Bedwench Article: Racism On Dating Apps Made Me Regret Trying Tinder & Bumble At All — Here's Why

[Bondye Vodou]

Dunno why the fukkery from WM seems so surprising for some sistas when it's nothing new. It's always to be expected from us, but when they deal with it up close from a WM or any non-BM, it's so surprising. Oh, well.

Haven't they been told that white men, or non black men in general, will treat them better than black men would?




dey gon have to learn the hard way

 

[Kilgore Trout]

She made her bed she can wench in it

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yo some of these book titles are wild. They seem to have a fetish/fantasy about getting pregnant by a billionaire or a CEO.

Like this is a whole sub genre of books I had no idea that existed. Do black men who PAWG have these same kind of books to read? Where some breh lusts after a WW and dreams of getting her pregnant?

 

[BlackMajik]

Yo some of these book titles are wild. They seem to have a fetish/fantasy about getting pregnant by a billionaire or a CEO.

Like this is a whole sub genre of books I had no idea that existed. Do black men who PAWG have these same kind of books to read? Where some breh lusts after a WW and dreams of getting her pregnant?

ONce again I have to bring this up cuz its the truth

That's the thing. Even though black men date out at twice the rate of black women, black women seem twice as thirsty to date out. Where is the black male equivalent of a site like that? A snow like scandal? Black women would be protesting of the racial dynamic of scandal was reversed. Look at all the literature coming from black women promoting "swirling". You don't see the anywhere near the same amount from black men. Black women have started a whole movement around trying "something new". It's not just about being with white dudes, it's about being so thirsty to be with white dudes. It's just a pathetic look.

 

[philmonroe]

This quote from the second article says a lot about swirlers mindsets.

The chick from the second article sound insecure and low key putting ww on a pedestal. A lot of people wonder if people date their race if they don’t know for sure. I’ve had white girls back in the day ask mutual friends if I dated white girls. You don’t get that if you live around each other but random people of different races people sometimes wonder do you date IR don’t know what that chick talking about.

 

[philmonroe]

If you have a problem with what she said then you better not be dating a white woman.

What kind of coli virtue signaling is this lol

 

[eastsideTT]

These articles don't even sound genuine or coming from an authentic place anymore. It's all variations of other material. You can do a checklist on the verbiage within the article, like the writer had a itinerary to complete.

Racism, Racist
Micro-Aggressions
White Men
Internalized Racism
Triggered
POC
Marginalized
Toxic
Black Lives Matter
Running hand through newly done braids
men still view women in an over-sexualized way
underhanded racism
WOC
Organic Interactions


Those are all words and pieces from the article. She probably put a check mark next to each of those items listed.

you really could play madlibs with these shyts. she would have gotten a high score if she was able to work out "lets unpack..." a few times. it wouldnt be surprising if The Root and Refinery 29 have algorithms writing articles now. it wouldnt be hard, and they could churn out the constant viral content they need to stay afloat. go in debt over j-school to fufill your dreams of writing viral think peices and get outworked by bots

 

[El negrito de tejas]

I only use tinder when I'm on vacation out of the country. Have never had any issues getting buns as an American black man.

on tinder looking for love is laughable.

 

[philmonroe]

Yo some of these book titles are wild. They seem to have a fetish/fantasy about getting pregnant by a billionaire or a CEO.

Like this is a whole sub genre of books I had no idea that existed. Do black men who PAWG have these same kind of books to read? Where some breh lusts after a WW and dreams of getting her pregnant?

Fam your last question made me do some googles and they definitley do have similar books lmao. Just type in bm ww romance and prepare to crack the hell up. One of first book titles was called primal lol. Type in bmww romance

 

[badtguy]

YIKES.

Does this mean they're desperate or does it reflect the state of dating.

both

There are bw-who don't date bm and there are other bw who do but say their open to all races.

Them having a lot of non black matches could also mean there are way more non-bm using dating apps which is a fact. Like there are probably 7 times more non black men on dating apps in general.

But it also speaks of their desperation what I've learned Is that bw on dating apps are unguarded around non-black men.

Many think "there is no way a wm, asian, latino, is going to fukk me over" until they get fukked over.

To many black women.
Black men on dating apps= these Nikkas just want p*ssy, no dates.
White, asian, Latino men on dating apps= they must be looking for a relationship, dates.

An attractive bm is gonna eat on dating apps regardless, but from my experience too many won't trust you.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Fam your last question made me do some googles and they definitley do have similar books lmao. Just type in bm ww romance and prepare to crack the hell up. One of first book titles was called primal lol. Type in bmww romance

Breh, I had some downtime at work and fell into the rabbit hole with these books.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

These women are stupid, regardless of race men aren't picky about who they fukk....if they just want p*ssy, that's what they will treat you like. If you want more than that go for the guy who want more, they may not be as attractive as the guys who just want to run through your p*ssy.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Black women aren’t desirable to white men outside of fetishes, curiosity or desperation. It’s rare a white man will take the time to love and know a black woman deeply. Extremely rare.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

That's what all you idiot nikkaz get for dating outside your race.

No sympathy from me on whatever a white person does to you.

Once you date out, I won't defend or fight for you, no matter what

 

[philmonroe]

Breh, I had some downtime at work and fell into the rabbit hole with these books.

I sometimes read the back of the “hood” novels about to read some of these ir novels so I can have a good laugh. Guess there really is a market for everything. Imo this also shows if we had a world without family and societal pressure of most trying to fit in IR probably would happen more than it does now. These books are made for women because I don’t think men have IR book clubs yet but they might be coming seeing how some dudes get down.