At what weight range is a woman officially "done" for you?

[SouthernBelle]

I am one of those men whose wife ballooned after some kids.

My wife was 5'6 135 when we met. 170 preggers the first time, lost it back to 150. Gained it back, preggers again, now sitting in my weight class and I'm 6'2.



Nothing I can do but smile and wave.

Have you thought about working out with her? Maybe you should bring up doing P90X or Insanity and tell her you want to do it as a couple...

 

[rapbeats]

Put it like this, I don't do fat, chubby, husky, or big boned

oh realllly.

http://www.ragnewyork.com/blog/wp-c...plus-size-model.jpg#beautiful plus size model


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http://madisonplus.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/marquita-pring-model.jpg

 

[Listen]

This is what I'm scared of


That's why I'm not opposed to a girl being a bit too thin when you marry her because eventually she's gonna grow into her body


Look at it as an investment in your future

Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).

What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.



/ Rant.

 

[Tres Leches]

I dont have a certain weight limit because each women is built differently but yea shes done if she gets I'll lose interest

 

[Tres Leches]

Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).

What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.



/ Rant.

I wish you the best breh

 

[Texas2step]

It doesn't matter to me how much she weighs as long as she isn't fat or chubby

I had a girl that I thought was 130 but turned out she was 170 and she was 5'6 but had flat stomach and a nice body.

It's not all about the weight, just the appearance

 

[Listen]

Have you thought about working out with her? Maybe you should bring up doing P90X or Insanity and tell her you want to do it as a couple...

It's yet to work. Plus, I am a sarcastic a$$hole who can't help but occasionally crack a joke at her expense, so even when I try to help she takes it wrong.

It's all mental for her. She's busy with the boys and keeping house and such, but she doesn't work out, yet shes not at home eating Ho Ho's all day either.

What makes it more frustrating is it's not even in her GENETICS to be as big as she is! Her sister is a stick, her mom was gorgeous (RIP) and not one of her blood relatives is even slightly obese.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

oh realllly.

http://www.ragnewyork.com/blog/wp-c...plus-size-model.jpg#beautiful plus size model


&

http://madisonplus.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/marquita-pring-model.jpg

Yes, really. Not to shyt on the girls that you posted, because they looked decent, but I don't do all that flab and shyt b. I need a slim or fit/athletic type body. I'm a skinny nikka

 

[Pillowysoft83]

Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).

What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.



/ Rant.

Damn sorry to hear that. Nothing against your wife personally but I can't stand when people complain about their weight but never want to do anything about it or take advice.

This thing can't simply be avoided by marrying a thin woman because you 1) Never now how much she could gain and 2) Never know where the weight will go when she gains it. A model thin chick is not necessarily going to turn into a Melyssa Ford type chick simply based on weight gain. It's more about weight distribution.

You must simply get a woman who likes to work out, no matter if she is thick or thin. If she likes to work out, she is more likely to check herself on any weight issues before it becomes an issue.

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

nikkaz who are insecure about their size are always scared of a girl with some weight on her so they only fukk with skeletons...

 

[DaPresident]

My girl is built a lil thick, and I love it...

def not fat by any stretch of the imagination...she's in the military and works out at least 3 times a week if not more...I love a woman with meat on her bones, not some stick figure...

but like ya'll said, she has to be proportioned right

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

I think height & weight are the difference with whatever size is too much... but cosmetically once she gets those "lunch lady" elbows it's about time to hit the treadmill...

 

[havoc00]

Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).

What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.






/ Rant.

tell her plus size ass to holla at me, id lick her down

 

[Sinnerman]

I am one of those men whose wife ballooned after some kids.

My wife was 5'6 135 when we met. 170 preggers the first time, lost it back to 150. Gained it back, preggers again, now sitting in my weight class and I'm 6'2.



Nothing I can do but smile and wave.

Men should be allowed to divorce their wives who have gained weight without penalty. sorry bro but better you then me

 

[Uffie]

Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).

What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.



/ Rant.

how long ago since she had the last boy? did she lose before she had the second one? if shes complaining about her weight but not eating better and exercising more than why is she crying? it takes hard work but its the only way.

btw, have you cheated on her or thought of doing it because you dont find her body attractive anymore?