Being single sucks.

[MikelArteta]

Tinder and POF are for finding sex. I want a relationship.

so what are you looking for in a man then or would you take anything?

 

[Rayzah]

Tinder and POF are for finding sex. I want a relationship.

That's not true at all

 

[MikelArteta]

That's not true at all

for the most part its true, there is a small percentage that look for something more, but the majority its just sex and hookups, fwbs, follow me on instagram etc.

 

[LezJepzin]

I thought like OP (I know most of y'all seen my post history) but I can honestly now say that it doesn't bother me anymore. I don't wanna jump into something hastily because its cold out here in Northern California , beginning of 2015 and Single Awareness Day is next month

My checking account has never been this fat before , I look great and I enjoy my freedom. Would I like to have a girl to share my time with? Hell yeah. But I don't want to jump into something I'm going to regret because I had desperate "feelings" of needing affection. Being 33 with almost NO relationship history doesn't bug me either


Social Media is a illusion for all of these couples and players so-called "happy lives" anyway . I'm not fooled anymore by that shyt.

 

[Sane]

Tinder and POF are for finding sex. I want a relationship.

Who's that in your avatar?

 

[Rayzah]

for the most part its true, there is a small percentage that look for something more, but the majority its just sex and hookups, fwbs, follow me on instagram etc.

Yea now that I think about most dudes on there are just looking for sex, but a lot if the women I met aren't.. I see your point.. But that can be said for other situations as well, the same can be said for bars or clubs, through other friends or any other way you can meet people.. I know plenty of people that are just looking to meet girls for sex and don't use online dating..

You are naive to think this type of thing doesn't happ just as often offline..

 

[MikelArteta]

Yea now that I think about most dudes on there are just looking for sex, but a lot if the women I met aren't.. I see your point.. But that can be said for other situations as well, the same can be said for bars or clubs, through other friends or any other way you can meet people.. I know plenty of people that are just looking to meet girls for sex and don't use online dating..

You are naive to think this type of thing doesn't happ just as often offline..

obviously but online dating brings anonymity, and many girls are looking for sex casual hookups as well. I've used tinder and had over 1,000 matches twice. I've had chicks asked me so are you looking for a hookup and I was like nah :kony: and then they were like oh that sucks I was just looking for a fun time no strings attached. Combined

I'd say in both genders tinder/pof online dating as awhole is a minefield of fake profiles, lies, omissions, flakes, multi-daters, male and female attention whores, losers, people looking for casual hookups, and like 5 men and 5 women actually looking for a relationship of substance

 

[Rayzah]

obviously but online dating brings anonymity, and many girls are looking for sex casual hookups as well. I've used tinder and had over 1,000 matches twice. I've had chicks asked me so are you looking for a hookup and I was like nah :kony: and then they were like oh that sucks I was just looking for a fun time no strings attached. Combined

I'd say in both genders tinder/pof online dating as awhole is a minefield of fake profiles, lies, omissions, flakes, multi-daters, male and female attention whores, losers, people looking for casual hookups, and like 5 men and 5 women actually looking for a relationship of substance

I've never met women who were upfront about just wanting sex, I'm jealous.. But seriously I'm just saying if you haven't had success dating the traditional way you should expand your options.. And if offline and online dating bring the same or similar results then maybe just maybe it could be you.. I've had success and failure both ways.. So to ole girl I originally quoted it won't hurt to try..

 

[Elle]

so what are you looking for in a man then or would you take anything?

Someone intelligent,sincere, loving,kind, someone who has leadership qualities; I say that because I believe in traditional gender roles and I want some one who I can trust to led our household, and be a strong example for our children, but not treat me like I am his property. I would like someone who I can connect with emotionally and be vulnerable with and know that he won't use that against me in the end, my best friend, lover, and life partner. I am not hard and fast on looks but I want to be attracted to him. He doesn't have to be 6'1 making $250,000 a year either before ya'll start.

 

[Heafcliffe]

cheaper to keep her my ass.
an extra person gone always coat more money than 1.

True, but realize she brings money, sacrifice and convenience to the table as well.

 

[MikelArteta]

Someone intelligent,sincere, loving,kind, someone who has leadership qualities; I say that because I believe in traditional gender roles and I want some one who I can trust to led our household, and be a strong example for our children, but not treat me like I am his property. I would like someone who I can connect with emotionally and be vulnerable with and know that he won't use that against me in the end, my best friend, lover, and life partner. I am not hard and fast on looks but I want to be attracted to him. He doesn't have to be 6'1 making $250,000 a year either before ya'll start.

its really that hard out there for women

 

[Rayzah]

its really that hard out there for women

I know right it seems that all women want the same thing in men..

Someone intelligent,sincere, loving,kind, someone who has leadership qualities; I say that because I believe in traditional gender roles and I want some one who I can trust to led our household, and be a strong example for our children, but not treat me like I am his property. I would like someone who I can connect with emotionally and be vulnerable with and know that he won't use that against me in the end, my best friend, lover, and life partner. I am not hard and fast on looks but I want to be attracted to him. He doesn't have to be 6'1 making $250,000 a year either before ya'll start.

The question is do you bring something equal to the table?

 

[MikelArteta]

I know right it seems that all women want the same thing in men..

The question is do you bring something equal to the table?

i dont know elle but women will say all that but then be talking to like 15 different dudes, scandalous photos on instagram, kid out of wedlock etc.

 

[philmonroe]

What's that?

I don't know that's for you to figure out but hope its not to harsh whatever it is

 

[CHILLL]

when your single after a while people buy the happy illusion couples present. Everybody looks "happy" from afar especially on social media. But many times that is not the case, you could be in a abusive relationship, wife cheating on you, constant fights and arguments. I say focus on what you have and be content with that.

Being in a relationship/dating is easy being a good stable enriching relationship is not.

this is real talk
although emporer a depressed ass nikka