Being single with no kids is pretty much living life in a cheat code.

[Fat Fred Jones]

Objectively, it can be argued that life without the responsibility of children is more liberating. However, I'd say that a life in a relationship (still without kids) with a woman whom you trust and meshes well with you, will always trump the single life.

This assumes you're not the type of man who "needs" a variety of women. For many, constantly dealing with new women and having to vet their intentions could be far more stressful than having a woman you know, you trust, who shares your goals & interests, supports you emotionally/physically, who also has a good income, and you don't have worry about strapping up. If you feel like you have to constantly chase/have new women, this ideal mate will never satisfy you, but if you find this good woman, what else does the single life offer?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

That's what America is about though. That individualistic mindset. So it's not surprising to see people brag like it's a badge of honor

Yeah until the topics of global warming and overpopulation come up. India and China are going through this now

 

[Phitz]

Objectively, it can be argued that life without the responsibility of children is more liberating. However, I'd say that a life in a relationship (still without kids) with a woman whom you trust and meshes well with you, will always trump the single life.

This assumes you're not the type of man who "needs" a variety of women. For many, constantly dealing with new women and having to vet their intentions could be far more stressful than having a woman you know, you trust, who shares your goals & interests, supports you emotionally/physically, who also has a good income, and you don't have worry about strapping up. If you feel like you have to constantly chase/have new women, this ideal mate will never satisfy you, but if you find this good woman, what else does the single life offer?

I don't think one trumps the other. I was content when I was single. Im content with a partner. I would say that I had more time than I have now when I didnt have a partner. Women can be very demanding of time.

 

[Phitz]

Yeah until the topics of global warming and overpopulation come up. India and China are going through this now

Overpopulation is a myth. People's push to live in cities is the problem. A place like Africa is trying to reverse this with more people living in smaller cities and getting more active in agriculture.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I’ve been judged for not having kids at 29 they think something is wrong with me. I need to move

 

[Phitz]

Parents who are able to provide both financially and knowledge so we can create a cycle of winners

This is a shallow unbalanced focus. What is a winner?

I've seen parents who thought like this. They created 'winners', having children who are doctors and engineers. This lady brags on her children all the time. None of them call her, and their relationship with her is not deep or close at all. they're successful but rarely visit. I wonder if all their relationships are that cold.

I know another lady who's brother is a millionare. He does not do anything for his parents or siblings. His sister is struggling, and his parents live off retirement. He has knowledge and is a 'winner' though.

I know another divorced(remarried) older guy who is emotionally close to his children. They are avg university and junior college kids, but they're very close to their dad and they seem to light up when they see him. The family seems to have a strong quality bond.

I’ve been judged for not having kids at 29 they think something is wrong with me. I need to move

People do this facilitate scenarios for divorce or bitterness.

 

[Boris Reznikov]

Objectively, it can be argued that life without the responsibility of children is more liberating. However, I'd say that a life in a relationship (still without kids) with a woman whom you trust and meshes well with you, will always trump the single life.

This assumes you're not the type of man who "needs" a variety of women. For many, constantly dealing with new women and having to vet their intentions could be far more stressful than having a woman you know, you trust, who shares your goals & interests, supports you emotionally/physically, who also has a good income, and you don't have worry about strapping up. If you feel like you have to constantly chase/have new women, this ideal mate will never satisfy you, but if you find this good woman, what else does the single life offer?

I absolutely do not chase women. My life right now revolves around my career, trying to get my business started, travelling around the world, occasionally hanging with my boys and every once in a while I’ll meet some female and we will mess around for a bit before we both move on. I’m terms of my life priorities right now, chasing women are at the bottom.

And for me it’s the perfect life and more importantly I’m happy, which is the most important thing here.

 

[Boris Reznikov]

I’ve been judged for not having kids at 29 they think something is wrong with me. I need to move

They want you to be as miserable as they’re and secretly jealous of your freedom. fukk em

 

[mag357]

Objectively, it can be argued that life without the responsibility of children is more liberating. However, I'd say that a life in a relationship (still without kids) with a woman whom you trust and meshes well with you, will always trump the single life.

This assumes you're not the type of man who "needs" a variety of women. For many, constantly dealing with new women and having to vet their intentions could be far more stressful than having a woman you know, you trust, who shares your goals & interests, supports you emotionally/physically, who also has a good income, and you don't have worry about strapping up. If you feel like you have to constantly chase/have new women, this ideal mate will never satisfy you, but if you find this good woman, what else does the single life offer?

I absolutely do not chase women. My life right now revolves around my career, trying to get my business started, travelling around the world, occasionally hanging with my boys and every once in a while I’ll meet some female and we will mess around for a bit before we both move on. I’m terms of my life priorities right now, chasing women are at the bottom.

