Am I missing out in Good Black Women because I dislike weaves?

[Raphaello]

I never understood the issue with weave. Nikkas really tripping over it like that?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You’re telling men what they should/shouldn’t like if they think you look better without weave it doesn’t matter if YOU think you look better with it .

A lot of brehs don’t like weave. It is what it is. Men are the consumers of the product you’re selling.

Here's a pro-tip for men when picking a woman: if she's not willing to change her hair for you, throw her to the bushes.
God never intended for you to be with a rebellious and disobedient women

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I never understood the issue with weave. Nikkas really tripping over it like that?

I hate fake beauty. Men put up with way too much bullshyt from women. A broad would never accept fake success from men, but we will accept bytches with fake ass, fake hair, fake t*ts, fake nails, and fake eyelashes like it's a come up

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Here's a pro-tip for men when picking a woman: if she's not willing to change her hair for you, throw her to the bushes.
God never intended for you to be with a rebellious and disobedient women

The only thing I’ll disagree on is… IF she was already wearing weave before you met her, you can’t be mad at her for not changing it. I understand that centuries of indoctrination/white supremacy has made it hard for black women to love and accept their natural hair.

I’d say like me, if you don’t mess with weave, just avoid women who wear it all together. Otherwise, it will be a constant battle. I just don’t deal with any woman who’s buried under mounds of artificial beauty.

 

[brandy]

Yes because how do you know it's a weave? If it blends with her natural or she presses it, you are excluding women for no reason. Aren't you in Philly too? You have options for black women with natural hair.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

The only thing I’ll disagree on is… IF she was already wearing weave before you met her, you can’t be mad at her for not changing it. I understand that centuries of indoctrination/white supremacy has made it hard for black women to love and accept their natural hair.

I demand obedience from the women I date. So either the weave goes or I go

I’d say like me, if you don’t mess with weave, just avoid women who wear it all together. Otherwise, it will be a constant battle. I just don’t deal with any woman who’s buried under mounds of artificial beauty.

I haven't fukked with a bytch with a weave in years. Like I said earlier, I despise fake beauty. Any chick that I take seriously is gonna have to be attractive without the costume on. And most "pretty" women are average as fukk in their natural state.

 

[Turlast]

Online is where you hear how every nikka and their brother prefers a woman to wear their natural hair.

Yet the women actually being sweated the most are the ones with weave and all sorts of other modifications.

Black Women: "I get more attention when I wear a weave or have my hair straightened. When I have my natural hair out, these same men ain't checking for me."

Black Men: "Lies. Lies. I don't believe you!"

So somewhere along the lines, the math ain't exactly mathing.

I don't understand how or why nikkas are always having drawn out discussions about hair anyway, Shyt is weird.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

edit: most nikkas don't care but some of us do

This is all it comes down to, what I push against is the over analysis of weave or fake hair. High key my natural hair is dope, straightened, it hits mid back and I have a dope curl pattern, I love it, me rocking a weave, braids, faux locs, a wig or a phony pony it’s all just different ways to rock hair/switch up my look and I think it’s dope that women have that versatility, a lot of women see it that way, hair is an accessory.

That said, even if a woman is insecure about her hair, why would you hate on her doing something to help her esteem? That’s like hating on a fat girl working out or someone with acne using concealer. The style can not be for you/your preference, but it can not be your preference without the judgment. People who care about their looks always gonna take advantage of the tools available to enhance themselves, now those who go make a whole new person, that’s an issue. But nothing wrong with a sensible weave, natural makeup, or a push up bra lol

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I don't like weave either and only date within my race. My girl rocks her natural hair. I remember one time she came with weave on, I was shocked lol. like why? She rarely does it. I make sure that always compliment her natural hair so she doesn't dare put that non sense on her head. Would I date a woman I find attractive with weave? yeah but its not ideal.

 

[Hazel Brown]

Breeh… I was gonna make a thread on this but you can’t have an honest conversation on here about weave/wigs.

The reason I am vehemently against dealing with any women like this is because years ago, I was fooling with this girl in my college. I stayed at Hers.

So in the middle of the night, I go downstairs to get some water. As I go back to the bedroom, I thought I saw a ghost like figure at the bedroom door looking like Cousin Itt from the Addams Family. I scream and go to hit it. The door swings open and I see the girl I was dealing with, with a damn near bald head with a wave cap on top. I scream again.

With the light now on, I notice she hung her weave on the door knob. After that, I said never again. Plus, I like to be able to run my fingers through a woman’s hair. But to some, that’s “c00n talk”.

Lol this story was hilarious, thanks for sharing

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

i don't get the issue with weave, like this aint 1990 when weaves was atrocious. now if you mean 2 pounds and 30 inches of hair on her head weave, i get it, but a normal, well kept weave? you really bothered by this because there are some tracks in there?

Sometimes or other times its the entire head. Every woman is different but I prefer women in their natural state. A little make up is fine but when a woman's entire facial structure changes because of her weave and make up i dont want any parts of her. If I'm planning on being with you for the rest of my life I have to see the real you. I want to be attracted to the real you not someone who I thought you were...maybe I'm being petty..idk

In the end its just a preference of mine and all I really ask for is someone nice, respectable and works out (seriously not just for ig)

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Online is where you hear how every nikka and their brother prefers a woman to wear their natural hair.

Yet the women actually being sweated the most are the ones with weave and all sorts of other modifications.

Black Women: "I get more attention when I wear a weave or have my hair straightened. When I have my natural hair out, these same men ain't checking for me."

Black Men: "Lies. Lies. I don't believe you!"

So somewhere along the lines, the math ain't exactly mathing.

I don't understand how or why nikkas are always having drawn out discussions about hair anyway, Shyt is weird.

Listen, I'm just one individual and I agree that black men who like black women that rock their natural hair is a much smaller scale than dudes who likes weaves.

But for me I don't like them. Im very low key and when I see a woman that depends on a weave to raise her beauty standard all I can think of is all the maintenance she has to put into it because if she doesn't its going to look bad and smell funky

But as I mentioned before I would like a woman that works out and the two really don't mix well unless she is constantly throwing money towards her up keep

I'm not understanding how this is weird though.....inhabe to be with this person for the rest of my life...to me rocking hair that doesn't naturally look like yours is weird unless you have some kind of medical condition

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

@Fisher

 

[Amo Husserl]

Don't force yourself to like something about a woman you know you don't, you'll be playing yourself.

 

[3rdWorld]

I never understood the issue with weave. Nikkas really tripping over it like that?

Because it's a clear indication of severe insecurity, and a touch of c00nism.

The women under weaves all act mighty and brave, but are really insecure little girls that lack the confidence to be their true selves. That is a horrible quality in a woman, you cannot allow such thinking to raise your seed.