Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread

[RickyGQ]

It's funny, I'm seeing comments like "This is the worst lineup ever for the show", but the reality is, this is the dating scene for black men & women. Don't let the 35+ women come on this show and fool you. This was them 10 years ago. They're just singing a different tune because they've wisened up.

You could almost do a case study on these episodes when women are the lineup.

- They don't even maintain their own standards/preferences. "I don't like bald men", but earlier in the episode, hold their balloon for a bald man.
- "I popped because I didn't like your pants and your shoes", but a 6'5 breh will come out dressed like shyt and you will hold strong
- Groupthink is strong. Once a few women pop, they all start feeling pressure to pop. Bringing me to my next point:
- It's obvious that most of these women only want the men that other women desire. Once half the women start popping their balloon, and that aura is lost, the other women feel compelled to pop even if they're likely attracted to dude. You can see the wheels spinning. "But if all these other women popped, clearly something is wrong with him right? "
- Last point: I'm willing to bet the first guy to come out is always the most popped person throughout all episodes because the women are telling themselves that there's someone better in the back. So if you're shorter than 6"3, make less than 150k, or not a school safety specialist, you better tell BM you have to go to the bathroom first thing or it's gonna be a quick night for you

You nailed it though.

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

Arlette still scrounging up the scraps of the dating world….pulling brawds straight from the strip clubs. These brawds continue to be useless, jobless and waiting for the NBA player that won’t fart in their direction. Sasquatch chick in white gonna wind up with a 5’6” blue collar old dude..her choices getting narrower by the hour. Stripper chick is back yet again…what’s this the third time, got damn? Why is that rattatatted Carrington chik standing all wide legged and shyt? Uncouth hoe. Only the chik in green and I guess the lil teenager next to her have a chance and the green chick seems dumb af…nuthin but a dusty road the rest of the way down the line…

 

[jay83]

Arlette still scrounging up the scraps of the dating world. These brawds continue to be useless, jobless and waiting for the NBA player that won’t fart in their direction. Sasquatch chick in white gonna wind up with a 5’6” blue collar old dude..her choices getting narrower by the hour. Stripper chick is back yet again…what’s this the third time, got damn? Only the chik in green and I guess the lil teenager next to her have a chance…nuthin but a dusty road the rest of the way down the line…

This show low key is also hurting the image of women as well. Maybe not strategically on purpose but it def solidifies what a lot of men keep complaining about.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Another example of women popping their balloon because other women popped it. They should be honest and say they are interested in men the other women find interesting.

 

[Organic Trees]

These women truly don't know wtf they want. I noticed when a few pop early. The rest follows on some childish shyt.

 

[Playaz Eyez]

alright so after seeing the intros, I take back what I said about this being a “top tier group”. Only 1 chick I instantly locked in on and that was the one in the shirt green dress. Maybe the dark skinned one with the poofy hair, and the slim light skinned one that was on the who before, and that’s only cause I’ve seen her look better.

 

[Playaz Eyez]

Lmaoooo these women are so goofy with this first guy, they’re popping them simply cause the others did

 

[Playaz Eyez]

Wow that second dude got the smattering of balloons popped yet you can tell as he was talking they were interested

 

[TEH]

I really have to stop watching this bullshyt.

 

[RealAssanova]

One of the worst lineups this show has ever seen.

Delusional isn’t even the right word to describe them.

Every single one of them hoes was birds. Shorty in the all white kept mentioning height saying “she likes her men taller”…but what makes you think a taller man will choose you over his other options?

Women in 2024 think that just because they like or want a particular man, they should get it.

Problem with that is, those men that they want are the 5-10% and those men are fukkin 90-95% of the women. Meaning, he has options. So why would he choose you?

This is what they don’t understand. Then they get older, bitter and resentful because their dating pool shrinks considerably compared to men which vastly grows (provided a man takes care of himself).

They get used up by nikkas they want and are attracted to and then discarded only to then be left with “nice” guys or “provider” type men. None of which they are attracted to.

 

[Ohene]

The biggest lesson in this show is that the ideal age range for the most sensible dating seems to be 28-35. Anything younger or older and you’re fukked.

the problem is that women 28-35 have been hurt too much by past relationships and it hurts a) their desire to date or pursue relationships and/or b) their ability to function properly in one

out of all the women I have fukked this year / dated seriously this year, the older ones (29+) always had some emotional baggage that really negatively impacted their approach to dating and relationships. theres women who turn celibate, women who become hoes out of resentment for men, women who ghost randomly, women who get triggered by some shyt and lash out at you.

you can try to understand where it stems from and patiently work with it but a lot of the time it's futile.

 

[Playaz Eyez]

The second dude kicked out at 2.996

 

[Ohene]

One of the worst lineups this show has ever seen.

Delusional isn’t even the right word to describe them.

Every single one of them hoes was birds. Shorty in the all white kept mentioning height saying “she likes her men taller”…but what makes you think a taller man will choose you over his other options?

Women in 2024 think that just because they like or want a particular man, they should get it.

Problem with that is, those men that they want are the 5-10% and those men are fukkin 90-95% of the women. Meaning, he has options. So why would he choose you?

This is what they don’t understand. Then they get older, bitter and resentful because their dating pool shrinks considerably compared to men which vastly grows (provided a man takes care of himself).

They get used up by nikkas they want and are attracted to and then discarded only to then be left with “nice” guys or “provider” type men. None of which they are attracted to.

its true. as somebody whos probably in the 5-10% I get my fair share of rejection but i dont blame those girls because i know deep down I would only smash anyways. And considering I've smashed like 5,6 chicks this year it's true...nikkas really do be pipin all the women lol

i think a man can find women to fukk as he gets older but if he wants a real solid women it can be harder to find. I've smashed hoes ages 20-30 this year i think and I am 33...but none of the ones i smashed were women I'd take seriously as a girlfriend/wife because they were either too immature or broken emotionally

 

[Ohene]

the best place to meet a long-term partner/wife is in university I think. there is risk that yall may change as yall grow but that risk is there regardless of when you meet somebody. during school, especially if you live close to campus and on your own is when people have the most grounded expectations; its also where youre most likely to find likeminded ppl whom you have some common interests or goals with.

 

[Playaz Eyez]

Chick with the dark brown dress has such a flat ass I’m appalled