Misogyny in this thread. 
Admit it brehs, a 30+ year old women who isn't married is someone you question
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prophecypro
Hollywood North
Depends on how hot she is.
She might be more professional about wanting some cut up
She might be more professional about wanting some cut up
I see tons of single (and childless) 30+ women, many of whom are quite good looking.
Some women put careers and passions above romance and thus have trouble finding partners. Being 30+ and single is not uncommon, nor is it questionable.
Some women put careers and passions above romance and thus have trouble finding partners. Being 30+ and single is not uncommon, nor is it questionable.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Question her? no she' just a strong independent woman who has stalled starting a family to help make a white mans company lucrative so she can brag about how great her life is to people with children .I feel guilty I even feel this waybut I can't help it
. Because you know they're not single out of choice
nah...30 is the new 20...
Yeah..... But you pourin hot jelly on yaself if ya not questioning all these hoes regardless 
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
this is so stupid, why do you put such an importance on a man made ritual like marriage?I feel guilty I even feel this way
some women don't want to sign promise contracts,
I know people 50, unmarried and been together since teens.
Ummm...I used to think this was a big deal before I started learning facts about black women in a public education class.
70% of all black women are single and/or never been married.
You hear it in the media, online, some negros gleefully shouting it from the rooftops as justification for their Becky worship, and for years blk women where scratching their heads (weaves sorry my bad we all know blk women can't have hair) wondering what is going on.
The pressure is on doubly so because of this myth that we never get married...
I hate to be a technically whore, but the truth is out now. Recent studies show that blk women get married at similar rates as other groups of women, and at higher rates than other groups in some states. However we mostly get married in mid-to late 30s.
Earlier studies sample ages for their findings were ages 18-25. So when ABC and Fox and the internet ran this story, they decided to leave all these factors out while slinging our reputation through the mud.
Just wait until we talk about that 70% OOW baby stat. The facts will blow ur mind...but none of this will stop that c00n from hoping and praying that everything evil he's heard about blk women is true.
Regardless, blk women have many reasons to prolong the traditional marriage route, as financially we more than other groups of women have always played a larger role in the workforce. We're also the primary caregivers of our parents in many cases and there is a lot of drama and pitfalls to avoid out there.
Personally, I didn't start checking for dudes until my late twenties. I was traveling in school from the time I was 21-28. Japan, Thailand, Canada, and now the dirty South. If not for the distance and the WtF? Factor I may have been a Japanese dude's wifey. Had a long term bf in grad. school in Canada, and he was talking about marriage, but I found out he wasn't true. So now I'm relatively settled, and dating. Life happens and I'm kinda glad I didn't let the pressure of marriage and kids push me to be a baby mama or get into a premature, resentful marriage.
I'm still working on me and not really concerned b/c when it does happen, I want this shyt forever. fukk a divorce.
70% of all black women are single and/or never been married.
You hear it in the media, online, some negros gleefully shouting it from the rooftops as justification for their Becky worship, and for years blk women where scratching their heads (weaves sorry my bad we all know blk women can't have hair) wondering what is going on.
The pressure is on doubly so because of this myth that we never get married...
I hate to be a technically whore, but the truth is out now. Recent studies show that blk women get married at similar rates as other groups of women, and at higher rates than other groups in some states. However we mostly get married in mid-to late 30s.
Earlier studies sample ages for their findings were ages 18-25. So when ABC and Fox and the internet ran this story, they decided to leave all these factors out while slinging our reputation through the mud.
Just wait until we talk about that 70% OOW baby stat. The facts will blow ur mind...but none of this will stop that c00n from hoping and praying that everything evil he's heard about blk women is true.
Regardless, blk women have many reasons to prolong the traditional marriage route, as financially we more than other groups of women have always played a larger role in the workforce. We're also the primary caregivers of our parents in many cases and there is a lot of drama and pitfalls to avoid out there.
Personally, I didn't start checking for dudes until my late twenties. I was traveling in school from the time I was 21-28. Japan, Thailand, Canada, and now the dirty South. If not for the distance and the WtF? Factor I may have been a Japanese dude's wifey. Had a long term bf in grad. school in Canada, and he was talking about marriage, but I found out he wasn't true. So now I'm relatively settled, and dating. Life happens and I'm kinda glad I didn't let the pressure of marriage and kids push me to be a baby mama or get into a premature, resentful marriage.
I'm still working on me and not really concerned b/c when it does happen, I want this shyt forever. fukk a divorce.
The worst is when her friends are all married / engaged, and she's the odd one out.
One of my former female colleagues dreads going home for the holidays, because there is so much focus on when she's finally going to settle down with a man.
Then I have male friends who have ended relationships, because they started feeling the heat about a proposal -- straight gave those girls the. One of the reasons I'm weary of dating older women.
women hate being the odd one out when all their friends are getting married.
especially in this "look at me" social media era.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
i disagree but you're entitled to your own opinion.
feelosofer
#ninergang
Naw being 30 and not married is not that big a deal especially if she has no kids and a career. 35 is when the red flags start going off and it's like ok she never planned to or can't keep a man.
