How old are you and your ladyI have the ultimate cheat code. An amazing woman (rare af), and NO KIDS. We were traveling every year before the COVID shyt. We're in no rush to get married (although we might do it for practical purposes eventually). Neither of us want anything to do with birthing children. Seriously, fukk having kids.
Imagine dying and never fathered a child.....
World is too fukked up of a place and if you’re not financially secured, bringing a child into the world is the last thing someone should worry about. A lot of these mu fukkas think raising a kid is like handling a pet.That's supposed to be a bad thing ?
YesThat's supposed to be a bad thing ?
Still with her or did you end up getting a newer model?I have the ultimate cheat code. An amazing woman (rare af), and NO KIDS. We were traveling every year before the COVID shyt. We're in no rush to get married (although we might do it for practical purposes eventually). Neither of us want anything to do with birthing children. Seriously, fukk having kids.
What age gap do you recommend if you wait till mid 30s?I had my first born at 19
My path is different because based on where I was mentally, if I didn't have my daughter at that time then I probably wouldn't be here today
She gave me the reason to change my path
But outside of those types of situations..
I agree 1000%
Marriage & Kids = a skrressful life
If you can wait.. I would encourage all men to avoid that shyt until at least their mid-late 30s
After they're born, You never stop worrying about them lil mofos for the rest of your days
And being married is cool.. until it's not
And some couples can't navigate through those rough periods but it's alot harder when you're younger
Having kids guarantees that you will have companionship? Having kids is the only way to not be “alone”?nikkas still pretending to hype up being alone at an older age
Live like a peasant in your 20s and 30s because you don’t have the time or money to do anything because you had some anchor babies holding back your career advancement and educations only to hope those same kids don’t just shovel you off into a nursing home when you’re 75 that they will never visit. What a planHaving kids guarantees that you will have companionship? Having kids is the only way to not be “alone”?
Having kids guarantees that you will have companionship? Having kids is the only way to not be “alone”?
ExactlyLive like a peasant in your 20s and 30s because you don’t have the time or money to do anything because you had some anchor babies holding back your career advancement and educations only to hope those same kids don’t just shovel you off into a nursing home when you’re 75 that they will never visit. What a plan
You didn’t answer either question………..At the end of the day human beings are naturally animals who depend on relationships.
Not a damn thing natural about being alone