Saw it before, chick was cute as hell too & that nikka was fruitier than a glass of koolaid
excuse me
are black women really lettin they gay male friends hit?
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See this is a complex issue.I believe it.
But how is a nikka wanting to have raw anal sex not a huge red flag? Maybe I'm wrong but I've never been fiending for butt play ever and I assume most straight men aren't either, especially with no condom wtf, so how does that make it more believable that the HIV rates is solely the product of women getting fooled by dudes masking feminine characteristics and what not?
Somebody lying
My theory is, because being gay is so stigmatized in the black community a lot of men who are otherwise gay have a wife / gf, to please their family, friends, and most importantly keep them off-guard.
Some of them may even want kids
The reality is they're forced to repress their feelings of homosexuality because the backlash may cause more harm than good. It's not really unheard of either. It's fairly prevalent in the entertainment industry where image is everything.
Also it's important to consider how much we as heterosexual black men slander gay black men, to a point where they're looked as less of a human or less of a man. Being gay in the black community is seen as being weak. In our community the weak get preyed on and exploited. They the weak are more often targeted for violence attacks, verbally and emotionally abused.
xoxodede
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I will say porn making Men more out there.
It was this dude I use to like a lot in college - played football and all. We both were in long term relationships in college. He was my “what if” guy...
Anyway years later, we met up and tried to date..
Sent me a booty pic and was into some weird shyt... I had to leave him be.
I was so blown I made a LSA Jane Doe post :
He Sent Me His Booty Pic...
It was this dude I use to like a lot in college - played football and all. We both were in long term relationships in college. He was my “what if” guy...
Anyway years later, we met up and tried to date..
Sent me a booty pic and was into some weird shyt... I had to leave him be.
I was so blown I made a LSA Jane Doe post :
He Sent Me His Booty Pic...
yeah I'm not one to be overly sceptical, but the stats always appeared kind of weird to me. I might just be obtuse though. Like why are the rates so much higher among black women than white women? Weird.
Could also be dude with high counts, out here, just spreading shyt
Many black communities are indeed homophobic, although many are becoming more tolerant.See this is a complex issue.
My theory is, because being gay is so stigmatized in the black community a lot of men who are otherwise gay have a wife / gf, to please their family, friends, and most importantly keep them off-guard.
Some of them may even want kids
The reality is they're forced to repress their feelings of homosexuality because the backlash may cause more harm than good. It's not really unheard of either. It's fairly prevalent in the entertainment industry where image is everything.
Also it's important to consider how much we as heterosexual black men slander gay black men, to a point where they're looked as less of a human or less of a man. Being gay in the black community is seen as being weak. In our community the weak get preyed on and exploited. They the weak are more often targeted for violence attacks, verbally and emotionally abused.
I think it's a detriment, honestly.
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TheDarkCloud
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That thread, though. Holy shyt.
Now sis, I couldn’t make it past the first post. Are you still in contact with this man?
Right
And this leads me back to the theory I stated above,about why black men are on the DL....
I think black men are on the DL at a higher rate proportionately than other groups/ cultures and races of men because of how stigmatized it is in our community.
It's like which is easy to do, be gay and have a heterosexual relationship on the side or be openly gay knowing you're going being judged, victimized, given second class treatment by your race and peers who may think less of you. Along with still being a black male in America still having to deal with stereotypes and racism.
With that said, back to the spreading.
The highest at risk group of contracting an std/HIV are gay black men, but if they have a female partner, then the female partner is at high risk. Now what if this gay male has more than one female partner,diseases spread further.What if these female partner has sex with a straight male, (even though heterosexual males are at lower risk of contracting HIV, they can still get other std's just as easily) it spreads. And being at lower risk doesn't mean they're exempt from catching an HIV. When you one std it makes it easier to catch other std's
shyt is complex
I need to create like a web chart to properly demonstrate how I believe it spreads....
Oh yeah and as far as stats, I don't have any proof, but there's no way all the WW in college arent burning more than BW......
There's way too many WW in college and they're fukking way more than BW.....
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OF course they are. and I'm sure it happens all the time too
all it takes is one night hanging out w/the girls, they laughing, drinking, talking about dikk sizes
"shyt girl mines bigger than most yall nikkas's is...here let me jack it off so it can get bigger!!
next thing you know, they fukkin'.
all it takes is one night hanging out w/the girls, they laughing, drinking, talking about dikk sizes
"shyt girl mines bigger than most yall nikkas's is...here let me jack it off so it can get bigger!!
next thing you know, they fukkin'.
mortuus est
Veteran
alot of chicks be eating booty now , my main asked me to send her a booty pic
told her you better come to the brib and take the pic your damn self
xoxodede
Superstar
You have no idea...
He still contacts me - he says I’m the one that got away.
Last text I got from him was a picture of his new “sex dungeon” with pink and black dildoes on a massage table.
I didn’t respond and deleted the pic.
TheDarkCloud
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Right
And this leads me back to the theory I stated above,about why black men are on the DL....
I think black men are on the DL at a higher rate proportionately than other groups/ cultures and races of men because of how stigmatized it is in our community.
It's like which is easy to do, be gay and have a heterosexual relationship on the side or be openly gay knowing you're going being judged, victimized, given second class treatment by your race and peers who may think less of you. Along with still being a black male in America still having to deal with stereotypes and racism.
With that said, back to the spreading.
The highest at risk group of contracting an std/HIV are gay black men, but if they have a female partner, then the female partner is at high risk. Now what if this gay male has more than female one partner, then now it further spreads.What if this female partner has sex with a straight male, if they heterosexual males are at lower risk of contracting HIV, they can still get other std's just as easily. And lower risk doesn't mean they're exempt from catching an HIV.
shyt is complex
I need to create like a web chart to properly demonstrate how I believe it spreads....
Just to add to this.
Black gay/bisexual/lesbian youth are more likely to commit suicide than White lgb youth for this same reason.
I think a conversation really needs to be had about homosexuality and why it’s so stigmatized in the Black community. It’s 2017 almost 2018. This really shouldn’t be a big deal at all.
xoxodede
Superstar
alot of chicks be eating booty now , my main asked me to send her a booty pic
told her you better come to the brib and take the pic your damn self
Never...
And don’t let her take that picture - your booty will be seen by others. LOL
TheDarkCloud
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alot of chicks be eating booty now , my main asked me to send her a booty pic
told her you better come to the brib and take the pic your damn self
I think him sending a nude pic out the blue is what’s most concerning.
nikka hell yeah and that's not just some coli shyt. If you're the least bit hip you know a lot of these women fukk on their gay friends(male and female). Especially in Atlanta. I'll be damned if I deal with a woman who's always around her gay friend. And that's not me being on some homophobic shyt, but it's a known fact that people who go both ways are the most susceptible to stds.
I remember back in high school there was this clique with 3 chicks and a gay dude. One of the chicks fell out with the group and it came to head one day at the smoking spot when the outcasted girl told everybody that the other two practiced giving head to the gay dude almost every day. That shyt blew my mind back then, but I've been in the know about so many incidents over time I wouldn't blink an eye if I found out Tyler Perry fukks Oprah. shyt is common out here.
I remember back in high school there was this clique with 3 chicks and a gay dude. One of the chicks fell out with the group and it came to head one day at the smoking spot when the outcasted girl told everybody that the other two practiced giving head to the gay dude almost every day. That shyt blew my mind back then, but I've been in the know about so many incidents over time I wouldn't blink an eye if I found out Tyler Perry fukks Oprah. shyt is common out here.
mortuus est
Veteran
damn i didnt even think of that she does keep saying my booty look good tho, im just waiting for her to stick her mouth down there