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how much you pushing right now?
Sheeeiiitttt.

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I coulda sworn you made this thread about a year ago?

How much weight have you lost since then?

I've made threads on here and bb.com a number of times. I lost quite a bit (-150), started coaching basketball and lost focus again. Moved across the country, did this, did that, no excuses though.

Started reading a lot on Arnold and decided to switch my mindset which has led to the current shift.
 

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No question---just wanted to tell you I already hate you and can tell that you make reckless and indulgent decisions...worthless to do business with too.

Step your game up, OP....I'll pray for you

Absolutely correct. Man, seriously, I've learned a lot about myself and I'm realizing that I am quite reckless and self-indulgent. Breaking these habits are honestly like breaking any other addiction, just a bunch of internal demons that have to be faced.

I wouldn't trust me either, in the last year: broken leases, quit a high-paying job without notice, moved across the country (DC), left a high-paying job and a great academic environment there, moved again (ATL), left again, left someone extremely important to me without even saying goodbye, ignored said person when they reached out to me, treated people who loved me like shyt, and so on.

Whenever fat people act like helpless victims I call bullshyt. Yes there are stigmas to this here, but a lot of issues come from being narcissistic, entitled, pricks who can't get their shyt together.

I'm honest.
 

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Man, I'm 6'8", the rolls are minimal for me (face rolls, body rolls are plentiful). Honestly, my face, especially when I cut, looks like it belongs to a much thinner man.

Women:
I'm only discussing women I find to be desirable.

Outside of being fat, I'm not a bad looking dude at all. What I tend to do as a fat dude is stick around in the cut and get women interested in me on some, "he's smart, funny, etc." Then again, I've had quite a few show interest off the break so who knows.

The real issues are confidence, self-esteem, body dysmorphia, etc. My internal issues kill the vibe more often than not man. I don't follow through, I don't want to get into sexual situations, I self-sabotage and so on.

But wait, it gets realer. A lot of people just end up asking if I'm gay. I've gotten it from dudes, girls, kids, whatever. Ironically, a lot of people think I should be doing a lot better with women. Internal demons are a mofo.
Damn, :mjcry:
 

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Ha, no. I see gut, that's about it. To shave them joints, need that strong mirror game...gotta strike at multiple angles like Julian Jackson in his prime. :lupe:



Taking it right now. No-Gi as I'm losing weight rapidly and don't want to grab a Gi yet. Also on that Muay Thai and weights 5 days a week. :salute:


:merchant: This one of the biggest struggles. People often think fat dudes get no play, which can be true, but the real issue is all of the body dysmorphia. Gets to a point where I didn't want to deal with all of the nonsense. So when chicks be on the hook, the equipment issue makes me overly self-aware. Not fun.
Another believer :blessed:
 

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I've made threads on here and bb.com a number of times. I lost quite a bit (-150), started coaching basketball and lost focus again. Moved across the country, did this, did that, no excuses though.

Started reading a lot on Arnold and decided to switch my mindset which has led to the current shift.
Jesus youre like the Big Show :wow:

You ever thought about professional wrestling breh
 

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How did you get that big? Are you the only big person in your family? What are you gonna do if you lose a bunch of weight and have sagging skin? Do you have man boobs?
 

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Jesus youre like the Big Show :wow:

You ever thought about professional wrestling breh

Met up with Ron Simmons once (Farooq), he straight up told me I needed to get in the business. :blessed:

I've never really embraced being a fat ass though, so I couldn't see myself playing Big Daddy V (or whatever 90's hip-hop gimmick he had).

Went on to beat Jay Lethal at darts later that night. :leostare:

How did you get that big? Are you the only big person in your family? What are you gonna do if you lose a bunch of weight and have sagging skin? Do you have man boobs?

Mom is big, brother played high-level basketball (6'7"), but now he pushing the scale too. Uncle is tall, but lean as fukk. So, ma-dukes put the fat game on us strong.

Once I lose the weight, I'll have weight-loss surgery. Man boobs in full effect.
 

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Met up with Ron Simmons once (Farooq), he straight up told me I needed to get in the business. :blessed:

I've never really embraced being a fat ass though, so I couldn't see myself playing Big Daddy V (or whatever 90's hip-hop gimmick he had).

Went on to beat Jay Lethal at darts later that night. :leostare:



Mom is big, brother played high-level basketball (6'7"), but now he pushing the scale too. Uncle is tall, but lean as fukk. So, ma-dukes put the fat game on us strong.

Once I lose the weight, I'll have weight-loss surgery. Man boobs in full effect.


So, you're fatter than Big Daddy V (RIP) was when he was alive? :leostare:
 
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