Oh, the cougar? (Not really a cougar...she was 33, I was 29 when we first met). Long distance relationship ish, she was constantly out of NYC so we really didn't have too much time to spend together. It was either she was touring, teaching music to kids, or out of town (she was originally from the Bay).
I felt like I messed it up by being too thirsty...
She was one of the better looking women I've been involved with.
Your situation sounds exactly like mine.
I'm 23 now, she was a year younger than me but trust me my breh we weren't too thirsty. If they can't make us their priority then fukk THEM.
fukk THEM BREH
Man just... fukk her