We have Black men who are leaders but those are the ones who understand how powerful their seed is and understand that every woman is not fit to be the first teacher to their children.
And this is the problem. Ppl want to make split second decisions based on lust and then complain the next 18 yrs about this man or this woman ain't shyt. If you have your shyt together as a man who you give your legacy to should be of utmost importance. As a woman with sense, who you give your womb to is of utmost importance.
And sure accidents happen, but protection is available to both parties to mitigate those circumstances.
We talking real life here....
not fantasy...
your parents, my parents, and maybe the vast majority of those on coli
our parents had NO INTENTION of raising a family together
they had sex and pregnancy happened
THEN they tried to make the best of a situation
and if not for the pregnancy
they might have eventually broken up and went about their lives
is that not the case for most?