We live in an era where people walk around with their cell phones in their face all day.If you haven't already, learn how to initiate with girls. It should be obvious by now that a dominant, goal oriented guy is going to be more of a turn on than one who sits back and expects them all to chase him. I know that some may complain by saying, "she's a 40 yo who hit the wall, she just wants attention from guys, this doesn't prove anything!!", but really her point stands pretty clear and it obviously applies pretty well with a lot of our new generation of 'men' and the fact that it strikes a nerve with so many people just stands to prove it even more. In general, great read, and shows reddits reaction to a feminized women.
These dudes treat initiating with women like a friend request/like/follow.
I'm not the illest with the wimmin, but, I've never stood back like; " I wish I would get hit on."
That don't even feel right typin' out.