Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shyt storm ensues

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Not gonna lie. I rarely approach women outta nowhere. Usually it's an event or a friend of a friend. Even then I might take a while to even ask for number. Seen too many guys fail/bomb doing that. Had to cover my eyes at grocery store after hearing a FAIL.

Last dude I know was given a lecture by some black girl about being respected n not objectified. funny thing is we all told him to stop being shy/introverted and just go say hey, u look nice today. ask her about the book she's reading. Drew u LOVE books so show her ur into lit. n ask about fav authors n ish u know......smh i've never seen things go so bad. He came back sad as fukk. i felt that. that was the end of that. he's with a cute spanish girl now so c'est la vie?
 
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Spectre said:
Last dude I know was given a lecture by some black girl about being respected n not objectified. funny thing is we all told him to stop being shy/introverted and just go say hey, u look nice today. ask her about the book she's reading. Drew u LOVE books so show her ur into lit. n ask about fav authors n ish u know......smh i've never seen things go so bad. He came back sad as fukk. i felt that. that was the end of that. he's with a cute spanish girl now so c'est la vie?
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:deadmanny: Perfect example....Most have to have some feeling that she'll be receptive before approaching.
 
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Elle Driver said:
I used to be mad at it, then realized y'all are juat absent minded and won't know something if it's not clear cut. That's why y'all consider us crazy, because you don't understand us, we don't get men sometimes either that's why we consider y'all dumb lol.
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Some person on The Coli explained the dynamics of men and women in an interesting way a while back: Men are macro, big picture oriented and women are micro, detailed oriented.

This why guys stay getting caught up with thots (big picture: the sexiness) and why them thots stay getting caught up with pockets (detail picture: NUMBERS).

However, thots should stop being in remedial pre-algebra get into MIT level calculus.
 
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Also, her explanation sounded word for word to what I read sometimes on MRA and PUA sites about men being feminized and nature having a preference.

Makes me wonder...
 
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Chrishaune said:
Depends on where she works and lives.
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Don't matter. Someone been trying to say something to her, guarantee it. You know how female math goes, if she gets approached by 20 dudes she eliminated on sight and one guy with potential, she gonna tell everyone only one guy approached her.
 
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The_Sheff said:
Don't matter. Someone been trying to say something to her, guarantee it. You know how female math goes, if she gets approached by 20 dudes she eliminated on sight and one guy with potential, she gonna tell everyone only one guy approached her.
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We don't know enough about her situation to say actually.
 
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jadillac said:
The problem is men are expected to put ourselves on the ledge with no safety net. Expected to fall on the concrete (rejection) and then get back up again. Like some women are rude enough to belittle you but Ur supposed to be good even after.

Plus when women go out alot now they stay in groups. Which is fine, but most men aren't approaching in that regard. Some will but most won't.

I don't want to have to try and impress your janky ass friends when Ur the only attractive one.

I don't approach all the ones I want to approach, but when I do I'm usually successful.
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This whole approaching thing is futile as hell and not the best way to meet tbh.

The issue to me is that we date these days like we're window shopping. See something you like from a far, come up to them, expect them to engage you. That's a set up for failure to me.

Most people, especially women, are simply wary of strangers.

There needs to be some kind of rapport before anyone lets their guard down.

I'm not a believer that guys should keep putting their egos out there to chicks they don't know. I'm a big believer in broadening your social circle so you can build rapport with more women to eventually approach for a first date.

Cold approaching isn't the only or even the best way to get a woman.
 
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Elle Driver said:
She's mad the men she wants aren't approaching her, at that point you might as well take matters into your own hands. Approach a dude if you're interested in him, light casual conversation is enough. Then it will go on from there. And as much as these days the conversations are about gender norms and roles, this is a consequence of questioning it. Personally, I don't think a woman should twiddle her thumbs and anxiously await a man to approach her. Men can be absent minded as hell, also they are not mind readers and don't pick up on things women expect them to. When you're 45 you might as well just approach the dudes yourself. :manny:
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Agreed! When did making small talk to open a door equate to men being too weak to approach you.

She sounds entitled tbh.
 
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