Being single sucks.

[dark_magic]

i meant distance in terms of say living hours away etc. or even in a different country.

One of my friends went to a resort on vacation in jamaica met a guy, went back 3 times in a year, and moved down there and married him, now they have a kid. Dude had nothing, just a regular cat and she isn't bad looking but when a woman loves you

when she doesn't doesn't matter what you do or say

Do note your friend went foreign ....

GO FOREIGN if you must.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Idk bro, you just gotta live life. I want a chick too, but honestly I just turned 23, live at home and need to finish getting my bachelor's degree. I already have my aa but need to enroll to finish.

I have a job and have travelled loads this year, but I gotta sort myself out and my situation first and get to do the things that I want to do. I wouldn't have been able to travel to Tokyo or Canada or mexico or LA or San Diego or northern Washington and wherever else I went to last year if I had a girlfriend, sooooooooo I can't be mad or sad because its a new year and I'm here and I'm bettering myself.

 

[philmonroe]

Idk bro, you just gotta live life. I want a chick too, but honestly I just turned 23, live at home and need to finish getting my bachelor's degree. I already have my aa but need to enroll to finish.

I have a job and have travelled loads this year, but I gotta sort myself out and my situation first and get to do the things that I want to do. I wouldn't have been able to travel to Tokyo or Canada or mexico or LA or San Diego or northern Washington and wherever else I went to last year if I had a girlfriend, sooooooooo I can't be mad or sad because its a new year and I'm here and I'm bettering myself.

Man y'all nikkas got excuses for everything. Why couldn't you take these trips if you had a girl?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Man y'all nikkas got excuses for everything. Why couldn't you take these trips if you had a girl?

Man, why are you concerned with my modus operandi if I'm happy? Lay offfff bro. The fact is I'm cooling, unrestricted, free and enjoying myself. Why do I need to be in a relationship to do that? I bet you don't have a chick (or do) and didn't do what I did. So what is your excuse?

 

[MikelArteta]

What's quality and good to you is not for the next person.

Well that thinking takes confidence and security a lot of brehs dont have. Lot of people, men and women, think it's hard to find quality people to date. Its not if u position urself well and are willing to wait a little bit.

 

[MikelArteta]

No one is perfect

Your settling scared of the unknown

Im in a weird predicament @ the moment. Im with a nice asian chick that is everything any guy could ask for. She is simple, sweet, cooks, cleans, faithful, funny, smart(nurse), caring, takes my side even when im wrong, helps out, never asks for cheddar, buys me shyt even tho shes not well off financially, loves me like whoa, I mean just fukking perfect. Never bytches or complains, or asks for things, If I buy her a bag of chips she acts like im the nicest human in the world. Shes fukking perfect yall.

Except.....

1) Im not really all that attracted to her, shes not bad looking but she just doesnt really do it for me
2) She got a 4 yr old kid

I fukking love this chick but I almost wanna break up with her everyday I really dont know what I should do here. I know that once I leave her Ill never find anyone as perfect as her again

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Well it could be because I've never been in a serious relationship or in love so I can't miss what I've never had. I mean I do think about "what if" from time to time but I don't pine for it anymore especially considering I could be one of these chicks who are knocked up by some bum or getting game ran on her,cheated on, played, etc. I'd rather be alone, I can make myself miserable I don't need a man for that.

Well that was depressing.... If I am correct, your post implies that only bums and players approach you. Right? Not trying to be rude but not every guy is a bum/player.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Im in a weird predicament @ the moment. Im with a nice asian chick that is everything any guy could ask for. She is simple, sweet, cooks, cleans, faithful, funny, smart(nurse), caring, takes my side even when im wrong, helps out, never asks for cheddar, buys me shyt even tho shes not well off financially, loves me like whoa, I mean just fukking perfect. Never bytches or complains, or asks for things, If I buy her a bag of chips she acts like im the nicest human in the world. Shes fukking perfect yall.

Except.....

1) Im not really all that attracted to her, shes not bad looking but she just doesnt really do it for me
2) She got a 4 yr old kid

I fukking love this chick but I almost wanna break up with her everyday I really dont know what I should do here. I know that once I leave her Ill never find anyone as perfect as her again

If she has a sister or if you guys break up..... pm me

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

This thread is depressing :/

Not as depressing as this: http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread.php/816357-Introvert-Goals-for-2015!-What-s-yours
Just sad, man.

 

[Tunez]

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

I never understand why people automatically assume that you have low self esteem because you don't like being single. It's the canned answer that everyone give but that does;t apply to all. I don't hate myself or my own company but I just don't like being single.

It doesn't help that men on here think I should kill myself because I'm over 35 and single either.

How do you end up 35 and single...? The clock's ticking... 5 years left right?

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Knocking on 30, already have a kid.

I'm focused on this paper and the women my age are basically forcing me to date younger since they lose interest once they learn I have a young child and I don't want another kid any time soon.

Poor me

 

[the bossman]

I never understand why people automatically assume that you have low self esteem because you don't like being single. It's the canned answer that everyone give but that does;t apply to all. I don't hate myself or my own company but I just don't like being single.

It doesn't help that men on here think I should kill myself because I'm over 35 and single either.

 

[philmonroe]

Man, why are you concerned with my modus operandi if I'm happy? Lay offfff bro. The fact is I'm cooling, unrestricted, free and enjoying myself. Why do I need to be in a relationship to do that? I bet you don't have a chick (or do) and didn't do what I did. So what is your excuse?

nikkas like you wish I was concerned. You posted something I didn't agree with so I commented on it. fukk your modus operandi I just said you could take a girl with you and anything else is bullshyt. I didn't comment on you cooling, needing to be in a relationship, and all that other shyt nor do I give a fukk hence why I didn't speak on it. Show me where I said you should be in a relationship nikka? I didn't do what you did but it don't matter I have the option to do so so fukk are you saying? I don't have an excuse I do what I want silly rabbit.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

What's quality and good to you is not for the next person.

Never said it was :scumbag: