, nice car, nice gear), you really don't have to spend any dough on the chick whatsoever...

Don't ever get it twisted; I and my fellow 40+ single childless brehs are all feasting right now.

I know for a fact there are single childless 30+ women ready to settle down. Idk what’s with this, “once you turn 30, it’s too late”.

What I can really say is this to make things simple.

If you really want a family, have one early, but don’t be crying talking about you missed out on youth or you getting divorced paying bread.

If you’re not ready to settle down and want to focus on yourself do that, but don’t worry about the dating landscape when you get older because you weren’t ready for marriage and kids.

Some nikkas really try to force things on people and try to make people feel bad if they do one thing or the other.

You just gotta be real with how you will handle the scenarios.

 

[Offthegrid]

I know for a fact there are single childless 30+ women ready to settle down. Idk what’s with this, “once you turn 30, it’s too late”.

What I can really say is this to make things simple.

If you really want a family, have one early, but don’t be crying talking about you missed out on youth or you getting divorced paying bread.

If you’re not ready to settle down and want to focus on yourself do that, but don’t worry about the dating landscape when you get older because you weren’t ready for marriage and kids.

Some nikkas really try to force things on people and try to make people feel bad if they do one thing or the other.

You just gotta be real with how you will handle the scenarios.

Breh tomorrow ain't promised for us I hate to use Kobe as an example but u can be on top n gone m your seeds have to live with that.my pops died when I was 11 so I had to learn Early that can't take life for granted do what u can control don't worry about wat u can't control. It's alot of bitter parents out here too who don't like that they created life with a person they're not compatible with basically it's alot of one night stand babies out here. Kids relationships ain't for everybody I was fukin with a chick whose 29 come from 2 parent home told me flat out she's never getting married or having kids and I respect that I respect a woman who comes from single parent home who had kids at 16 but still wanna get married n have kids when she's 35 with a college kid already

 

[Balla]

Breh tomorrow ain't promised for us I hate to use Kobe as an example but u can be on top n gone m your seeds have to live with that.my pops died when I was 11 so I had to learn Early that can't take life for granted do what u can control don't worry about wat u can't control. It's alot of bitter parents out here too who don't like that they created life with a person they're not compatible with basically it's alot of one night stand babies out here. Kids relationships ain't for everybody I was fukin with a chick whose 29 come from 2 parent home told me flat out she's never getting married or having kids and I respect that I respect a woman who comes from single parent home who had kids at 16 but still wanna get married n have kids when she's 35 with a college kid already

I feel u breh. What’s your situation like? You tryna find a wife or you focusing on yourself?

 

[Offthegrid]

I feel u breh. What’s your situation like? You tryna find a wife or you focusing on yourself?

I've been living the single bachelor lifestyle since 2015 I had to get to know my myself and learn how to deal with ppl when I want to n feel like it. At this point im 32 I haven't ran into a woman I want to settle down with because we're all walking our on path's of life. It would be Kool to hopefully start a legacy with a woman on the same frequency I'm on but I don't go looking for it I let it find me. I'm not thirsting for females because I'm on top of game every where I go I'm top of food chain I'm not convict,not a street nikka, don't have no kids,no crazy exes Poppin up on me so when women see how I move they try to get on my level or get intimidated mostly be single moms who be telling me str8 they not ready for me especially when they find out jmnot a goofy trick ass nikkaa those type of women that look for lick peep game Kno in their head if I fuk with him I'm waste my time n his time