Its TOUGH man. Were married, have two great little boys, and shes one of the true good women in the world......but she was already at the top of my weight class preference when we first dated. 150 was making me think she could stand to drop 10-20 pounds and get in real good shape. (She is very pretty though).
What am I supposed to do when shes this heavy? I talk about it and it just makes her angry. I try to help and make it worse, if I leave her alone, I don't see her working out to lose it, but shes crying trying on clothes because nothing fits anymore and she doesn't want to buy those next sizes up because it will mentally retard her ability to be a normal human being if shes in a plus size.....and all the while, I don't like the way her body looks anymore, yet I'm still attracted to her because shes my wife and sheit.
/ Rant.