Real talk, get the fukk out of NYC
If you're in that player/bachelor mode, NYC is a dream. The amount of p*ssy you can get, plus the sexy transplants in manhattan. But if you're looking for something serious, look elsewhere
Sex in the City was filmed in NY for a reason. Being single and talking down about a man is a culture here. Women here are comfortable being 30+, having no man and kids, focusing on that elusive career that will never materialize. Women rather serial date, than be in a relationship. Bunch of women still living out their Peter Pan fantasies, thinking they can still play the field at 35
Feminism is hands down the highest in this area. A great relationship between a man and a woman is when gender roles are established as the man as the leader. And Feminists are clueless about that. Added to the fact with this "Harassment" phenomenon that girls think their a supermodel cause a nikka cat-calls them. Run, and run far my fellow Nigerian brother
Start gaming in Connecticut and Long Island. You'll be much happier