Who are these people? Are they married? The pics are super cute, but we don't even know if they still together, or if they ever were. I'm unclear on the projected takeaway.
@Booksnrain?
Hey sis. I dunno the status of any of their relationships but I’ll be posting more videos that share stuff like that as the thread progresses.
The major takeaway, however, should be that you don’t have to be perfect or rich to date or get into a relationship.
Unfortunately, due to overdosing on the internet, people are living in their heads in a sea of insecurity. The internet has created a false reality or hyperreality where only people with six figures get love and only men with 10 inches get p*ssy, and only women lighter than a paperbag get chosen and only men over 6ft get chicks and only chicks that are size 8 and below get love.
Meanwhile, a simple cursory glance as you walk through Target reveals otherwise. Statistically, only 7% of the U.S. population uses Twitter and social media. And an even smaller percent are active users. So a minority within a minority of losers online are producing the majority of content, and giving the illusion of ubiquity.
These myths are safety nets and excuses for people who have crippling self-esteem and social skills issues to keep them from confronting themselves. Because as long as they can blame their own inability to get someone on 80/20, colorism, or how horrible the opposite sex is, they can avoid confronting why people run away from interacting with them or how abrasive and uncomfortable they make people.
Meanwhile, people poorer, less attractive, shorter, darker, fatter than them are getting out there and finding their yams. Even if we don’t know whether those relationships work out. They still at least making more progress than somebody at home acting like the world is impossible to navigate.
So we’ll remove excuses. If regulars can find love, then anybody can.
Rep for the culture. This is the most authentic look on black love I have ever seen on the internet
