Average black couples thread

[semicko82]

I might not understand how levels work, but some of these people are above average in the looks department

 

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I might not understand how levels work, but some of these people are above average in the looks department

Some are and some are below as well. Some look better than their partners and some are equally yoked. It just kinda showcases the diversity of the different couples out there so people see that not everybody gotta look like a supermodel or be uber rich to get somebody.I’m not sure how levels work either. It takes a LOT for blks to look ugly to me.

 

[semicko82]

Some are and some are below as well. Some look better than their partners and some are equally yoked. It just kinda showcases the diversity of the different couples out there so people see that not everybody gotta look like a supermodel or be uber rich to get somebody.I’m not sure how levels work either. It takes a LOT for blks to look ugly to me.

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[Shadow King]

One cute picture doesn't tackle the issues discussed in dating...

 

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One cute picture doesn't tackle the issues discussed in dating...

True, but it does demonstrate that these issues aren’t insurmountable by any means.

Self-reflection is critical. Average, normal people fukk, date, marry, divorce, link up, cohabitate, make babies, interact with the opposite sex daily.

So if there are those who aren’t able to do so, the question becomes “why not”?

 

[MajesticLion]

Hey sis. I dunno the status of any of their relationships but I’ll be posting more videos that share stuff like that as the thread progresses.
The major takeaway, however, should be that you don’t have to be perfect or rich to date or get into a relationship.
Unfortunately, due to overdosing on the internet, people are living in their heads in a sea of insecurity. The internet has created a false reality or hyperreality where only people with six figures get love and only men with 10 inches get p*ssy, and only women lighter than a paperbag get chosen and only men over 6ft get chicks and only chicks that are size 8 and below get love.

Meanwhile, a simple cursory glance as you walk through Target reveals otherwise. Statistically, only 7% of the U.S. population uses Twitter and social media. And an even smaller percent are active users. So a minority within a minority of losers online are producing the majority of content, and giving the illusion of ubiquity.

These myths are safety nets and excuses for people who have crippling self-esteem and social skills issues to keep them from confronting themselves. Because as long as they can blame their own inability to get someone on 80/20, colorism, or how horrible the opposite sex is, they can avoid confronting why people run away from interacting with them or how abrasive and uncomfortable they make people.

Meanwhile, people poorer, less attractive, shorter, darker, fatter than them are getting out there and finding their yams. Even if we don’t know whether those relationships work out. They still at least making more progress than somebody at home acting like the world is impossible to navigate.

So we’ll remove excuses. If regulars can find love, then anybody can.

Noise does not necessarily equate to numbers.

That's one of my biggest regrets

Went to a private PWI because they gave me a scholarship for D2 football

Come to find out the head coach was racist

And a number of the white players were too

My family had a whole legacy at an HBCU in Arkansas

But I missed out on the greatest college experience there is because of scholarship money

Such is life

The grass may look more green, but never underestimate the value of a debt-free education. You're still you.

 

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Noise does not necessarily equate to numbers.

When somebody comes through and just distills your entire book into a pithy quote.Ole human sticky note, under 500 characters or less headass.

 

[Shadow King]

True, but it does demonstrate that these issues aren’t insurmountable by any means.

Self-reflection is critical. Average, normal people fukk, date, marry, divorce, link up, cohabitate, make babies, interact with the opposite sex daily.

So if there are those who aren’t able to do so, the question becomes “why not”?

People do all that, but are they consistently happy when they're not posing for the camera? Yes most men can find A woman, but are they going to be happy if he with her because that's all he can do? What amount of work and hoop-jumping did he do? How complete is he before her, when the self-work done doesn't open certain doors, is he satisfied with that?

When a woman hasn't learned that sexual options =/= commitment options necessarily, will they be satisfied with the commitment option not bringing the tangibles of the sexual options? Are they going to stay down through storms or select the bolded word (divorce) because of the safety net provided?

These pictures don't answer these questions. We're seeing what they (the couples) want us to see.

 

[semicko82]

People do all that, but are they consistently happy when they're not posing for the camera? Yes most men can find A woman, but are they going to be happy if he with her because that's all he can do? What amount of work and hoop-jumping did he do? How complete is he before her, when the self-work done doesn't open certain doors, is he satisfied with that?

When a woman hasn't learned that sexual options =/= commitment options necessarily, will they be satisfied with the commitment option not bringing the tangibles of the sexual options? Are they going to stay down through storms or select the bolded word (divorce) because of the safety net provided?

These pictures don't answer these questions. We're seeing what they (the couples) want us to see.

 

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People saying that the couples in the pictures are above average, how ugly are you?

And @Booksnrain salute to you for a very positive thread. Rep pending

 

[semicko82]

People saying that the couples in the pictures are above average, how ugly are you?

And @Booksnrain salute to you for a very positive thread. Rep pending

I said some of the people are attractive
Then again I don’t understand how levels work
One guy can see a female as a dime and the other guy sees her as average

 

[MoveForward]

I want another wife

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

post black men with white women