Nah the second cyber security dude is decently looking and gainfully employedThis...plus it's a shortage of dateable, gainfully employed, attractive heterosexual men outchea.
Women complain about this all the time. But men complain about lack of dateable eligible women as well.
women just lust after certain type of men and basketball dude is exactly it
tall, buff, tats, braids or dreads is the aesthetic that’s in with them. I have a friend from the gym who kinda fits the description (not the most buff ) and he tells me stories. Jokes on them cause he married to a pawg lol