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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
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yeah being 23 married with kids you can just get up and go see the world when you want :dahell:

marriage and kids =responsible to someone else other than yourself
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You can if you have your shyt together. shyt doesnt change as you get older.

Getting married at 23 is a bad idea for other reasons though.
 
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bigesco said:
Im in a weird predicament @ the moment. Im with a nice asian chick that is everything any guy could ask for. She is simple, sweet, cooks, cleans, faithful, funny, smart(nurse), caring, takes my side even when im wrong :what:, helps out :what:, never asks for cheddar:what:, buys me shyt even tho shes not well off financially (yo you are not even embarrassed to say this when the woman has a child to raise), loves me like whoa, I mean just fukking perfect. Never bytches or complains, or asks for things, If I buy her a bag of chips she acts like im the nicest human in the world. Shes fukking perfect yall.

Except.....

1) Im not really all that attracted to her, shes not bad looking but she just doesnt really do it for me
2) She got a 4 yr old kid

I fukking love this chick:comeon:but I almost wanna break up with her everyday:snoop: I really dont know what I should do here. I know that once I leave her Ill never find anyone as perfect as her again:sadcam:
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I hope you treat her better than the way you painted it in that post if she's 'so perfect' cause believe me no woman is going to put up with the above indefinitely. Thats way too much investment on her part for a relationship that is not leading to commitment and my guess it's due to her child, cause out of wedlock children is extremely frowned upon among asians generally...girlfriend is looking to settle down.:ehh:

I don't think you love her...you love what she does for you. Case in point...you are ready to leave her cause you don't fimd her attractive and cause she has a child.

Fair enough; what will you do, when she stops doing what as much when you cuff her...will you still love her?:sas1:
 
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I hope you treat her better than the way you painted it in that post if she's 'so perfect' cause believe me no woman is going to put up with the above indefinitely. Thats way too much investment on her part for a relationship that is not leading to commitment and my guess it's due to her child, cause out of wedlock children is extremely frowned upon among asians generally...girlfriend is looking to settle down.:ehh:

I don't think you love her...you love what she does for you. Case in point...you are ready to leave her cause you don't fimd her attractive and cause she has a child.

Fair enough; what will you do, when she stops doing what as much when you cuff her...will you still love her?:sas1:
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I dont ask her to do shyt, she just does. She does it cuz she loves me. I do shyt for her too. I just didnt mention it above. Yes even if I leave her ill still love her. Shes a great gal.
 
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bigesco said:
I dont ask her to do shyt, she just does. She does it cuz she loves me. I do shyt for her too. I just didnt mention it above. Yes even if I leave her ill still love her. Shes a great gal.
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I have never said you did. I am saying you are still with her for the things she does for you...to me that's not love.

If she stopped doing all these things or don't do it as much...will you still love her? I don't know the length of your relationship but you knew from jump what she looked like and that she had a kid and that these things were dealbreaker but you entertained the relationship cause of what you get out of it...that's just selfish.

These are the things that men do, that make women bitter and not want to do ish. And believe me if you have been with her for a while and drop her now she will resent you and rightfully so.

If this has not been a long courtship then ignore the above and I stand corrected.
 
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JJ_da_gawd said:
Man im the opposite, im thinking about breaking up with my girl so i can start afresh for 2015, save some money and have some fun.

The paradox of life is that as a man you will never be happy, women are a nightmare when your in a relationship... but when your single all you do is want one. Mark my words brehs we will never be happy as men. I think the only dudes that find some sort of happiness are rich single dudes with a stable of hoes.
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Man I was there a few months back with the starting over thing!

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I've been single the last year and recently met a Colombian woman with a great career, no kids, beautiful, humorous and kind. I dated a LOT over the past year and it got to a point where I just wanted to stop meeting women and chill. It became tedious and draining. Then about 2 months after falling back... boom, the Colombian shows up. Being single can get lonely because we're all social creatures but you shouldnt force yourself to settle and like someone just because you feel a tinge of loneliness. When you meet that person you feel drawn to and connected to, I'd hope its a feeling you can recognize and not take for granted.

So ultimately, you want to be able to share a meal with someone. Watch a movie both of you have not yet seen. Share new experiences and laugh together. All of the simple things can add up to help you understand why it is you want a partner/friend in the end. Just have a good judge of character, know who you are, recognize and read what is put forth (from a woman) and move accordingly. I wish happiness for everyone in here, no matter where or how it's acquired. :salute:
 
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