At what weight range is a woman officially "done" for you?

[STAN JONES]

Pinky can't be under 150.

She might be(I doubt it though),she not even 5 feet tall

 

[thoushallhustle]

I don't like fat girls. Oh shyt. Someone with high standards.

no one cares what you like boo im at the fact that you think anything over 120 is fat.

 

[The ADD]

Good luck trying to guess what a chick weighs

As long as she looks good it doesn't matter to me but I do like smaller framed females

 

[Sierra Mist]

no one cares what you like boo im at the fact that you think anything over 120 is fat.

I don't weigh much more than that.

 

[Still Benefited]

I don't know until I see it....I've messed with sum sexy azz big girls before and have seen many that had me ....if she got them breast,thighs and azz and a georgeous face I'm tryna get on her.....its when the body is sloppy lookin or unproportioned that throws it off....u ain't never see a skinny chick with no t*ts and big midsection....sum women just wide but not flabby and got that hour glass shape....sumtimes u go to fuk em and realize they just doubled up on spanx in the club tho....too late to turn back now

 

[Listen]

how long ago since she had the last boy? did she lose before she had the second one? if shes complaining about her weight but not eating better and exercising more than why is she crying? it takes hard work but its the only way.

btw, have you cheated on her or thought of doing it because you don't find her body attractive anymore?

Naw....I am not the cheating type, especially with my two boys. The thought of them thinking less of me when their old enough to know what I did is enough to keep me in check, plus I love my wife very much.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

This is a hard question to answer because you don't take height into factor

Also race is a factor, black women can carry their weight better than other races


Ideally I would like a girl that about 5'5 125 (add 10-15 pounds if it's a black woman)


Generally anything past 165 max is pushing it no matter the height

Damn... then call me a bonafied chubby chaser.

But my previous chick carried her shiit REAL WELL.

She was roughly 190 (give or take 20 pounds), but proportioned out well cuz girl was also my height (5'11, but with them heels on? She was a thick "amazonian" nubian queen).

Before her, i said the same thing a bevy of you guys have mentioned, "Oh, i won't be caught dead with anything past 130, 140, 150, etc.).

Imo, "cut off" weight isn't realistic and your missing out on some fantastic women by relegating your dating preferences to such stringent criteria (i'll admit, the woman i'm dating now is much smaller - even toned, but the amount of love i give is the same).


But when it comes to matters of the heart, the only thing that matters... is the heart.


.

 

[904]

Naw....I am not the cheating type, especially with my two boys. The thought of them thinking less of me when their old enough to know what I did is enough to keep me in check, plus I love my wife very much.

Question breh.. Pre marriage and kids, did she ever talk about staying in shape and looking good for her partner after getting older and having kids? I hear some women say they plan to and others be like whatever...

 

[SuburbanPimp]

As a general rule she has to weigh under a size 10. No exceptions

I like petite thick chicks, i would say 160 is probably my limit its all about how its proportioned though

 

[semtex]

any smart person knows that weight depends on more than one variable, not just food consumption.

 

[Listen]

Question breh.. Pre marriage and kids, did she ever talk about staying in shape and looking good for her partner after getting older and having kids? I hear some women say they plan to and others be like whatever...

Was never really a topic tbh...plus as I mentioned before, she came form good stock and was not heavy herself, so I don't think she ever pictured it lol.

 

[semtex]

but as a 230lb dude....a chick could be around 200lbs and there would still be a normal bf/gf weight differential.

 

[904]

Was never really a topic tbh...plus as I mentioned before, she came form good stock and was not heavy herself, so I don't think she ever pictured it lol.

Lol got ya..

Salute to u breh for sticking round and doing the right thing.. Maybe if you just workout and keep your own routine without saying anything to her she will follow suit.. Good women usually wanna stay looking good for her man especially if he going above and beyond to take care of his own body..

And go grocery shopping with her lol

 

[detroitwalt]

Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).

What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.



/ Rant.

What gotta you do breh is take charge of her weight loss on the low. Start doing the grocery shopping to take control of what kind foods come in the house, start doing the cooking and cook healthy stuff. She'll be looking at you like cause of this and you'll be looking her like cause she don't even realize you changing her eating habits.

Y'all bike ride as a family? Get out there with the boys and go for bike rides as a family.

Pretty soon she'll realizing she dropping a lil weight and then you'll be able to suggest a gym or something to keep it going. But you gotta do it without the smartassness you say u got in you.

 

[thekingsmen]

Anything over 120 is too heavy.