Are OLDER brehs who are 35+ with no kids or a wife that way because they are really SOCIAL OUTCASTS?

[The Fukin Prophecy]

Nah this is a dumbass thread...

I've known many dudes in my life who were 35+, social, get p*ssy and not married...

Its a lifestyle choice, the married life ain't for everybody...

 

[Jazzy B.]

Social Outcast = a person who is not accepted or has no place in society or in a particular group

How can a person that HAS friends be a social outcast

When did words stop having meanings

That's the point.

If you are socially INCLUDED then you would have NOT got to that age without one of the two or both when everyone else has.

You 35+ (15 year after you were 20) and childless or have no wife, the family aint asking "what's up?"

 

[ogc163]

So given the facts that:

a) most black kids are born out of wedlock

b) black people have the lowest marriage rate

c) black college educated millennials and gen-z folks are having less kids than previous generations, which is likely more present in black Folks living in expensive metros.

On average a 35 year old black man without kids is generally avoiding being around:

a) Folks in baby mama/ baby daddy situations

b) Folks in janky situationships ( i.e. have 3 kids, been together for over a decade, and yet still can't take their asses down to J.O.P)

c) Stuck Folks whom a) and b) apply to while living in 2nd and 3rd tier cities.

I mean given the facts and probabilities, seems like the typical childless 35 year old is doing the right thing by not being around these type of people.

 

[Diyhai]

Social Outcast = a person who is not accepted or has no place in society or in a particular group

How can a person that HAS friends be a social outcast

When did words stop having meanings

yall really this slow
If you are in a community where everyone has kids and a wife and you don't
you stand out and people will look at you differently, not for the better

 

[Roid Jones]

That's the point.

If you are socially INCLUDED then you would have NOT got to that age without one of the two or both when everyone else has.

You 35+ (15 year after you were 20) and childless or have no wife, the family aint asking "what's up?"

Socially included does not mean doing the same thing everybody else is doing

 

[Roid Jones]

yall really this slow
If you are in a community where everyone has kids and a wife and you don't
you stand out and people will look at you differently, not for the better

Then OP NEEDS to use words and express himself better, saying people are Social Outcasts in 2023 for not having kids or a wife is hilariously false, what next having an argument with your girlfriend makes you an incel

 

[Jazzy B.]

Socially included does not mean doing the same thing everybody else is doing

Then you WOULDN'T have a job breh.

 

[Diyhai]

Then OP NEEDS to use words and express himself better, saying people are Social Outcasts in 2023 for not having kids is hilariously false

you will be depending on your environment
if you are in a family centric area you look like a weirdo and won't be part of the circle

 

[Roid Jones]

you will be depending on your environment
if you are in a family centric area you look like a weirdo and won't be part of the circle

You're presenting a case OP has not, maybe you should have handled this thread for him

 

[Jazzy B.]

yall really this slow
If you are in a community where everyone has kids and a wife and you don't
you stand out and people will look at you differently, not for the better

I don't get what they're not understanding breh or maybe they do but feel some way about the thread

 

[Jazzy B.]

You're presenting a case OP has not, maybe you should have handled this thread for him

I did.

I even said this in the OP.

I couldn’t imagine being that age without having at least one of the two when everyone around me my age has at least one

You just didn't bother to read it and felt away off the title.

 

[Roid Jones]

I did.

I even said this in the OP.



You just didn't bother to read it and felt away off the title.

False, you were blatantly asking how people can have friends and family with kids and they do not, the other poster added nuance you did not.

 

[Diyhai]

You're presenting a case OP has not, maybe you should have handled this thread for him

that is what he is talking about
if everyone has a wife and kids in your social circle and you don't its awkward for some people
they are talking about school for their kids or different things in their marriages and you can't participate

 

[Jazzy B.]

False, you were blatantly asking how people can have friends and family with kids and they do not, the other poster added nuance you did not.

That's incorrect when I clearly did in the OP.

I literally said if everyone in your social circle which is friends, peers and family are having kids or getting married in which this process would have started years before a person turned 35 how did you then not feel societal pressure to do the same before getting to 35?

That is why I'm asking is it the case because brehs in that situation are really social outcasts as in they are not close to any friends, peers or family so then in turn DO NOT feel any pressure to do so.

 

[Balla]

That's incorrect when I clearly did in the OP.

I literally said if everyone in your social circle which is friends, peers and family are having kids or getting married in which this process would have started years before a person turned 35 how did you then not feel societal pressure to do the same before getting to 35?

That is why I'm asking is it the case because brehs in that situation are really social outcasts as in they are not close to any friends, peers or family so then in turn DO NOT feel any pressure to do so.

So if most people in his social circle didn’t have kids or aren't married? Does that not make him an outcast?

Is age the problem or is the social circle the problem?

What if he has no social circle?

If you’re the “odd one” out, you shouldn’t have kids because of that, because if you did you would have had them already.