Bedwench Article: Racism On Dating Apps Made Me Regret Trying Tinder & Bumble At All — Here's Why

[Falcozer]

Surprised most of these minority chicks haven't learned that to a probably large majority of cacs they're just a fetish. Especially black women, all you have to see is how they message them, downright no respect and play on their insecurities. You learn pretty quick how the world is racist.

If it comes down to it, to them, cactino and Asians are the next option to marry.

But they rather go on Twitter and join in on the shea butter nonsense.

They know, they just hope that the white man " see the light " and stop seeing them as a fetish.
Truth be told, a lot of BW think they can change Josh and Bill racist thinking if they put enough effort in it

 

[ViShawn]

You have to understand that virtue signaling, tolerance, "acceptance" and all the other shyt people preach go out the window when it comes to dating. Even moreso with online dating which can be ruthless, even moreso for POC.

Which is a major reason why bw/wm is literally worse than bm/ww(not that either is great)

When I have to go in on and teach a white female about the state of oppression of melanated peoples in western countries, I dont get any back talk or pushback

Because the man is supposed to lead in a relationship, his mindstate dominates PERIOD, ESPECIALLY in IR relationships

A white Male trying to tell ANYONE about racial oppression is no different than me trying to tell a female about child birth smh

Most white women I've talked to about the oppression plight are open to listen to it and don't challenge me in my experience. My current girl is white and sort of woke. She is an educator and discusses that stuff with me.

Funny enough only ex of mine who gave me pushback on that sort of stuff wasn't white.

 

[Breh13]

They know, they just hope that the white man " see the light " and stop seeing them as a fetish.
Truth be told, a lot of BW think they can change Josh and Bill racist thinking if they put enough effort in it

At least they give us videos of their cac partners saying racist shyt while they're listening.

 

[JasperFeelingsworth]

These articles don't even sound genuine or coming from an authentic place anymore. It's all variations of other material. You can do a checklist on the verbiage within the article, like the writer had a itinerary to complete.

Racism, Racist
Micro-Aggressions
White Men
Internalized Racism
Triggered
POC
Marginalized
Toxic
Black Lives Matter
Running hand through newly done braids
men still view women in an over-sexualized way
underhanded racism
WOC
Organic Interactions


Those are all words and pieces from the article. She probably put a check mark next to each of those items listed.

Bro I was just thinking that! It's a whole ass checklist of complaining words these days

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Think white folks care about your plight brehs

That part stood out the most to me.

 

[SmarkMero]

Was my ex racist?

Men and My Melanin

 

[Sindicated]

What crazy is that she has been shown on repeated occasions that white men view her as nothing but a an easy fukk or an 'exotic' date and she's still holding out for her white knight. It sad really but I think this white men loving wave has kind of run it's course, in real life.

I hope not, cuz if this is true than expect ALOT of wenches to try and return and get some simp to

Thankfully because of social media and Black Womens thirst for non Black Men its pretty much known now that Black Women are very easy and Non Black Men are pumping and dumping them, and this is one of the reason why i think so many Black Women have turned gay alot of them bought into the shea butter swirler rhetoric and have been used up by non Black Men and Black Men in diverse cities who see how they move aint checking for them like that anymore, outside of fwb.

Obviously the baddest top 10-20%BW will get wifed but the rest either have to date down in hopes of getting a ring, be a decent looking-attractive non BM side piece or go gay and date other BW.

Its their choice but it is wild to think what the Black "community" will be in 20 years.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Was my ex racist?

Men and My Melanin

This quote from the second article says a lot about swirlers mindsets.

When I've used dating apps in the past, my main aim, in scrolling through the profiles of white men I like the look of, has been to check if they have photos with any black friends or previous girlfriends of colour - basically looking for any indication that they would be open to dating me.

I'm pretty sure that none of my white female friends have ever stopped to consider whether a guy they were interested in, is "into white girls". But for many of us black women, it's a pertinent question. It may be 2018 but I am still surprised and relieved when I find that a white man finds me attractive. I can never assume and so I find myself inwardly restricted in the dating game. This, despite the fact that my last two partners have been white.

Even today, while we see more BWWM relationships, there is still some stigma around it which, like it or not, plays out all around us. Of course everyone has their preference and for some, my African features are just not what they're into and that's fine. But it does make me wonder sometimes, how my life - and dating life - would be if only my melanin wasn't so strong.

 

[Falcozer]

This quote from the second article says a lot about swirlers mindsets.

That part specifically is very interesting " It may be 2018 but I am still surprised and relieved when I find that a white man finds me attractive. ". More black women than we think share that kind of thoughts lowkey and a lot of brehs have said the same before but they got shut down

 

[Theraflu]

bw on dating apps are the thirstiest females on dating apps. They basically down there with fat ww.

I'm not even joking. All my matches are bw literally 6-9s, so obviously I have a specific type. Cause I swipe right on them.

When sistas show me their matches. It be all kinda lame dudes. black dudes, be with bad hairlines, fat white guys, short white guys, regular Mexicans and weird Indians.

These hoes literally just be swiping right just to get a match.

Me: How do you match someone you're not attracted to?

Them: I'm keeping my options open

Sis you look crazy and desperate

YIKES.

Does this mean they're desperate or does it reflect the state of dating.

 

[Sindicated]

Surprised most of these minority chicks haven't learned that to a probably large majority of cacs they're just a fetish. Especially black women, all you have to see is how they message them, downright no respect and play on their insecurities. You learn pretty quick how the world is racist.

If it comes down to it, to them, cactino and Asians are the next option to marry.

But they rather go on Twitter and join in on the shea butter nonsense.

They know this, the difference is other ethnic women are smart and 9/10 make sure they pull a cac with a bag and make sure they get a ring out of it, Black Women are fukking hillbilly cacs, weirdo hipsters, wiggas and non BM who have no intention on wifing them all you have to do is go on reddit, BB.com, PUA sites etc and see how non Black Men view Black Women as an easy lay and if they aint dime status most wont even consider wifing unless they have few other options.

It really is funny after all the shyt they give us alot of BW are dealing with the same fukkshyt with non BM id love to see the marriage rates 10 years from now and see what affect swirling has had.

 

[null]

Or men into big boobs would want to date you if you have small boobs?

No mention of the yams breh

 

[TL15]

No mention of the yams breh

Her fetishizers are white men...they ain't in it for the cheeks

 

[null]

These articles don't even sound genuine or coming from an authentic place anymore. It's all variations of other material. You can do a checklist on the verbiage within the article, like the writer had a itinerary to complete.

Racism, Racist
Micro-Aggressions
White Men
Internalized Racism
Triggered
POC
Marginalized
Toxic
Black Lives Matter
Running hand through newly done braids
men still view women in an over-sexualized way
underhanded racism
WOC
Organic Interactions


Those are all words and pieces from the article. She probably put a check mark next to each of those items listed.

That's yt's playbook.

 

[satam55]

During a conversation with another guy about immigration at the U.S./Mexico border, he asked what I thought of Black Lives Matter. A little off topic, I thought, but finally! A man who, although he didn’t appear to be a POC, seemed interested in having intellectual discourse with a marginalized member of society.

Think white folks care about your plight brehettes

Wow, she can't tell dude is running game?