I get where she's coming from. It's natural to be wanted and desired.
I think, where she's messing up is who she wants it from. So what your husband has all these groupies and attractive women coming at him. He has his eyes set on YOU. So maybe you're telling us that he isn't desiring you like that?
But that woman should only CARE ABOUT if her HUSBAND wants and desires her. Who cares if some random internet stranger thinks you're hot...does your husband think that? Does he tell and show you? If so, stop with all the complaining.
A true queen wouldn't care what the "commoners" thought of her, just what her husband thinks. That's why I liked Claire from House of Cards...for the bulk of that show, it only mattered what Frank thought, because she was a confident woman who didn't let anybody else sway her from her course.
As long as Steph is coming home to her, making her feel appreciated and loved, and keeps her feeling good about herself, he's doing his job and she shouldn't be feeling this way (I can't tell nobody how to feel)