I'm not advocating for anything...I'm just saying its an cause and effect situation. women be the ones mostly begging to get married...
Women beg for a lot of shyt. Are you going to be the one to give it to them?
If not, why do you care?
Conservatives in red states turn their attention to ending no-fault divorce laws
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Women beg for a lot of shyt. Are you going to be the one to give it to them?
If not, why do you care?
IDK i used to believe in marriage but as i got older i just soured on the whole thing like it's a scam...
looking at divorce rates and seeing dudes get raked over the coals for alimony and child support when the woman just wants to run the streets it feels like a giant scam. and men these days shouldnt get married it's not a good deal...
don't get married or learn from what prompted those divorces to increase your marriages chances of success.
most divorces now are just based off selfish motives. All it does is create more poverty and emotional damage. And stats show that the love life of a divorced person is usually worse after divorce as they end up divorced again. Ironically pscyh research shows they end up with a similar personality type as their previous spouse so they might as well work it out. IT shows they're still attracted to that same person.
People can divorce for whatever reason they want, but they should get rid of alimony. It's mostly urbanites who have the higher divorce rates anyway. Too much energy used outside of the marriage instead of in it.
this makes no sense, most men just want to get rid of alimony. This will prevent some shady marriages to begin with.
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IDK i used to believe in marriage but as i got older i just soured on the whole thing like it's a scam...
Why would you approve of the government/state/court deciding on divorces?
Aren't they already complicit in men being 'raked over the coals for alimony and child support'
Yapdatfool
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And all this talk about divorce rates lets bring em out:
www.forbes.com
Revealing Divorce Statistics In 2024
The decision to end a marriage is deeply personal, but there are some widespread factors that weigh into the decision. For example, you’re more likely to divorce if you have divorced friends. And you’re less likely to divorce in Louisiana than in Nevada. We’ve combed through research from the U.S. C
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How many divorces did their orange idol have again?
This will not lead to the intended outcome. This will only lead to a decline in the total number of marriages.
Why would you approve of the government/state/court deciding on divorces?
Aren't they already complicit in men being 'raked over the coals for alimony and child support'
Govt is already involved when you get divorced tho, how do you think they structure child support & alimony... The balance is askewed. No Fault divorces are the problem ADDED into state jurisdictions and garbage family courts...Yapdatfool
Superstar
Again, you want to give them more power then they already have?
Not only would they decide child support/alimony/property splits but now get to decide if the divorce has merit or not...
As you said, the balance is askewed towards women and you think getting rid of no fault divorce is gonna make it even?
You are very adamant about #bothsides but can't wait to jump into the arms of the government when it fits your belief system...
Yapdatfool
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At fault divorces need to come back that's all im saying...
And all i'm saying is bringing that back gives your bias pro woman family court more power...
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She stay loved him and she was referring to the 50/50 balance she wanted in building their careers which was imbalance because they had kids.
Michelle Obama says she ‘couldn’t stand’ husband Barack for 10 years
Former first lady says caring for their young daughters put strain on their marriage in Revolt TV interview promoting latest bookwww.theguardian.com
Marriage means sticking with someone you don't LIKE. Cause liking and loving and all that good stuff IS GONNA EBB AND FLOW.
Plenty of couples that been together 40, 50, 60, 70+ years talk about what it means to be with one person that long.
If Michelle had a bad decade, you know folks have had that even longer
Y'all coming at marriage from a very modern perspective.
What I'm referring to is when their isn't any love. A number of people get married in their late teens and early 20s before they even found themselves and brains finished developing. Definitely if the marriage only happened because of pregnancy.
And all i'm saying is bringing that back gives your bias pro woman family court more power...
How sway???
women already got the power by default now in family court
-This is about no fault divorces where nobody did anything. Spousal abuse has nothing to do with this discussion.
