Ayesha Curry Letting Men Know What We Already Know (Ya'll Crave Attention....)

[Black Panther]

I have seen better but there is nothing average about Ayesha Curry.

Tiffany Haddish is average. Kerry Washington is average

This is considered "average" to some of ya'll?

I could see if you said she wasn't a dime or some shyt of that nature but to say this dumb shyt is just wrong

Bad as f*ck.

I'll give her some attention

 

[Sohh_lifted]

True, but it wouldn't be men of his caliber, in fact it probably wouldn't be the type of men Ayesha would want.

She's okay looking(average) and that's not even a bad thing, but when it comes to other basketball wives who are more attractive and have more sex appeal, she really can't compete. And that's okay too, because she wanted to be known for being a good wife. But, with that being said, she's not known for her "looks" or for being his sexy wife. She's known for being his good wife. Again it's partially based on the image she's gone with, but it's also because she isn't sexy in the way these other basketball wives who show "skin" are.

The other issue is that, she sees the type of women that approach her husband. They're attractive, sexy groupies--some look better then her too. So when you add it all up, the fact is she isn't being hyped up for her looks, her sex appeal, or anything of the sort--makes her feel like a "plain jane". Despite the fact that this is the image she put out to begin with(which again it's respectable imo and should be the image she wants to portray anyway).

In any case, I have a feeling, that after having three kids, the weight issues, and being in that industry, seeing all these other wives getting hyped up for things she isn't, it probably is making her insecure. Deep down, she feels like she isn't really the "best" Stephen could get physically, and she feels threatened by that. Just like a man ideally wants to feel like he's the "best" option and first choice for his wife, a woman wants to feel the same. But people aren't saying she's sexy, or beautiful, or any of the sort, they're saying "she's a good wife"... That worked when she was younger and had one kid, and social media wasn't as "big", but now? Obviously she's become insecure, for all the reasons I listed above.

 

[No Hook]

Bad as f*ck.

I'll give her some attention

A poster with some clear eye vision and some sense

 

[Roid Jones]

Everybody wants to feel attractive and desired.

She’s human.

Only mistake she made was sharing her thoughts with the world.

Is that not supposed to come from your other half? If Steph ain't doing something right that is a different convo but this 'I wanna know I still got it' shyt is lame coming from people in relationships

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I think it's this too. If your an attractive women, no matter if your wifed, single, or in a relationship, men will still approach, look at you, oggle, and let you know that they find you attractive. So there's no reason to "speak" on it, because you already know that you got it. When you're not that attractive, or just kind of "bleh", like Ayesha, you're not getting that same attention, so you make statements like this, and feel insecure because you know you're kind of letting yourself go, and that no one is really checking for you, the way women are checking for your husband.
She probably notices that attractive women approach or want her husband, on the regular, but meanwhile, since she's not aging that well, she probably doesn't get a lot of men checking for her. I've never thought she was very attractive, just okay looking. But she looks like she's gained some weight.

Now I'm not on social media, so I don't know anything about what that sort of validation feels like. But I know what it's like to go out, and get attention, and I can only imagine that if at one point when she was younger, and looked better, she probably got more attention, then she's getting now. Probably hurting her ego a bit.

perfectly stated

 

[KneeGrow.]

But she's saying its deeper than that for her, watch the vid again.
There's a difference between wanting to be desired, and placing your self-worth in being desirable to the point where you are so insecure that you will mention it on national TV.

If a dime hits on me and I tell her I am engaged, am I going to be angry that I got hit on by a dime? No of course not.
If no one hits on me in a long time, am I going to be angry that no dimes are hitting on me? As an engaged man, no. But as a MARRIED woman, she seems to be.

That's the difference breh, the difference is the level of insecurity

People have mentioned her doing it in a national platform as a fall back; the concept of a "safe place to express yourself" is just an understood reality these days, particularly for a public figure. Most semi famous people with a podcast form do it.

All you just expressed to me is that you're more secure about your ability to attract an comparable mate to the one that you have now than Ayesha Curry is. That doesn't mean the insecurity doesn't exist at all.

 

[Serious]

guarantee you steph's mom doesn't have that problem

Steph's mom could get it right now
Steph's wife is a hard pass.

 

[tuckgod]

Is that not supposed to come from your other half? If Steph ain't doing something right that is a different convo but this 'I wanna know I still got it' shyt is lame coming from people in relationships

Doesn’t matter where it’s supposed to come from, or what Steph ain’t doing, it’s natural.

If you think you’re with someone that doesn’t want to at least be desirable to others you aren’t being honest with yourself.

 

[philmonroe]

perfectly stated

Since you agree with this when the next Colorism thread pops up will you also co sign this same stuff regarding if folks were getting attention they wouldn’t be whining?

 

[Black Panther]

A poster with some clear eye vision and some sense

For real, I don't even know what's wrong with some of these posters, IMO.

Dudes calling Ayesha Curry "average", knowing the chicks they pull probably look like Clarence Thomas in drag :mjlolhairfade:

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Everybody wants to feel attractive and desired.

She’s human.

Only mistake she made was sharing her thoughts with the world.

Yes we do.

And she is.

To her husband who picked HER out of 100's of other women he could have dated and wed.

Yet when you decide to devote yourself to one person, all that is out the window.

The only attraction she should be concerned about is her husbands.

Her own narrative makes her seem like she's a unhappy thot in a 100 million dollar marriage.

 

[George Gooney]

Fam you nikkas got to stop this. Shorty is light skin with pretty eyes. Nothing sexy about shorty. She has no sex appeal.

I'd bet good money She sexier than any woman you ever had your dikk in.

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

Everybody wants to feel attractive and desired.

She’s human.

Only mistake she made was sharing her thoughts with the world.

His sister said something similar but no one cares because her husband ain't famous

 

[DJSmooth]

I mean, it depends on what you are used to looking at. I am used to looking at Ayesha Currys on the way to class. There are bartenders in my city that look better than her.

The way I judge anything is based off of what it looks like in the environment that it is in and what is available.

Like Taylor Rooks and Ayesha Curry are good catches if you a regular dude. I think Taylor Rooks just has a natural sexual aura about her like Jhene Aiko, it's not really about her looks. Taylor Rooks and Ayesha Curry are 6 figure catches. Like you know, you settle down, got a 6 figure salary, you get one of them, you doing good, you won. Ayesha Curry might be the baddest chick in some country ass town or a hood near you.

Which to me, means she's average looking.

nikkas basically calling Taylor Rooks a strong 8 I need to meet the women yall be meeting in real life clearly I'm doing something wrong

 

[BeeCityRoller]

Anothe coli heart break you morons were propping up Ayesha as the ideal woman, you idiots need TO STOP PUTTING PEOPLE YOU DO NOT KNOW ON PEDESTALS

It wasn't her being put on a pedestal, as much as it was refreshing to see a young black traditional couple succeed compared to real dysfunctional black relationships in media that are propped up (LAHH, Basketball wives) and other situations like Ciara getting "clean-up man" Russel Wilson.

Still unfortunate though. At this rate his marriage may be over before his career on the court is. What does it matter to me though, since I'm GMB