Be there for your homie while he dying , or the birth of your kid?

[spliz]

Birth of my kid. The fukk kinda question is this? Anything can happen during childbirth.

 

[The Pledge]

I'm supposed to sit with my homie on his deathbed? Where the fukk is his family?

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

-You can say hello everyday, you only say goodbye once.

Damn, I didn’t even think of it like this...

 

[FTBS]

If that really your mans and he is dying, he should already know beyond a shadow of a doubt how much you love him and he should be the main one telling you to go be with you wife and kid. If its reversed thats what I am telling my friend.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

What if my homie is my wife?

 

[AllHolosEve]

The fact that dudes are picking the homie is wild as fukk to me lol

-Why?

values all the way fukked up

-So people can't have different value systems.

If that really your mans and he is dying, he should already know beyond a shadow of a doubt how much you love him and he should be the main one telling you to go be with you wife and kid. If its reversed thats what I am telling my friend.

-There are some women that will tell you to go say goodbye & they'll be waiting for you when you get back.

 

[AllHolosEve]

I cant choose at the moment. But i dont think theres a wrong answer. Maybe the reasoning could give off scumbag for either one.
But there are great reasons to be made for both.

-There's no wrong answer but people on either side can get emotional if you pick the one they don't agree with.

 

[42 Monks]

-Why?

-So people can't have different value systems.

-There are some women that will tell you to go say goodbye & they'll be waiting for you when you get back.

sure you can have a different value system

but imagine the kind of dirtbag friend you gotta be to ask someone to skip the birth of their child - that's inherently dangerous and uncertain for their wife - to come watch you punch out.

its actually ridiculous. validates cutting so many people of out my life when i read some of the responses in here fr

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

This would be a harder question if you said brother instead of friend

 

[Uachet]

The operative word is "Wife". It did not say girlfriend or my girl or even my fiancé, it said wife. My homie is going to a better place, my wife is bringing in new life that is tied to both of us and dependent on us. I am going to be there for my wife and child.

 

[Trojan 24]

I'm gonna assume it was a bunch of jits answering that poll, cause no way a grown man picking his homie and more importantly no way a real homie gonna want you to miss your child's birth

 

[Tunez]

Banks or my wife

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Wouldn’t your wife want you to be there with your dying best friend?

No…just like his immediate family should be there to support him in his last hours, my spouse should be there to support me in birth and the expansion of our lineage.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Nah, it makes sense. That’s your last opportunity to see your best friend. Missing out on your child’s birth isn’t some monumental fukk up you can’t recover from.

It’s not as though you are even NEEDED at either place.

Yes TF you are

 

[Womb Raider]

Supporting my pawg thru thick and thin