Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shyt storm ensues

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Not gonna lie. I rarely approach women outta nowhere. Usually it's an event or a friend of a friend. Even then I might take a while to even ask for number. Seen too many guys fail/bomb doing that. Had to cover my eyes at grocery store after hearing a FAIL.

Last dude I know was given a lecture by some black girl about being respected n not objectified. funny thing is we all told him to stop being shy/introverted and just go say hey, u look nice today. ask her about the book she's reading. Drew u LOVE books so show her ur into lit. n ask about fav authors n ish u know......smh i've never seen things go so bad. He came back sad as fukk. i felt that. that was the end of that. he's with a cute spanish girl now so c'est la vie?

This is smart!

Approach women you have a rapport with. It doesn't make you less of a man, it makes you a smart man. Your ego deserves protecting as well.

Who the hell started the "cold approach" is the manly approach thing anyway?
 

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You wouldn't date a 32 year old female no matter how good of a woman she was. Just because she's over 30. That's shallow and ageist. You also wouldn't date a chibby chick or an ugly one.
Not wanting a 32 year old is completely normal. A woman's fertility is got a few healthy years left on it. If he marries her in two years she'll be at the end of the threshold for having a kid healthy. Also you wouldn't be able to have more then one kid with her so there's that. Not ageist or whatever you wanna call it. If a man wants say 3 kids he has to marry a 24-25 year old unless he wants to risk down syndrome. Also no man is gonna get suckered to marrying a woman who waited until her looks have a few years left on them to want to marry. That 32 year old was in her 20s at some point.
 

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Not wanting a 32 year old is completely normal. A woman's fertility is got a few healthy years left on it. If he marries her in two years she'll be at the end of the threshold for having a kid healthy. Also you wouldn't be able to have more then one kid with her so there's that. Not ageist or whatever you wanna call it. If a man wants say 3 kids he has to marry a 24-25 year old unless he wants to risk down syndrome. Also no man is gonna get suckered to marrying a woman who waited until her looks have a few years left on them to want to marry. That 32 year old was in her 20s at some point.

Ok and not wanting an unattractive, broke, or short man is normal. But when women dont want those guys you guys call women shallow.
 

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Ok and not wanting an unattractive, broke, or short man is normal. But when women dont want those guys you guys call women shallow.
Men and women need to drop all the shallow complaining bs I agree. But can u concede that ageism is bs. And there's nothing wrong with youth/fertility mattering to a man?
 

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This is smart!

Approach women you have a rapport with. It doesn't make you less of a man, it makes you a smart man. Your ego deserves protecting as well.

Who the hell started the "cold approach" is the manly approach thing anyway?

Different strokes for different folks. I'm a big supporter of going for what you like, instead of trying to find attraction into whoever shows you interest. If the women that are throwing you signals are acceptable to you, then I guess that's cool. But if they aren't then you gotta be the initiator. Like another poster said, closed mouths don't get fed.

It doesn't make you less of a man to wait on interest to be shown first, but it makes you reactive instead of proactive. If I'm playing ball I'd rather create my own shot, instead of waiting for someone to create a shot for me.
 

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Men and women need to drop all the shallow complaining bs I agree. But can u concede that ageism is bs. And there's nothing wrong with youth/fertility mattering to a man?

I do not think there's anything wrong with that, I wouldn't date a man over 30 either so I can't say anything. the only reason I brought it up is because the poster i tagged is always talking about women being shallow but is shallow himself.
 

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She looks damn good for a 45 year old white woman.
99% don't though.
 

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Yesterday I went fishing in the nearby lake. I was dead-set on catching at least one fish. I was out there in my boat for about 5 hours and the only thing I caught was 20 tiny-ass fish :snoop:. I threw every one of them lil shyts back in the water.....

Brehs....how come NONE of the fish took my bait that day? Why couldn't I get at least ONE fish? Aren't fish supposed to bite the bait? :sadcam:

/THREAD Brehs
 
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On topic, this bullshyt only applies to unattractive males.
Its that axiom of "Watch what shes does, not what she says."
Logic and Reasoning is thrown out the window and replaced with hypocrisy when someone attractive comes along this applies for guys too.
 

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This is the post 3rd wave feminism generation. You reap what you sow. Women in the seventies wanted to abolish gender roles for women, demonisng traditional masculinity and calling it oppressive patriachy, and as a result you have a generation of men who were taught as youngins that theres no such thing as gender roles and masculinity is toxic. Now women are saying "where are the real men". Women need to start realising that the movement called feminism which sought to destory traditional female-male dynamic has been a failure with more and more women yearning that traditional alpha male.
 
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