Bedwench Article: Racism On Dating Apps Made Me Regret Trying Tinder & Bumble At All — Here's Why

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These articles don't even sound genuine or coming from an authentic place anymore. It's all variations of other material. You can do a checklist on the verbiage within the article, like the writer had a itinerary to complete.

Racism, Racist
Micro-Aggressions
White Men
Internalized Racism
Triggered
POC
Marginalized
Toxic
Black Lives Matter
Running hand through newly done braids
men still view women in an over-sexualized way
underhanded racism
WOC
Organic Interactions


Those are all words and pieces from the article. She probably put a check mark next to each of those items listed.
No lie I felt like I read this before
 

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You have to understand that virtue signaling, tolerance, "acceptance" and all the other shyt people preach go out the window when it comes to dating. Even moreso with online dating which can be ruthless, even moreso for POC.



Most white women I've talked to about the oppression plight are open to listen to it and don't challenge me in my experience. My current girl is white and sort of woke. She is an educator and discusses that stuff with me.

Funny enough only ex of mine who gave me pushback on that sort of stuff wasn't white.

I'll follow up and say when I've dated white women they have listened instead assuming they know better. So if you're a black woman dating a white guy his worldview and POV is going to overpower the woman's own thinking whether she says so or not. It can be subtle.
 

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It's because black women like her want to keep this narrative alive that white boys are some kind of "Prince Charming" on a white horse named "Sugars" :mjlol:.

The thing is that these wenches think so highly of white men as if they're the gold standard, when even their own (white) women nowadays don't even think that highly of them like that.

So I'm wondering what's really going on here where do these wenches get the impression that all white men have the "Prince Charming" effect (it's gotta be the movies or something), a black woman on Facebook once told me it's something about their smile that hypnotizes & seduces you :duck:. Have they never seen or experienced a racist white man before :why: or do they block out that he's white and just put him in the racist circle?
I think like you said some use pop culture media to inform them that white dudes are the one. That’s who are represented in the most positive light as far as attractive and all that jazz. If you’re only informed by that I can see how you’d act like that. That’s why some people stay whining about representation because more folks than I thought really be making choices based off stuff from tv. Stuffs crazy to me but I can’t ignore how some folks move esp when it comes to ir dating. I don’t even care about who people date but how are you only open to insert race if you’re not going to date your own race? Stuff like that seems like media and or family programming imo.
 
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