The Radiant One
Superstar
Yeah making six figures and now buying a house its hard to settle just because other people settle
Are OLDER brehs who are 35+ with no kids or a wife that way because they are really SOCIAL OUTCASTS?
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Yeah making six figures and now buying a house its hard to settle just because other people settle
Damn near everyone in my social circle/age are now starting to pop out kids or get married and I ain’t even 30. How are y’all older brehs getting to 35+ with NO wife or NO kids and NOT feeling out of place with your peers and not getting hit by the social expectation/pressure to have at least one unless you’re not outcasted socially?
I couldn’t imagine being that age without having at least one of the two when everyone around me my age has at least one
DISCLAIMER: Do NOT run in here comparing y’allselves to a celebrity. You are REGULAR
What if they are, you planning on condemning and killing them? What's the point of this thread?
One of my uncles is a 6'3, handsome, light-skinned breh with college degrees who never had a problem getting women from when I was a child to RIGHT NOW but he isn't married and doesn't have any children, but that means he's a social outcast?
Nah, breh. One star
Im 42
Got with my girl at 37 and i had no kids and never was married or really in a serious relationship until then..
95% of the dudes i went to college with or the few i grew up with were married and kids…
For me i kept running into women who was in rush like in 2 months to be serious, a few i met had a bad kid or two or a few others was cool but they had high body counts and u can only deal with them for sex only
Got with my girl at 37 and i had no kids and never was married or really in a serious relationship until then..
95% of the dudes i went to college with or the few i grew up with were married and kids…
For me i kept running into women who was in rush like in 2 months to be serious, a few i met had a bad kid or two or a few others was cool but they had high body counts and u can only deal with them for sex only
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
Some of yall are crazy and delusional
Brehs supposed to have it figured out at 35 in a Western Society that does everything in its power to rob the average person (much less Black person) of everything they have What year do you idiots think we live in?
Brehs supposed to have it figured out at 35 in a Western Society that does everything in its power to rob the average person (much less Black person) of everything they have
What year do you idiots think we live in?
Black Sinatra
Raised Glass to the Squandered Potentials..
this may sound odd and super contrarian to what you normally hear as suggested to men...in the west...concerning peaking and family building.
But.
If you are not actively working toward being financially and psychologically adept/prepared for creating a family after 30, you are behind the curve. I am not saying you have to create one, I am saying prepare yourself as a man to be able to. This is good for your health, wealth, and mental maturity. While we don't have the biological limitations that women have in this stage of life, we are prone to resigning ourselves to destructive habits as a lifestyle enduring into our middle age. This also is why our life spans are affected.
been a while coli...good to see some familiar fonts. I see the vibe is still alive.
But.
If you are not actively working toward being financially and psychologically adept/prepared for creating a family after 30, you are behind the curve. I am not saying you have to create one, I am saying prepare yourself as a man to be able to. This is good for your health, wealth, and mental maturity. While we don't have the biological limitations that women have in this stage of life, we are prone to resigning ourselves to destructive habits as a lifestyle enduring into our middle age. This also is why our life spans are affected.
been a while coli...good to see some familiar fonts. I see the vibe is still alive.
this may sound odd and super contrarian to what you normally hear as suggested to men...in the west...concerning peaking and family building.
But.
If you are not actively working toward being financially and psychologically adept/prepared for creating a family after 30, you are behind the curve. I am not saying you have to create one, I am saying prepare yourself as a man to be able to. This is good for your health, wealth, and mental maturity. While we don't have the biological limitations that women have in this stage of life, we are prone to resigning ourselves to destructive habits as a lifestyle enduring into our middle age. This also is why our life spans are affected.
been a while coli...good to see some familiar fonts. I see the vibe is still alive.
u spittin
if anyone disagrees they are on their peter panthis may sound odd and super contrarian to what you normally hear as suggested to men...in the west...concerning peaking and family building.
But.
If you are not actively working toward being financially and psychologically adept/prepared for creating a family after 30, you are behind the curve. I am not saying you have to create one, I am saying prepare yourself as a man to be able to. This is good for your health, wealth, and mental maturity. While we don't have the biological limitations that women have in this stage of life, we are prone to resigning ourselves to destructive habits as a lifestyle enduring into our middle age. This also is why our life spans are affected.
been a while coli...good to see some familiar fonts. I see the vibe is still alive.
You're definitely something I don't know about social outcast. Maybe you're too social. Maybe you love p**** too much. Maybe you're a downlow homosexual. Maybe you hate kids. Maybe your flabby and sick and what b**** want to lay with you. Maybe your flabby and sick and the women who want to Lay With You don't meet your unrealistic standards. So many possibilities
Heavy_Handz
Superstar
43. Married in 2023. Been with my wife since 2016. Raised two kids 17 & 20. Their mother deceased in 2009. Just took my son (17) this morning to get his braces removed and get his retainer. Daughter (20) is on her own, works & has her own apartment. Living the dream. Still alive.
It’s biologically natural to want to have kids and extend your blood line. It’s not about not wanting to have kids, it’s most of y’all are antisocial and can’t get along with people in person in general, so of course less kids are being produced.
ogc163
Superstar
How do the folks who agree with the threads premise reconcile the Black communities low marriage rare and high out of wedlock rate?
triplehate
Superstar
I got married at 40 because I didn't want kids and wouldn't settle for a woman that wanted to or had any. Ran my own race, now we happy as fukk.
their is a stigma against single mothers and men who have children out of wedlockHow do the folks who agree with the threads premise reconcile the Black communities low marriage rare and high out of wedlock rate?
the higher the social class the more its looked down upon
Peruvian Connect
All Star
EVERYBODY SETTLES!! Yall act like it's a bad thing. You don't have to settle for the first thing that come ya way, but you will settle.