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So why haven't you ever changed? Have you regretted your weight your whole life or is your love of food stronger than your desire to fukk women and lead a normal, regular healthy life?

Once you hit a certain point you just say fukk it.
 

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since you said that you lost some weight in the past and then lost focus, my question is, what exactly makes you lose motivation to stay on the path?

also, how much do you eat on average? if you do eat a lot, what makes you feel like eating so much? is it because you feel hungry or do you sometimes eat out of boredom? or is it something else?

I started coaching basketball and I think I let that take the momentum away from what I was doing. You know, there are a lot of factors that go into it. Not being able to handle emotions, not handling other responsibilities. I started using the coaching thing as a means to avoid self-improvement.

Honestly still working through that part so I'm not quite sure yet.


Since you've been on BB, What do you think about wetbreastss and his progression from 600+ pounds to where he's at now? Do you find it inspiring?

As a former fattie, I know if I can lose weight even being the depressed socially awkward guy who's a professional procrastinator that I am, then so can you.

Actually, the title of my bb.com thread is (video there too):
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=164213221

Not sure I find it inspiring as every person has their own journey, but I'm happy to see him succeeding.

Being depressed, socially awkward, and a professional procrastinator seems to go along with this type of body/lifestyle.
 

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I was gonna clown, but you a coli breh, so I am going to give some advice. Do you have a ymca or some shyt in your town with a pool? Do some water aerobic type classes so you can get your weight down and not hurt your joints.

Pushing over 500? God damn. :sadcam:

For real though, you need to get your weight under control, before it fukks up your joints.
 

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Word. How about now?

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Actually, I may have been a lot lower here, but still.

You don't look 548. Probably cause you're tall as shyt. :ehh:
 

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You do have a handsome face .... But 548 though? Whoa :merchant:

:sitdown:Awaiting the "no homo", "pause", or whatever else is needed with this. Thank you though. :obama:

So you know you've been fat, obese really.. and unhealthy, unattractive to women, unable physically or emotionally to go out and do things like going out to nightclubs, sitting to eat in a booth at a restaurant, etc....

So why haven't you ever changed? Have you regretted your weight your whole life or is your love of food stronger than your desire to fukk women and lead a normal, regular healthy life?

Kind of hard to explain.

It wasn't until I starting working around women that I realized I needed to really make a change. I was coaching with a dude who was a few years older and a legit ladies man. I had a nice car, a nice spot, and I realized that my life was shyt because I had huge holes in it. Dude had a profound influence on me.

When you feel fukked up in some way, you either fix it or focus your attention on other things. I was never like the, "oh my god, I'm so fat, I need to kill myself" type of dude. I became dynamic, always pretty quick, always kind of defied my size. To this day, my friends are in shape, smart, dynamic dudes. Girls always said I was cute. Even if they didn't take me seriously, the validation of knowing I was "cute" was enough.

Honestly, people fukking love me. I'm a fukk up in a lot of ways, but people have always liked and truly believed in my potential. It's crazy.

So it wasn't until I realized I wasn't doing everything I could be doing that I even begin to look at changing.

But make no mistakes, I'm a lazy, self-sabotaging fukk up too, so that is always an issue.

tldr;
I don't know what healthy and normal is. Hard to miss something that you've never experienced. Oh that, and people have always made me feel like I was the shyt, no matter what my size.

Good luck breh

Thank you kind sir.

Once you hit a certain point you just say fukk it.

I wish I had this in me, my life would be so much better.
 

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I was gonna clown, but you a coli breh, so I am going to give some advice. Do you have a ymca or some shyt in your town with a pool? Do some water aerobic type classes so you can get your weight down and not hurt your joints.

Pushing over 500? God damn. :sadcam:

For real though, you need to get your weight under control, before it fukks up your joints.

I'll look into it. Transferring to San Diego at the end of summer, definitely planning on getting into water related stuff (I can't even swim right now though).
 
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So you know you've been fat, obese really.. and unhealthy, unattractive to women, unable physically or emotionally to go out and do things like going out to nightclubs, sitting to eat in a booth at a restaurant, etc....

So why haven't you ever changed? Have you regretted your weight your whole life or is your love of food stronger than your desire to fukk women and lead a normal, regular healthy life?
breh, trust me, dangling women in front of brehs as a motivator does not work
people get angry rather than happy
like "ooh I wasn't good enough for you before?!" and they get really cynical and jaded
 
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