U and his father should teach your son about being a self respecting black man. What if he bumps into a racist person? Is he going to c00n and be submissive? Or stand strong like an OGUN warrior? That’s assuming his father don’t have c00n tendencies like his son. And you don’t want no soft self hating son. That’s why I’m glad my pops taught me how to box and powerful black history when I was a kid. Mom taught me how to love my blackness too. Big reason why I only date black women. Got a thing for dark skin chicks. But I do date black women of all shades.
Maybe it’s the environment he’s in. I remember you posted something about you being around mostly white folks at your career/area or something like that.
As for you not turning down any non black men advances. Good luck. You’ve been warned. I hope u don’t end up like black women with anti black partners.
His father does have some c00n tendencies, if I'm keeping it real. He doesn't care what race of women my son is with, his only concern is that my son isn't a fakkit. He told me not to get on my son about race yet(because I was asking my son to play with more of the black kids in his class, etc), he thinks it's racist to tell my son to hang out with more black kids, or to focus on black girls. He's also Christian, so as far as he is concerned, race shouldn't matter. SMH.
I live in a diverse area. I mean my son's school is 39% black, 41% white, and the rest are "other" races. His school before that was 95% black. Our neighborhood has a mixture of white and black, upper middle class neighbors. So, he isn't mostly around whites, although currently his closest friends are white boys. He does understand that he's black, and he likes being black, and how he looks, I think he just has an issue with darker skin. I think it probably was happening at the other school he was at. I remember one day, hearing one of the kids yell at a dark skin boy, "man you as dark as midnight", shyt like that... So it's something he's picked up on from other kids. He started to understand from his old school, that being dark skin meant negative things. I have tried talking to him about it, lol, but he didn't understand.
I do turn down white men advances. But as I said before, I can't completely rule anyone out, because I know there is a slim possibility I could meet a man of another race that I'm compatible with or vibe with, and if that is the case, I would overlook race. But I prefer BM.
Man, that’s fuked up, but somehow totally expected. Black folk are worse than Asian chicks about hating their own....
