ogc163
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their is a stigma against single mothers and men who have children out of wedlock
the higher the social class the more its looked down upon
But most Black children are born out of wedlock, and so most Black fathers are baby daddy's (who generally don't have custody) and so wouldn't it make sense that a 35 year old man with no kids would be better off not being around these folks?
The problem with the OP is that he's lumping together baby daddy baby situationships vs black married folks raising kids. And the former is wayyyy more prevalent than the latter.