Are OLDER brehs who are 35+ with no kids or a wife that way because they are really SOCIAL OUTCASTS?

[J.E.T.S]

Might need to get a sperm count done .

 

[DarkmanX]

I am and i feel this. Now whether i choose to become a social outcast or not is not that important but it is part of it

 

[Gritsngravy]

So what if your a social outcast?

 

[cdub123]

Having money to spend freely.
Having the ability to do what I want, when I want to.
Having options with multiple types of women.
Not wanting to settle for mediocre women.

I wouldnt consider that being a social outcast. I have a dope network of people I am connected to. It's a sense of freedom for me. I know eventually I will get married. A lot of my friends are engaged/married with kids but practically ALL of them say they wish they were still out in these streets like I am.

 

[tuckgod]

Yes, absolutely.

Women aren’t letting actual good men make it out of their 20s unhitched.

 

[Jazzy B.]

In terms social/expectation and pressure, people know better than to apply that to me.

It's not about anyone specifically pressuring you it's just about general age progression/expectation.

You approaching 40 and are at a function or gathering and everyone your age either has a wife or child.

35+ years is a very long time. It's a 10 years AFTER you were 25 years old.

It's like if you get your first job 40 years old.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

You guys should have to say where you live when you post in this thread. A couple of my friends have kids and another has one on the way. It’s not that strange to be unmarried with no kids at 35+ in NYC.

 

[Bolzmark]

Social outcast? I definitely don't feel that but some of us are so particular/picky about who we promise the rest of our lives to and procreate with that time can certainly catch up to you.

 

[Yaboysix]

Are u taking care of all ur kids tho? Black men have a negative rep when it comes to that.

Of course I am. Bring them with me to Tampa every 2 weeks

 

[Diyhai]

Rush marriage and kids before providing a stable home, 401k, annuities, trust funds, stock options, and catholic or private school tuition brehs

nygga he said 35
if you aint ready at 35 you are a bum nygga bruh
I think at man should be somewhat stable at 25
If your not you always can strive to get your life together but you definitely behind in life
and thats even if you don't want kids and that life style, you should be financially prepared at that point

 

[EastsideRio]

nygga he said 35
if you aint ready at 35 you are a bum nygga bruh

At 35 you should have all of the things I mentioned so what are you talking about?

Why Rush marriage and children when you a Nikka who get all the hoes like me? If you scared of being a single simp instead of a playa pimp then just say that son. Not everybody want a kindergartener at 37 brehs.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Yes, absolutely.

Women aren’t letting actual good men make it out of their 20s unhitched.

Super cap..

These women are not knowing brothas potential in their 20s. And usually spin the block in 30s. I know from experience

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I can't give an answer on that, so I'll just say this,

People who don't even know you will judge you for every little thing you do. So live life on your own terms black man.

 

[Roid Jones]

Social Outcast = a person who is not accepted or has no place in society or in a particular group

How can a person that HAS friends be a social outcast

When did words stop having meanings

 

[Roid Jones]

When you are 30+ paying all your bills, you should be less susceptible to peer pressure

Imagine brining a life into the world due to peer pressure