Am I missing out in Good Black Women because I dislike weaves?

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Some women get thinning hair as they get older.

So If you're dealing with women 35+ then your going to see a lot of wigs/ weaves. I dont mind so long as it's a wig/ weave of our hair texture.

Amara La Negra used Hergivenhair wigs and you couldnt tell

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

watch this as if Kevin Samuels isn't talking to women.... he's talking to you

Fam I may have to go back...I mean I really want a child of my own but my ex checked offall of the boxes...

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I feel you. It’s like 75 percent of them can’t walk out the house without some other woman’s hair on their head, and 3 pounds of makeup. And this is who we’re supposed to procreate with? How will our daughters value their Blackness, when their own mom has some blonde straight wig on her head?

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

If they can’t truely love themselves then they can’t truely love you. Period

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i never wore a weave or wig and barely wear make-up
but my middle name must be she aint ish, cuz errtime im in the hood dudes be like she aint ish
you get the point op

 

[Hazel Brown]

Spanish and white women wear just as much weave. Can y’all stop with these anti black topics
This place is disgusting

How is it anti black to prefer black women’s natural features?

 

[Hazel Brown]

Online is where you hear how every nikka and their brother prefers a woman to wear their natural hair.

Yet the women actually being sweated the most are the ones with weave and all sorts of other modifications.

Black Women: "I get more attention when I wear a weave or have my hair straightened. When I have my natural hair out, these same men ain't checking for me."

Black Men: "Lies. Lies. I don't believe you!"

So somewhere along the lines, the math ain't exactly mathing.

I don't understand how or why nikkas are always having drawn out discussions about hair anyway, Shyt is weird.

Yeah thats true, the women with weave definitely get the most attention so somebody’s lying lmao.

 

[Arizax2]

I don't prefer weaves either but it's not a deal breaker as long as it's not obvious and rediculouse...a deal breaker is a wig. I refuse to deal with a women that wears a wig. Natural is the way to go.

 

[Hazel Brown]

I don't like weave either and only date within my race. My girl rocks her natural hair. I remember one time she came with weave on, I was shocked lol. like why? She rarely does it. I make sure that always compliment her natural hair so she doesn't dare put that non sense on her head. Would I date a woman I find attractive with weave? yeah but its not ideal.

Your girlfriend is a lucky woman

 

[Turlast]

Listen, I'm just one individual and I agree that black men who like black women that rock their natural hair is a much smaller scale than dudes who likes weaves.

But for me I don't like them. Im very low key and when I see a woman that depends on a weave to raise her beauty standard all I can think of is all the maintenance she has to put into it because if she doesn't its going to look bad and smell funky

But as I mentioned before I would like a woman that works out and the two really don't mix well unless she is constantly throwing money towards her up keep

I'm not understanding how this is weird though.....inhabe to be with this person for the rest of my life...to me rocking hair that doesn't naturally look like yours is weird unless you have some kind of medical condition

You wanting a woman with natural hair isn't weird. I'm mainly speaking on how the hair topic always ends up being some huge discussion amongst Black Men. Not just here, but everywhere. Dudes be hosting 6 hr panels talking about hair while streaming. And it be nothing but dudes on the panels talking about it.

 

[Piff Perkins]

So you don't like weave but you did like a 47yo woman with multiple kids?


I think you got your priorities mixed up.

 

[desjardins]

It's just hair and I'm not about to let weave stop me from getting buns
I actually never dated a woman with weave or heavy make up but damn sure done smashed some
During the "talking" phase you can just let it me known what you like and how weave/make up is a turn off. You'll be surprised what a woman will change for a man she really likes. And if not do you really want to be with a woman that attached to fake hair

 

[3rdWorld]

Anything on a person's body that cannot really be washed can become offensive..

 

[Hazel Brown]

@Cereal_Bowl_Assassin

 

[Hazel Brown]

So you don't like weave but you did like a 47yo woman with multiple kids?


I think you got your priorities mixed up.

You are so disrespectful, it’s unbelievable.