And for me it’s the perfect life and more importantly I’m happy, which is the most important thing here.

Same with me... chasing women smh... that shyt ain't been on my radar in years.
I've lost alot of women because I dnt keep up with them... say hi or fukk them regularly.
When u understand how many of them in the world there is... they become less important because you know if u really wanted to... u can just go find another 1...

And again, the whole "finding 1 women who is great and meshes" that shyts a dream... it ain't real. Ull be putting urself through lots of headaches believing that shyt.

Even if she aint grimey... shes gonna do shyt that annoys u... ur gonna have to argue, your gonna have to compromise at times and do shyt that you dont want to do....
Just to not be "lonely" at times.

I never have to deal with that.

And I've never met a truly happy man in a relationship

 

[Marzupial]

This is a shallow unbalanced focus. What is a winner?

I've seen parents who thought like this. They created 'winners', having children who are doctors and engineers. This lady brags on her children all the time. None of them call her, and their relationship with her is not deep or close at all. they're successful but rarely visit. I wonder if all their relationships are that cold.

I know another lady who's brother is a millionare. He does not do anything for his parents or siblings. His sister is struggling, and his parents live off retirement. He has knowledge and is a 'winner' though.

I know another divorced(remarried) older guy who is emotionally close to his children. They are avg university and junior college kids, but they're very close to their dad and they seem to light up when they see him. The family seems to have a strong quality bond.



People do this facilitate scenarios for divorce or bitterness.

You called me shallow and then gave shallow examples

Of course life goes on winners or losers sadly most people separates from they family when they get older

For black people I rather it be like that but with money and not broke asses on child support and that whole fukked up cycle

The reason why THEY don't accept polygamy and program people to have kids young is MONEy

It's just to put people on debt and raise cheap workers, but cats fall for it

 

[Marzupial]

I’ve been judged for not having kids at 29 they think something is wrong with me. I need to move

This is slave mentality mixed with seeing the world from a cac POV

Knowing how the world is, a young black male should take is mind off kids and just stack paper and knowledge

 

[TRUEST]

This is a shallow unbalanced focus. What is a winner?

I've seen parents who thought like this. They created 'winners', having children who are doctors and engineers. This lady brags on her children all the time. None of them call her, and their relationship with her is not deep or close at all. they're successful but rarely visit. I wonder if all their relationships are that cold.

I know another lady who's brother is a millionare. He does not do anything for his parents or siblings. His sister is struggling, and his parents live off retirement. He has knowledge and is a 'winner' though.

I know another divorced(remarried) older guy who is emotionally close to his children. They are avg university and junior college kids, but they're very close to their dad and they seem to light up when they see him. The family seems to have a strong quality bond.



People do this facilitate scenarios for divorce or bitterness.

Listen to me my fellow Colian, love is important and it is the foundation upon which progress can be made in many areas of life. But with everything u do in life, you must apply common sense.

love doesn’t pay the bills. What is a winner? A winner is a man or woman who can comfortably provide for their loved ones in their time of need. What is a time of need? Have you ever been in a natural disaster situation? Think about the how life can be difficult for those people who want to work but can’t work in scenarios such as the one brought about by the corona virus???

who’s paying the bills of those people?

the point being, if u start a family and you’re not financially straight you’re a dumbass. You better deal with your fear of loneliness by getting a pet before u ruin your life focusing on confused priorities.

 

[Phitz]

Listen to me my fellow Colian, love is important and it is the foundation upon which progress can be made in many areas of life. But with everything u do in life, you must apply common sense.

love doesn’t pay the bills. What is a winner? A winner is a man or woman who can comfortably provide for their loved ones in their time of need. What is a time of need? Have you ever been in a natural disaster situation? Think about the how life can be difficult for those people who want to work but can’t work in scenarios such as the one brought about by the corona virus???

who’s paying the bills of those people?

the point being, if u start a family and you’re not financially straight you’re a dumbass. You better deal with your fear of loneliness by getting a pet before u ruin your life focusing of confused priorities.

So your'e basically saying that people who live in other countries on $1 a day should not have families. Sounds pretty elitist.

Most of us would never be here based on this logic, because MOST people did not have much when our grand parents were around.

Most people around the globe still don't have much

Sinlge people waiting till they're 40 to have families doesn't work for everyonen either.

In the old days 2 people came together early on in life and worked as a team to build financially, but now everyone wants to sew oats first and get rich or financially stable alone, which takes much longer.

 

[feelosofer]

Eh, being married and a father is very fulfilling, I'm glad you're enjoying single life, but that isn't for everyone.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

All I gotta say is there’s a lot of life to live. shyt could seem like gravy at a certain age but slowly I’m seeing people older than me break down in interesting ways. Like, I’ve have always three 40 something year old friends have their first child this year.

basically life hits hard and fast...