Average black couples thread

[Box Factory]

You’ll get over it. And I’ll get around to it when I feel like it.

Yeah i think this is all disingenuous juelezing.

I think issues like that are such touchy subjects and emotional that they become battlegrounds for ppl who are involved in it (ie you) and you end up going back and forth on it so much that you become far more concerned in crafting an argument than discussing it honestly

I think you like to be condescending and consider yourself an authority figure. So when you got a buncha responses you didnt like you gave up because you were looking for validation of your crafted argument rather than honest discussion.

Im not even saying your argument was wrong, but i think you got mad and ignorned it

Which is a shame, because i think alot of ppl were interested in the info you had

Just comes off as petty and childish to ignore it and then make shyt up like "i had to buy snacks" as an excuse

 

[Weaver31]

So you don’t think that social skill deficits, communication skill problems, issues with anxiety, self-esteem, entitlement, internet echo chambers, exaggerations of woe is me scenarios, and crippling awkwardness, porn addiction and solitary lifestyles and media addiction doesn’t factor into many having less sex, and less social human interaction?
It’s even impacting employment and professional networking abilities. Much less connections as complicated as romantic relationships.
Why millennials are the most anxious generation in history


Lonely, burned out, and depressed: The state of millennials' mental health in 2020

Sociologists LITERALLY have dubbed this generation the “loneliest”.

But I’m assuming?
Oh well. This isn’t something to debate about imo. It’s obvious to me. Agree to disagree but I concur with what many other experts are saying. Large portions of people are socially inept and living in their heads, filled with anxiety. That’s what prevents them from maintaining successful relationships. Meanwhile others without these constraints are finding regular degular, connections.
Believe as you please.

This is very true....all of this. Plus people nowadays all want high value people, which is kinda understandable but folks sometimes want shyt that they can't bring to the table themselves. Having reasonable standards helps maximize ur dating/sex/marriage potential.

 

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Yeah i think this is all disingenuous juelezing.

I think issues like that are such touchy subjects and emotional that they become battlegrounds for ppl who are involved in it (ie you) and you end up going back and forth on it so much that you become far more concerned in crafting an argument than discussing it honestly

I think you like to be condescending and consider yourself an authority figure. So when you got a buncha responses you didnt like you gave up because you were looking for validation of your crafted argument rather than honest discussion.

Im not even saying your argument was wrong, but i think you got mad and ignorned it

Which is a shame, because i think alot of ppl were interested in the info you had

Just comes off as petty and childish to ignore it and then make shyt up like "i had to buy snacks" as an excuse

You can think what you like. People who know me know I get easily distracted. Hell I’m here posting random pictures of couples even though I got an entire dissertation to finish.
Dont really care what you think. When I’m ready, I’ll post what I wanna post.
When I want to post it. Just like everything I do in my life. Nothing I do is contingent on outside pressure. Tomorrow I’m thinking about a thread on Mercury in ancient pyramids and the effects of electromagnetic fields on humans.

 

[Selena]

Now this my kind of thread. Bless you, OP!

 

[Wildhundreds]

OP got exposed for having an asian boyfriend and had the mods scrub the the thread and delete every post calling her out

Even if she has an Asian boyfriend or not.. Does that change the fact that black people are successfully dating?

 

[philmonroe]

Even if she has an Asian boyfriend or not.. Does that change the fact that black people are successfully dating?

Who didn't think black people were successfully dating outside of lames online? All you have to do is walk out the door to see this is the case.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Who didn't think black people were successfully dating outside of lames online? All you have to do is walk out the door to see this is the case.

I think some of these dudes posting from Mars.. And when OP post hundreds of pictures, they still crying.. If a nikka can't go to a local lounge and pick up some pu$$y then they are the problem..

 

[skylove4]

Thanks we should be more realistic.
Also people need to stop overglorifying whites as well and acting like regular degular white men only or primarily get gorgeous perfect women. I see PLENTY of whites with average people as well.

P

Ole boy in the first pic should have shaved that shyt off his head yesterday

 

[philmonroe]

I think some of these dudes posting from Mars.. And when OP post hundreds of pictures, they still crying.. If a nikka can't go to a local lounge and pick up some pu$$y then they are the problem..

They gotta be posting from Mars or using celebrities as the standard and either way they lacking. Most people regardless of race are with their own and close in looks, financial status, etc. it like dudes don't even have family and friends to see this dynamic smh. I feel bad for some of these dudes truly.

 

[Givethanks]

this thread had so much potential


but this is the coli

 

[Box Factory]

You can think what you like. People who know me know I get easily distracted. Hell I’m here posting random pictures of couples even though I got an entire dissertation to finish.
Dont really care what you think. When I’m ready, I’ll post what I wanna post.
When I want to post it. Just like everything I do in my life. Nothing I do is contingent on outside pressure. Tomorrow I’m thinking about a thread on Mercury in ancient pyramids and the effects of electromagnetic fields on humans.

You're a big fat liar

 

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You're a big fat liar

And you’re a weirdo triggered by pictures of normal people getting together, because your reject behavior pushes people away.

On ignore you go. I have an entire list of lames that can’t have a normal conversation. The pseudo-autism just leaks through the screen.

I wonder if rejects on the outside of the club get together in their feelings over stuff I post.
“She’s a feminist bytch!”
“Omg! I hate her! How dare she tell us that water is wet!”
“She hates black men!”
“PAWGS!”
“Heard she dated an Asian!”
“Grrr!”
“I can’t believe she’s posting pictures of normal people getting together!”
“DERAIL THE THREAD!”
“YEAH! 80/20! Nobody is happy in relationships if I’m not!”
“You gotta be perfect, 6ft, six figures, a thug or handsome or white! Otherwise you’re a liar!!!”
“Hurry up and insult the length of her posts!”
“Pretend you have her on ignore and still complain about her!”
“ARRRRGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!”

 

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this thread had so much potential


but this is the coli

Dont let the lames win. If you run across regular normal looking couples, post em.

people gon make me start snapping photos of couples I see in Target and IKEA. Then I’LL be the weirdo. Lame energy is contagious.

 

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Even if she has an Asian boyfriend or not.. Does that change the fact that black people are successfully dating?

I think some of these dudes posting from Mars.. And when OP post hundreds of pictures, they still crying.. If a nikka can't go to a local lounge and pick up some pu$$y then they are the problem..

I don’t even expose half the weirdo behavior I’ve encountered towards me on this site out of the goodness of my damn heart. Because I know this might be the only social outlet some have.

It’s hilarious. But also very sad. The crazy part is I’m normal/average my damn self. But I’ve never had issues meeting good men and maintaining good relationships. Probably because I know how to talk to people. Not saying I haven’t been through some romance issues, but that’s fukking normal. But by Coli standards, I should never have been engaged twice, shouldn’t be taken out on dates or treated well. I know tons of average blk guys doing just fine. They not rich. Average height. Just normal dudes. They got girlfriends that look just like them. They go through normal shyt. Work for UPS. Got wives who work as nurses or long-term girlfriends who are teachers or daycare workers.

Damn. Come the hell on. People juke moving to avoid personal accountability and introspection. Stop worrying about what other people are like and focus on why you ain’t got what you want.

They nuking basic shyt about life and looking for excuses.

 

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Ole boy in the first pic should have shaved that shyt off his head yesterday