Praised and acknowledged by other black men?
As a black woman, even though chaste and classy women get some hate from other black women, they are usually admired. That is usually the opposite for men.
For so long the rhetoric has been that women do not want a good, upstanding man. They want the bad boy who will blow their backs out and send them packing. So naturally, men's argument has been to fall in line with what women want in order to get them.
All of a sudden, ayesha curry steps on the scene and it's "oh I want I woman like ayesha", "yall hoes need to be more like ayesha".
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So now the argument is, "we as men are allowed to have standards and want a woman like ayesha".
Well, where were those standards when you were running through deshawn, eshlawn, lil mamma, and her friends?
This new argument is set on the basis that you as a man are the leader and the one to choose.
So if this is the new role black men want to accept, why aren't the likes of steph curry being championed?
Why aren't black men telling other black men to be more selective?
Why aren't black men telling other black men that it's ok to not sleep around?
But ya'll are quick to tell black women to stop being hoes and have respect for themselves.
I firmly believe that most of you men using ayesha curry as the golden standard is simply a ploy to support the old adage "men are naturally promiscuous".
From the age of dawn, men have been sleeping with prostitutes and whores but went and found a virtuous woman to marry.
You may want an ayesha curry but that doesn't stop you from sleeping with the kim's, amber's, and chyna's.
Simply put, if you aren't going to be like steph, you shouldn't expect an ayesha.
That's like calling me out for proper punctuation. My style is that of an educated person. My mind is orderly and I often number my points, even in conversation (note that this other person does not). I provide definitions so ppl dont feel stupid, not to clown them for common ignorance. Nobody would ever characterize me as acerbic. She sounds like a bytch and precisely why I stay tf away from my peers. They're poisonous.
And got the nerve to claim I'm the one on lsa 'spewing venom.'
