Doesn’t matter where it’s supposed to come from, or what Steph ain’t doing, it’s natural.
If you think you’re with someone that doesn’t want to at least be desirable to others you aren’t being honest with yourself.
Who says it's natural? when I'm single oh yes I want all the attention from women when I'm in a relationship I only care if my girl finds me attractive. I won't entertain her feelings of insecurity because other men don't find her attractive, nor would I expect her to tolerate it from me.