Yea the female callers tend to think this way.
I do agree that if you look at the comment section under his YT, that’ll you’d see a lot of hurt men. I feel that they are hurt bc they are average men and are hearing that they aren’t average women first choice.
Tough shyt
cry about it.
A lot of his callers turn up their nose at the proposition of a loyal 45-50k earner and rather have a 200k guy that courts everyone. However real life shows different as Black Pearl said earlier.
What advice would you give an overweight single mother that wants a “high value man”? I think you and Kevin would agree on most things if you look past his bluntness.
This is too much to put into one post.
In answer to your response, those hurt men are delusional as well but somehow think they are better than their female counterparts in many cases. Look at some responses to these pictures and some dudes scoffed at how the chicks looked even as others responded that these couples were above average. There’s a subset of many who dont want women that look like themselves but want to claim that those women don’t want them. Which is fine. I would give them AND the single mother the same advice.
They are free to want what they want. But alternatively others are also free to not want them as well.
Then I would ask what they consider a high value mate to be b/c even that definition is absurd in many cases.
You gotta lotta people thinking they have to be over 6ft, have a tiny waist, light skin, long hair, make six figures or have a 10inch dikk and that equals “high value”. But high value to whom? The shallow people you REALLY desire. NOT the average person because average people linking up all over the place.
So my advice to those types who have unrealistic expectations is to do some deep introspection and think about why they want those types. In a lotta cases, these types are dating for validation and to fill in a void they have themselves from being ignored early on in life or rejected. So they need counseling to dig into those issues. To parse out why they feel entitled or need to feel like a prize. They need to answer why an average person with their heads on straight isn’t enough for them.
Once they do this, then I would advise them to consider what personality traits have kept them single or unsuccessful in love. Because as this thread illustrates, average people been linking up since forever. So what is it?
Are you bitter and is that energy coming thru in your interactions with the opposite sex? Do you CONSTANTLY talk about yourself and no one can get a word in edgewise? Are you shallow but look less than average yourself? We have a lotta “elbows too pointy” issues with some online. People calling Saweetie a six but they look like toes themselves. Want Elon Musk but got $8000000 in student loan debt... Do you interact with others outside of your family? When’s the last time you were able to be enjoyable company for somebody of the opposite sex? Are you dating out of financial desperation? This is particularly for some chicks and could apply to the single mom. I’ve met some chicks who be asking dudes to pay fukking bills before they barely know a dude?! That’s the same type of thirst as a dude constantly and awkwardly trying to escalate to sex every three minutes. You can’t relax in those types of situation or enjoy somebody because they are operating from a deficit/survival/desperation mindset.
I would ask these types what wounds do they need to heal that could impact a romantic relationship? What insecurities? What are you going to unload on a potential mate? I would tell them to attend to those issues and engage in some self-love first instead of focusing so much on finding someone else. Specifically for the single mom, I’d advise her to have the highest standards because she has more to think about than herself. She has a child and that means sacrifice. I’d tell her to keep working on herself, being a good mom, getting herself together financially, health wise, emotionally and engaging in this self-care would increase the likelihood of meeting good men because people worth a damn are attracted and drawn in by the momentum you create when you are operating in your purpose.
That’s just for meeting someone. She’s still going to need to address some deeper issues to keep them depending on her personality and build will power to vet with extreme discretion to ensure she gets the best mate that can fit into her and her child’s life.
Or they want to think they are better than their average.
